Spring ploughing and autumn harvest, spring flowers and autumn fruits. Autumn is the harvest season, and there are abundant achievements everywhere. It is the season when people enjoy the fruits of labor, and it is the season when people are full of joy. However, with the autumn wind passing by, the leaves of plants and trees will also cause people's sadness and cold. "Autumn wind and autumn rain are terrible." In autumn, people are prone to anxiety; Sadness is hard to solve in people's hearts. Therefore, the word "worry" is composed of autumn and heart, which comes from the heart, autumn sounds and worries. Wu Wenying, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said, "Where is the synthesis of funeral music? Autumn keeps people's hearts. " (Tang Duoling)
Worry is the expression of people's mood and emotion and the reflection of psychological activities. Easy to live, persistent, repeated, lingering, single-fingered, difficult to understand. Teenagers are more happy and less worried, "teenagers don't know the taste of sorrow" and "young women in boudoir don't know the sorrow". With the increase of age and experience, the taste of sadness gradually stays in my heart. Old people have two common problems: they are angry and often anxious. Du Mu, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty, once said, "If it is 36,000 days, it will be half sorrow and half sorrow." Even if people live to be a hundred years old, the word "worry" will follow.
Yang pointed out: "Ten thousand flying flowers are like rain. Kill the cold and you won't stay in spring. The red wind swept across the ground. Only teach swallows to take generals. Lonely and doing nothing. There is no one in the deep courtyard, and it is ruthless. Poplar trees are dancing outside the curtains. It also decorated people's emotions. " Zhang Guangxian's "silent tears in the mirror, lazy makeup for a long time, wet spring rain"; Use "rain" as a metaphor for sadness.
With "willow" as the worry, Feng Ting has "the spring worry is like catkin dazzled, and the long dream is nowhere to be found".
What I remember most about "grass" is Liu Yong's "parting from sorrow, smelling the fragrance of grass on the shore, and singing bitterly", while He Zhu's "how much leisure?" It is expected that people who have lived in the south of the Yangtze River have the deepest feelings about the bleak picture depicted by Yichuan Tobacco, the wind in the city and the yellow rain of plums.
And water means sadness, or sadness is water. Li Yu's "How many worries you can have, just like a river flowing eastward", Ouyang Xiu's "Farther and farther away from your worries, the distance is like spring water", Qin Guan's "Spring goes and spring comes, fast-flushers are as urgent as the sea" and He Zhu's "Swimming in the river is more leisurely than water is inexhaustible", all of which use spring water than leisure.
Xiangzi Yan said, "Up to now, there are many mountains to worry about, and there are strands of hair on my temples." Li Kaixian's "Worry is like a snowy mountain, turning white overnight" is full of worries.
The most representative of the sorrow in Li Qingzhao's Slow Sound is "looking for it, being cold and clear, being miserable and miserable." It's the hardest to stop breathing when it's warm and cold. Three glasses and two glasses of wine, how can you go against him when the wind is urgent and the rain is urgent? Guo Yan is very sad, but this is an old acquaintance.
Yellow flowers were piled all over the floor, withered and damaged. Who can pick them now? Looking out the window alone, how can it be dark! Indus is raining in Mao Mao, dripping at dusk. This time, what a sad sentence! "
It is also a unique pen that collects "How can I get a sad sentence?" Since Yu Xin, there have been thousands of words of sorrow, or the words of sorrow are like the sea (Yu and Qin Guan's words respectively), in short, there are many words. At this time, the room has been reduced to less, just saying that my ideas are very complicated, and how to use a word "trouble" to cover them all. The beauty of beauty does not mean that there are any emotions other than the word "worry", but it comes to an abrupt end as if it were nothing. On the surface, there is a tendency to "say what you want", but in fact it has been completely and vividly poured out.
Wen's "More Leak" is the next movie "Sycamore Tree, it rains in the middle of the night, leaving love is more bitter; Every leaf, every sound, empty steps down to the Ming Dynasty. "Although there is no sadness above sadness, it is thicker and more meaningful. "
Sorrow is with the sun and the moon. Hanshan, a Tang Dynasty man, said, "The moon is full of sorrow, and the new sorrow will continue in the New Year." ("It's hard to pronounce this word as soon as you hear it")
I can't get rid of my sadness. Li Bai, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, said: "Since the water is still flowing, although we cut it with swords, it is even more sad to raise a glass to dispel our worries." ("Xuanzhou Xie Yuezhao Building Farewell to the School Book Uncle Yun")
Sadness is inevitable. Xin Qiji, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said, "If you want to go upstairs to avoid your worries, you can go upstairs with me." (partridge festival)
There are countless worries. Zhu Dunru, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said, "Don't compare melancholy to flying flowers. There are countless flowers. " ("a drop")
Trouble is endless. Li Bai, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, said: "White hair is three thousands of feet, and sorrow is like a long beard." ("Song of Qiupu") "Hengjiang wants to weather the storm, and one water attracts Wan Li's sorrow." ("Hengjiang Ci")
Sorrow can be passed on to future generations. Fan Chengda, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said: "The ancients were full of worries and left them to future generations." (On the River)
What is sadness like? ——
Like catkins. Feng Yansi, a native of the Tang Dynasty, said: "Spring sorrow is like catkins, and long dreams are nowhere to be found." (Recent Love)
Like rain. Qin Guan, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said: "Free flying flowers are as light as dreams, and endless rain is as fine as sorrow." Yang, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said, "Thousands of flying flowers are like rain." (Recent Love)
Like a cloud. Zheng Yu, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said: "If you ask this question, the sky is high and the clouds are far away." ("Recalling Old Friends in Taoyuan")
Like a river. Li Yu of the Southern Tang Dynasty said, "How much sorrow can I have when I ask you? Just like a river flowing eastward. " Qin Guan, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said: "Even being on the riverside is full of tears, which are endless and full of sorrow." ("Jiangchengzi")
Like the sea. Zhu, a poet in the Song Dynasty, argued: "Poetry is poor, you don't worry about the sea, wine is thin, and it is difficult to dream of your hometown." (spring sound)
Where does sorrow come from? ——
Love begets sorrow. Li Qingzhao, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said: "There is no way to get rid of this feeling, only to frown and only to mind. Flowers from Shui Piao to water, a kind of acacia, two leisurely feelings. " ("prune")
Sadness from life. Li Bai, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, said: "Tears are endless, and long worries are ruined." (Farewell to Judge Zheng) Li Yu of the Southern Tang Dynasty said, "If you keep cutting, you will still be confused. It's parting, not the taste in my heart. " ("Meet You Huan")
Much trouble makes sorrow. Lu of the Tang Dynasty said, "You can't stop worrying about things." ("Xing Shan sent a letter to Liu Lier to join the army")
Dusk begets sorrow. Meng Haoran of the Tang Dynasty said, "My boat is sailing in the fog, the days are getting shorter and the memories of the old days are beginning." ("A Night on Jiande River") Zhao Qing wrote: "If you don't go upstairs to see the willow color, you will be worried about spring in the twilight." ("Social Day")
Hearing voices will make you sad. Bai Juyi, a Tang Dynasty man, said, "Man fights and sings in unison, worrying about killing the king of Jianglou." The Song Dynasty poet chanted, "Don't listen to the sound of geese." (Sauvignon Blanc)
Missing makes you sad. Han in the Tang Dynasty said, "When I get old and meet my brothers, I will cry with the lamp on my back until dawn." (Memories of Qiu Lin Night)
Gain and loss give birth to worry. Li Shangyin, a native of the Tang Dynasty, said, "Your kindness flows like water to the east. You are in favor and you are out of favor." ("Gong Ci")
Seasonal changes can also bring sadness. Wen Zhiming, a scholar of the Ming Dynasty, said, "When the spring scenery is one third, the scholar's melancholy is like a cloud." ("boring")
I have been away from home for a long time. Rong Yu of the Tang Dynasty said, "It's very difficult not to return for more than ten years and accomplish nothing. I don't know where the hate is, and the sorrow grows with the night. " ("Autumn in Jiangcheng")
Worry is invisible, intangible, unexplained, incomprehensible and uncontrollable. Huang Tingjian, a poet in the Song Dynasty, put it well: "When people are worried, they have nowhere to get together, and when they are not worried, they always feel sad." (Reading with Chen Junyi is so right.) "Nowhere to meet" means "I don't understand". The meaning of these two poems is: people's sadness is incomprehensible. As long as they are worried, they can't control their emotions. Even things that have nothing to do with mood and feelings can make people feel inexplicably sad.
There is a poem "Treatise on Febrile Diseases" in the stone statues of the Song Dynasty, which vividly tells the generation, performance, characteristics and existence of sadness. He said: worry comes to my mind unconsciously, hangs on my brow, but it is hard to let go. When you are lonely, you will be sad, when the flowers fall, you will be worried when you are away from your loved ones, you will be bored when you are drunk, and the moon will miss home. What are the characteristics of sadness? Everywhere is as soft as fine grass and as messy as endless filaments. Trouble is universal, except for the ballroom of dignitaries, it exists all over the world! Please taste it carefully:
Easy come, late go.
The door should be when flowers fall in spring, the window should be shallow, and the wine should wake up.
Soft as grass, messy as a thousand miles.
There is no place in the world except the singing and dancing places of Wuhou.
You see, this song "Li Sao", with two sentences at the first level, is simply an outline of a paper about sadness.
Worry is a bad mood. If a person pulls a long face all day, his spirit will be unhappy, he can't eat well, he can't sleep well, he is upset and can't walk. Over time, there will be symptoms such as anxiety, insomnia, palpitation, pessimism, loss of appetite and high blood pressure. The normal activities of endocrine will also be affected, which will damage physical and mental health and make hair turn white quickly.
Xin Qiji said: "People always worry about it." (bodhisattva man)
It is useless to worry about contradictions, difficulties and disputes. Chen Que, a Qing Dynasty man, said, "The poor worry about poverty, while the sick worry about illness and die." In the face of sad words, you should have a positive, open-minded and optimistic attitude. When encountering difficulties, we can think from multiple angles and solve them in multiple ways. Never keep the word "trouble" in your heart all day.
Zhang Ji, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, put forward a good method of "not worrying". He has a poem "Letter to Secretary Wang", which tells his own experience: there is no illness to be prevented, there is illness to be treated, more exercise, more friends, and most importantly, don't worry, be optimistic.
The poem says: "Everything should stop when white finds it full of hair. Just to prevent diseases, not to raise the heart. Medicine is far from seeking new and cooked wine, and mountains and tall buildings are tall. Living in Beijing, I have time to travel alone before each flower. "
In daily life, some thorny problems will be gradually resolved and solved after a period of time. Don't worry, you will be anxious if you are anxious. For example, if you travel abroad, sail on rivers and suddenly encounter storms, will you be afraid? Worried? Faced with this situation,
Yang Wanli, a poet in the Song Dynasty, put forward a good way to laugh and wait patiently: "The wind blows the sky and waves, you just need to laugh without worrying. Look at it for two days and three days, and rest after a break. " The poet tells you, even if the storm is heavy, don't panic, don't worry, laugh it off. Why? Because it takes two days at least and three days at most, the wind will gradually weaken and the waves will gradually subside. As long as you keep a calm mind, be patient and steer well, you will have a calm day.
Chen Que's poems tell the truth, Zhang Ji's poems are full of health care experience, and Yang Wanli's poems are full of philosophy of life, which are all good antidote. "Don't worry about your heart any more" and "Just smile and don't worry" are more effective ways to deal with the word "worry".
As the saying goes: "Smile, it's ten years old. A sorrow, a white! "
The wind is blowing in the sky, and the waves are coming.
Smile, don't worry.
Looking at the distance between two days and three days,
Rest when you rest.