First, facing comparison-what is the comparison between people?

This is an era of cooperation and competition. People compare every day, but the key is to compare what? How come?

Second, a brief analysis of the current school comparison phenomenon

The first is better than wearing. Some students are very particular about their clothes, and like to keep up with the latest trends, wear famous brands and play "cool" and "pie". It seems that only in this way can they show their identity and status. In fact, this is a sign of self-distrust. It is better to decorate yourself with famous brands than to enrich yourself with knowledge and wisdom.

The second is to compare things. Some students like to pursue high-end stationery, mobile phones (PHS), MP3 and other high-end items. It seems that whoever uses the most fashionable and expensive things can best represent the trend, who has the most money and who has the most "status" among the students. In fact, this is a kind of vanity and inaction.

The third is better than food. I bought it at the canteen during class, and urged my parents to send it at night, put it in the desk drawer and hid it in the closet. There are all kinds. I prefer snacks to dinner. I just want to eat what I like, and gluttony will affect my health. Overeating is not good for your healthy growth, but consciously letting yourself suffer a little is good for your growth.

"Eating", "wearing" and "using" are the needs of people's lives, and there is nothing wrong with pursuing a high-quality life. But as a student, blindly paying attention to "eating", "wearing" and "using" will lead to self-loss, loss of ambition, distraction and neglect of study.

Third, how to compare is healthy:

(Advice: Creation is more important than enjoyment. )

1, character is not as good as goods, and character is more important than goods. Family, school and society value students' character and ability. It is much happier to enjoy the value created by your own labor than to enjoy the fruits of your parents' or others' labor.

2. "No more than wearing clothes than studying, no more than stationery than eating and drinking, no more than family."

3. Comparison: See who has the greatest vision, who has the steadiest steps and who is best prepared for his future.

4. Comparison is not simply applied, blindly imitated, nor can you lose yourself and become a template for others. Otherwise, it will have the same effect as the toddler Dong Shi in Handan, and lose my true self.

Comparison is not a struggle, not a fight. If it's not mine, I'll take nothing. Everything has an end, and fame and fortune are gone.

The comparison is not to engage in organ, plot against, jealousy, gossip, slander, slander, once reduced to this point, you will be on the edge of the cliff, a little tilt, you will fall into the abyss, broken bones.

5, compared with ABI, only pay attention to pleasure Compared with others, glory is like a crown on your head, which is a muddy thing.

People who are overwhelmed by the advantages of others are cowards.

It is a wise man to refine vigilance by comparing the gaps between all things.

People who constantly introspect, surpass themselves, care about the sufferings of others, and have great benevolence and love are warriors and saints. Then he was the biggest winner.

6. Competition is a kind of competition and a kind of motivation. This kind of motivation is enormous, and it can make people keep moving forward and making progress. Imagine, if there is no competition in the world, people will definitely not advance, and they will definitely not be motivated, which is fatal. If you don't make positive progress, you will always stay in the ancient times of slash and burn.

Fourth, materials.

1, Shi Chong and Wang Kai were relatively rich in ancient times.

2. Idiom: Learning from the East is effective, while learning from Handan is a toddler.

At present, the whole world is paying attention to the healthy growth of students, and there are many ways to stop campus comparison. For example, Germany considers unifying school uniforms and stopping fans of campus famous brands; Singapore explicitly prohibits middle school students from wearing famous brands; The royal children of British aristocratic schools must participate in social practice activities and share joys and sorrows with the children of civilians. In China, "Life without comparison" is listed as an important item in the Code for Primary and Secondary School Students newly promulgated by Beijing Municipal Education Commission.

When the new store opened, a boss rolled firecrackers with 3000 RMB.

5. A better theme:

Argumentative paper:

Xu Xiaoming's "incomparable"

He Xiaofeng's Comparison between Ci and Two Knives

Zhu Cuiting's progress in Belgium

Chen Wenting's "Like a Good End"

Narration: "It's all caused by comparison."

Verb (abbreviation of verb) model essay:

Double environment is created by heart.

Compared with Tasha, we should know Qi. Learn from Qu Yuan's infatuation, patriotism and loyalty; Sima Qian's forbearance in his career is extraordinary and brave; Tao Qian returns to nature, quiet and leisurely; Li Bai is elegant and free from vulgarity, full of pride; Du Fu forgot himself and worried about his country and people. Su Shi is broad-minded and free-spirited. Compare with them, find out the gap, and then be willing to rely on them, so how can you constantly improve your life realm, and how can you not get the freedom and openness inside? In the process of searching after comparison, your soul begins to gradually transcend vulgarity and move towards nobility. After purification, your soul will be painted with beautiful colors, such as the breeze on the river, the bright moon in the mountains and Ming Che's poetry.

Compared with the people around you, you can also compare with them. Than what?

Compare who can find pleasure in monotonous and ordinary work and make unremitting efforts for it.

Compare who can persist in hard work, struggle for dreams, and keep smiling confidently.

Who wants to hold their own fountain for thirsty and anxious travelers and leave a cool and sweet to others?

Than who can become a stranger in distress, stretch out your hands and warm your cold heart.

Compare who can transcend material desires, fame and fortune, not be fettered by foreign things, act spontaneously, and move towards truth, goodness and beauty.

In this way, comparison is a rainbow, which can make the sky in your heart more dazzling; It is the bright moon that washes the hometown of your heart more clearly; It is the sunshine that makes your heart brighter and more open.

What's the ratio?

Comparison is thunder, it can wake you up and inspire you to fly in the ideal sky, but it can also crush you and crawl to the ground.

Comparison is a whirlwind, which can not only open your mind and embrace the whole world, but also close your mind and make your mind narrow and unbearable.

Compared with rainstorm, it can not only cleanse your soul and make it clear, but also pour evil, ruthlessness and darkness into your heart.

In life, Bibi is like a blooming flower, and it is also like a humble grass on the roadside, which can be seen everywhere. Comparison is a double-edged sword. If you are not careful, you will stab yourself and others, so it depends on who and how you compare.

Flowers with only a little vitality will bloom brilliantly even if they are born in barren hills and nobody cares about them; Trees, even if born in the cracks on the edge of the cliff, will be deeply rooted in the earth and bloom green. Waterfalls, even if they jump to pieces, should sing all the way and fall into the magnificent scenery. High mountains, even if towering into the clouds, are equally silent and inclusive of all pebbles. The landscape flowers there are beautiful every day. Compared with them, you will learn nutrition as long as you appreciate them. The mountains are thick and quiet, the waterfalls are smart and exciting, and the flowers and plants are spontaneous and solid. How can your eyes be impure, how can your heart not be open and how can your heart not be quiet?

The same is true compared with animals. If you treat all living things humbly and devoutly, you can learn loyalty from dogs, diligence from cows, precious gratitude from sheep kneeling on your chest, sincere filial piety from crows, great maternal love from female monkeys mourning for the loss of their children, and loyal love from birds mourning for the death of their partners. How can people be inferior to these animals?

Letter from "Bitter Dad" to College Students' Son

My painful baby son:

Although you broke my heart, you are my son after all. Although, since you went to college and became the only college student in our family for generations, you can't tell which of us is whose son. Carrying luggage to accompany you to report to the university, hanging mosquito nets, making quilts and buying food stamps are all taken for granted in your opinion. You even think it is a special honor and honor to let your disappointing father serve your disappointing college son.

In your first semester in college, we received three letters from you, none of which were much longer than a telegram. They are concise, the theme is clear, and the whole text is scrawled, except for the word "money", which is particularly neat and clear. After the second year of high school, from your letter after letter, we can feel the urgency of words and the sincerity of tone, which makes people feel that you can become an excellent debt collector after graduation.

At that time, your mother was laid off, and your father's meager salary was obviously not enough for you to go in and out of karaoke bars and restaurants. Under such circumstances, instead of a word of comfort, you sent a long letter for the first time, in which you talked about how generous other people's parents were. You stabbed your mother and me in the heart and spilled a handful of salt. What saddens me most is that this summer vacation, you actually changed the notice of school fees and falsely reported the tuition fees. I have seen such a thing in the newspaper before. I didn't expect you to watch the news at the same time and use this trick to deal with your parents who gave birth to you, raised you, loved you and hurt you. Although I didn't have an attack after learning the truth, I suffered from insomnia when I thought about it for two months from the beginning of school to today. This has become a kind of heart disease, and the root cause is you, a big and unfamiliar college student son I raised myself. I don't know if you can grow a little kind heart besides increasing your cultural knowledge and social experience in college. ...

Comment: This is a tragedy. The reason for the tragedy is that the son of this college student developed the habit of comparing with others as early as middle school: "to wear", "to eat", "to use" and "to play". After entering the university, he became more and more out of control, squandering his parents' hard-earned money to satisfy his vanity and greed, which led to financial difficulties for his family, increased the burden on his parents, disrupted his normal life, made his family lose the warmth of the past and brought a family crisis (of course,

Be happy.

We compare ourselves with others, such as ourselves, achievements, courage, wrist strength, alcohol consumption, salary, parents' ranking, wife's appearance, housing area, children's intelligence and so on. It is better to win if you are happy, and lose if you are depressed. If you don't know your own shortcomings, you won't think of making progress and catching up; If you don't know your sense of superiority, you can't enhance your self-confidence and be satisfied. Sometimes, competition is still a kind of spirit, not to say "dare to be the first in the world", not to say "meet the brave in the narrow road and win", and so on. As for me, I am 30 years old. When people say that I am "in the prime of my life", it seems that I really should work hard to compare myself and show my "true self".

But I'm really not that promising.

First of all, what do I compare with others? I got good grades in middle school, but only partially; The courses taught now rarely take the first place in the grade. I'm too timid to watch horror movies alone at night. I can't beat a chicken. Don't you believe me? Then I can't kill the chicken by force. I've never killed a chicken, and I don't eat it. I got drunk after drinking three ounces of white wine and three bottles of beer. My salary is the lowest among my colleagues of the same age. Mom has no job and dad has retired. I have no lover, my wife has moles and spots on her face, and her figure is not slim. At present, there are at least ten families in our unit whose houses are wider than mine, not to mention the luxurious decoration. My daughter likes playing and dressing well, but she doesn't like reading or writing. You have to ask me something else, such as my downstairs teacher Feng writes well, another building teacher Chai is knowledgeable, and several teachers have second jobs and can make money. These are not only me, but also many people.

Secondly, as I said, I am a slacker, and I have to do more work than I should. To surpass Mr. Feng and Mr. Chai, we must spend more time writing and reading than them. Speaking of making money, although I can also offer composition tutorial classes, or Putonghua training classes, or calligraphy interest classes, how much time do I have to play Warcraft online, drink and see beautiful women? If so, I will suffocate. This is not serious at all.

Third, why should I compare with others? Who stipulated it? I am precious, because I am who I am, the unique me. Than, will "see Si Qi", "qi", there would be no me. My ideological quality is not good. I am more afraid of jealousy than winning, and I am more afraid of falling into the quagmire of inferiority than losing. Besides, there is a saying that "people are more angry than people." I am very angry. Who will pay the bill? So I think we should add something: I deserve to be angry, I smile for the world, alas!

So don't compete.

Drinking, for the record, I'm not very good at drinking. I got drunk first, then I fell down, so there was no one to drink with you. Shouldn't you help me, so it's fun to get drunk together You want to compete? Then compare it with the jar. Can you drink less than me? Ok, I will help you, but you can't lie. What, you already paid? Okay, but I don't owe you a meal. Owe? Ok, I'll pay next time. Haha, why am I so funny? Have fun. Let's play tomorrow.

I smoked five yuan a box, but it used to be two yuan. Do you want one? Yours is ten yuan? All right, smoke first, save mine first. Ten dollars is really easy to draw, and my five dollars is also easy to draw after playing.

It's time for you to evaluate your professional title, and you didn't argue with anyone. Look, Xiao Zhang's salary is higher than yours now. Me? You're right. Thank you. Comment later when you have time. Hey, are you free this afternoon? Let's play national football and have some beer when we have time.

You said that your sister's family's income from opening a restaurant for half a year is enough for us to earn ten years? Yes, that's right. Why don't we quit our job and open a restaurant? What are you talking about? It's not like we didn't eat, wear or play. By the way, this is my good wife, make progress! I'll treat you to a beer tonight.

Dude, writing some bad poems and essays is a pastime and a relief. What's the click rate? Look, aren't there some close friends here? It's none of your business. What's in this? I really appreciate what you wrote. Nobody replied to my song? But I like it myself. You can't be loved by others.

……

I traded my labor for alcohol and tobacco and turned my mood into poetry and songs. In the crowd, I am alive and happy.

Be happy,

This is my life.

compare

What's the ratio?

Comparison is thunder, it can wake you up and inspire you to fly in the ideal sky, but it can also crush you and crawl to the ground.

Comparison is a whirlwind, which can not only open your mind and embrace the whole world, but also close your mind and make your mind narrow and unbearable.

Compared with rainstorm, it can not only cleanse your soul and make it clear, but also pour evil, ruthlessness and darkness into your heart.

In life, Bibi is like a blooming flower, and it is also like a humble grass on the roadside, which can be seen everywhere. Comparison is a double-edged sword. If you are not careful, you will stab yourself and others, so it depends on who and how you compare.

Flowers with only a little vitality will bloom brilliantly even if they are born in barren hills and nobody cares about them; Trees, even if born in the cracks on the edge of the cliff, will be deeply rooted in the earth and bloom green. Waterfalls, even if they jump to pieces, should sing all the way and fall into the magnificent scenery. High mountains, even if towering into the clouds, are equally silent and inclusive of all pebbles. The landscape flowers there are beautiful every day. Compared with them, you will learn nutrition as long as you appreciate them. The mountains are thick and quiet, the waterfalls are smart and exciting, and the flowers and plants are spontaneous and solid. How can your eyes be impure, how can your heart not be open and how can your heart not be quiet?

The same is true compared with animals. If you treat all living things humbly and devoutly, you can learn loyalty from dogs, hard work from cows, precious gratitude from sheep kneeling on your chest, sincere filial piety from crows, great maternal love from female monkeys mourning for the loss of their children, and loyal love from birds mourning for the death of their partners. How can people be inferior to these animals?

Compared with Tasha, we should know Qi. Learn from Qu Yuan's infatuation, patriotism and loyalty; Shi Qian suffered hardships for his career and was brave; Tao Qian returns to nature, quiet and leisurely; Li Bai is elegant and free from vulgarity, full of pride; Du Fu forgot himself and worried about his country and people. Su Shi is broad-minded and free-spirited. Compare with them, find out the gap, and then be willing to rely on them, so how can you not improve your life realm, how can you not get the freedom and openness inside? In the process of searching after comparison, your soul begins to gradually transcend vulgarity and move towards nobility. After purification, your soul will be painted with beautiful colors, such as the breeze on the river, the bright moon in the mountains and Ming Che's poetry.

Compared with the people around you, you can also compare with them. Than what?

Compare who can find pleasure in monotonous and ordinary work and make unremitting efforts for it.

Compare who can persist in hard work, struggle for dreams, and keep smiling confidently.

Who wants to hold their own fountain for thirsty and anxious travelers and leave a cool and sweet to others?

Than who can become a stranger in distress, stretch out your hands and warm your cold heart.

Compare who can transcend material desires, fame and fortune, not be fettered by foreign things, act spontaneously, and move towards truth, goodness and beauty.

In this way, comparison is a rainbow, which can make the sky in your heart more dazzling; It is the bright moon that washes the hometown of your heart more clearly; It is the sunshine that makes your heart brighter and more open.

Comparison is not a simple application, blind imitation, nor can we lose ourselves and become a template for others. Otherwise, it will have the same effect as the toddler Dong Shi in Handan, and lose my true self.

Comparison is not a struggle, not a fight. If it's not mine, I'll take nothing. Everything has an end, and fame and fortune are gone.

The comparison is not to engage in organ, plot against, jealousy, gossip, slander, slander, once reduced to this point, you will be on the edge of the cliff, a little tilt, you will fall into the abyss, broken bones.

Dare to compare is self-confidence, courage, dare to challenge, and dare to be the first in the world.

Dare to compare is wisdom, you should be able to distinguish, choose, promote its essence and discard its dross.

Dare to compare is open-minded, optimistic, diligent, brave to pay and brave to practice.

Of course, those who are unwilling to compare are not all lazy, decadent and inferior. This requires this person to be confident, self-disciplined, free and easy, open-minded, and advocate freedom without losing himself.

Bibi, who only concentrates on comparing with others and enjoying himself, wears glory on his head as a crown, is a muddy thing.

People who are overwhelmed by the advantages of others are cowards.

It is a wise man to refine vigilance by comparing the gaps between all things.

People who constantly introspect, surpass themselves, care about the sufferings of others, and have great benevolence and love are warriors and saints. Then he was the biggest winner.