When I was a child, my mother taught me to do more good deeds and do more things that benefit others. In China, there is an old saying, "There is Qing Yu in the house of good deeds", which means that if you do more good deeds, you will be rewarded. Not only the parties, but also family members and relatives are rewarded. If one person does good deeds, the whole family and even relatives and friends will benefit. This is what the sages said.

In the world we live in, there is a law of karma. If you do more good deeds, you will be rewarded. Altruistic behavior is to treat people with kindness, sympathy, kindness and compassion.

Mr. kazuo inamori cited an example in his book: In order to help a friend out of trouble and serve as a joint guarantor of his loan, he thought he had done a good deed, but unexpectedly he got into trouble, so that he even got into trouble.

On such occasions, giving generously based on personal feelings is a problem in itself. Because I didn't think deeply about why he was in debt, and now I help him, will he be desperate? When he comes to you for help, you sympathize with others and help him without thinking. On the surface, you helped him, but not necessarily. This may encourage him to be sloppy, extravagant and lack of planning. When you need to make a judgment, you can't be emotional. The crux of the problem lies in whether the benchmark for judging is "great goodness" or "small goodness".

There are countless such things in the works. Today, Xiao Wang met a problem he didn't understand at work. Please help him finish it. You helped him out of friendship among colleagues. A few days later, he asked you for help again. You were too embarrassed to refuse and helped him finish it again. Over time, he formed a kind of dependence, looking for you when he encountered problems, because he knew that you would help him unconditionally. Such a person who doesn't know how to refuse not only didn't help him, but hurt him. Even if he has tried to solve this problem, what he has learned is what he really has.

When helping others, we should look critically at what can be helped and what is truly altruistic; What can't be done? Know how to refuse, don't be embarrassed.

"Love is not for others", there is nothing wrong with sympathizing with others and doing more good for others, which is bound to benefit others and benefit themselves. In order to make life happier, we should do more good deeds and do more things that are beneficial to others.