People often say that it would be nice if there were regret medicine in the world. I want to make a new decision. Now I can't afford the consequences. Every step is so difficult. Every step is like making up for the previous decision. If there is a regret medicine in the world, does it mean that you don't have to think about every decision and worry about the consequences? You can make a happy decision, but the world is fair, and every decision you make must bear the consequences.
Some people say that if I can do it all over again, I will definitely study hard and enter the university. When everyone else is studying hard day and night in senior three, I will definitely not brush my mobile phone or daydream. I will definitely work harder. I shouldn't give up my studies because of boredom, and I won't start puppy love at a critical moment in my life. I should know what is most important to me at this stage, and I should not disappoint my parents' conscience. There are not so many ifs in life, you just need to be responsible for your own decisions.
Some people say I shouldn't get married so early. I should seek true happiness, dreams and freedom at the best age, instead of making a hasty decision at the best age to start such a long and painful life, choosing to get married and have children at the age when I need to struggle most, becoming a housewife and losing my freedom all day.
In fact, no matter how we make a decision, we will regret the decision at that time. Even if you choose the decision to make now, at this stage, you will still complain about the original decision. People are like this, sometimes contradictory. Each stage brings us different growth, but each stage teaches us to grow, and each stage has a mission to complete. The mission of the student era is to study hard, become useful talents, repay the society and become useful talents in society. Going out for social work means going to work well, living well, and setting a goal for yourself, which can be traveling, buying a car, buying a house, and working hard when you find a goal. When you get married, you must get married, start your own family, start a new chapter in your life and start challenging different roles.
If you can't sing happily all the way, please don't complain and don't back down. Instead, I will move forward without hesitation. I believe that there is no road in life in vain, and every step counts.
Some people say that your temperament hides the books you have read and the roads you have traveled.
Some people say that reading is useless, but reading can't make you rich.
However, we must admit that all the books you have read are deeply hidden in your temperament and will be inadvertently revealed from your manners. There are no books that are read for nothing, and every one is integrated with your temperament.
The books you read are just like the meals you eat from snacks. They are invisible, but they have been integrated into your flesh and blood. We can't deny that all the meals you have eaten have been wasted.
So is life. I often hear people say: I didn't expect everything I learned before to be used. Man proposes, God disposes, so make plans first, and then wait for success one day.
Once you make a decision, you must pay, even if you encounter setbacks, you must go forward bravely. Life is complicated, who has no worries and who has no confusion? For the good hope in the heart, for the lofty ideal, for the happy life, who doesn't get up early and get greedy for the dark, and strive to become their own strong.
Adults are all carrying loads, and they can only sweat like rain in hardships, run hard in the wind and rain, and endure the biting cold in the cold. Life is a river, and we trudge with one foot deep and one foot shallow, just like the endless gyro in our busy schedule. Time is limited, and our struggle is endless.
There is no futile effort in the world, let alone accidental success. Don't encourage others, don't rush for success, you just have to do it bit by bit, step by step, and success will follow.
Happiness and misfortune depend on each other, and every bump in life is a setback and a driving force. Things change at will, and the environment is created by the heart. There is no desperate situation in the world, only people who are desperate.
Some people indulge in pain and sink again and again, while others catch up and leap forward. Some people lick their wounds and give up on themselves, while others regard every wound as their own medal.
All stories always have an answer. What is important is whether you can hold your temper and your heart steady before the final answer comes.
There is no need to rush to ask life to give you all the answers. Sometimes, you have to be patient and so on. Even if you shout at the empty valley, you have to wait a while before you can hear the long echo.
The road you have walked, the scenery you have seen, the people you have met, every tear you have shed and every setback you have encountered are all your confidence after the experience. So why do we tend to get older, become more mature and calm? Because people are most prone to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and anxiety only when they have no bottom in their hearts.
Being confident doesn't mean how much skill you have and how much wealth you have created. The object of this bottom layer is only yourself. That is, you can clearly know yourself, know your own ability boundaries, know your own shortcomings, know your own advantages, know what you have, know what you want in general, and know what you can work for. Simply put, you have a relatively objective and clear understanding of yourself.
Since there is no regret medicine in the world, we can only move forward and move forward.