We always yearn for a quiet life, hope that life is a smooth and upward straight line, and regard simplicity and ordinary as our ideal state of looking forward to life. We hope that the final success will bring a quiet manor like a paradise. This is the dream that we have been pursuing all our lives, and it is also the other side of life that we may know that it can't be realized, but we still have to pursue endlessly. However, when we return to the real situation, we often realize that although we have been watching the paradise of peace, every step under our feet is full of mud and hardships, and sometimes even unbearable pain and disturbance. Life has been tangled and tortured from the beginning, and the true sense of existence that we occasionally lose needs to be re-established in suffering and hardship. Our wandering weakness and indulgence need to be transformed into courage and firmness to realize ourselves in the mud and thorns. Even when we are burdened with burdens and pressures that ordinary people can't bear, we can really feel every minute that belongs to us. Of course, in the minds of most people, difficulties and failures are the biggest enemies that hinder us from reaching the peaceful paradise we are pursuing. More people will expect less trouble in life and regard smooth sailing as a beautiful vision of the whole life process. For those who have really experienced life, peace is bound to be accompanied by disturbance, happiness needs to be accompanied by pain, and glory always exists with hardship, while the former may be just a good wish to guide life forward and can never be realized, while the latter is an inevitable existence of life and reality and a necessary clue to prove its existence. When we recall the past, we may remember more inspiring and fantastic happy events, but that's because we prefer beautiful fixed thinking to influence our choice of memory content. In fact, if we treat the fragments of the years left in our minds fairly and let them reappear randomly, we will be surprised to find that the first, richest and deepest memories will always be those complicated, frustrating difficulties and even painful moments. The drift bottle of time is full of moments that make us hold our breath, and what takes away our breath is more often the ubiquitous predicament and pressure. We will try our best to ignore the fetters and pressures of reality, replace the real pain and struggle with temporary joy and relaxed happiness to achieve the whole of life, and deceive ourselves to condense the whole process of life into even a minute of self-pleasure. However, no matter how hard we rack our brains to cover up and erase it, deep down, we always unconsciously look forward to difficulties and hinder the arrival of pain, even those seemingly happy and ordinary moments are to meet the arrival of pain and bitterness. It seems ridiculous, but this is the real life. Like an attractive box of chocolates, we never know what we want until we open it. Because the expectation of sweetness and happiness is too strong, and their appearance is so commendable, so that we have illusions and deviations in the experience of real life, and there are doubts and contradictions when looking back: on the stage of life, happiness and pain, prosperity and adversity, who is the foil? In fact, we have never forgotten, just as life can't bloom beautiful flowers in lies, and life can't go to the real other side smoothly.