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Setbacks in life are inevitable. The problem is how to deal with setbacks. When young friends encounter strong pressure brought by setbacks, they often have two reactions.

One is to only see the difficulties, threats and losses you have suffered and regret that you shouldn't have done one thing or another, so that you will be cautious and have no fighting spirit in the future.

If you look closely, it is not difficult to find that such people are not without ambition, but have no good attitude in the face of setbacks and are pessimistic and disappointed all day, so that time is wasted.

The other is to face the reality, understand that "worrying is useless", slowly calm down, analyze the causes of setbacks, see clearly your strengths and weaknesses, and make wise choices.

Setbacks and difficulties can indeed exhaust people's energy, but they can also help people mature and push people to success. For example, Mr. Ceng Xianzi, the founder of the famous Goldlion, suffered from all kinds of cynicism at the beginning of his business. But with strong confidence, extraordinary perseverance and the spirit of not giving up until the goal is reached, he finally succeeded. Another example is Madame Curie, a famous scientist and Nobel Prize winner in chemistry. She worked in a cold and humid laboratory for four years. After many twists and turns, she discovered the chemical element radium and made great contributions to mankind.

Young friends should be good at forgetting things that have become a thing of the past in life, and don't leave a shadow caused by setbacks in their hearts. Failure and frustration are not necessarily bad things, but they can temper people's will and make them strong and mature. Therefore, we should learn to feel happy and happy in the battle, sum up experiences and lessons when encountering setbacks, enhance self-confidence and become a strong person in life.

———————————————— Frustration is also an inspiration. After we encounter setbacks, we often understand some truth and won't make the same mistake next time. Frustration is also a beautiful failure. Let people know the reason of failure and will work harder next time. This is also a beautiful story. After several years, the frustration of recalling growth is different.

Frustration revelation number: 1

In a big company, there was a promising young man who designed a planning book and thought it was perfect. The boss looked at it and asked, "Why didn't you page?" The young man said, "This planning book is placed up and down, without paging." The boss ignored it. A few minutes later, the boss's secretary came out with this planning book and said, "This planning book was accidentally messed up. Please tidy it up and send it to the office in ten minutes. " Young people are in a bad mood when they watch their carefully designed planning books become so messy. It took twenty minutes to sort out the messy planning book and give it to the secretary.

But after a few minutes, the secretary came out again and said, "Sorry, young man, it's a mess again. Please tidy it up and give it to me right away. " The young man looked at this messy pile of planning books and couldn't help but be annoyed: why don't I page? The young man has been depressed. This time, he marked the page number, arranged the planning book and handed it to the secretary. The boss said, "This time, you finally marked the page number. It's easy to page numbers, but it's an attitude. "

The young man finally knew why his flawless planning book was not hired, and he understood a truth: attitude determines success.

The second revelation of depression

In my study, my classmate, whose grades have been in the top ten, can't help but be proud, and he is no longer as absorbed in class as before, thinking: No matter how hard he tries, he can't surpass me. So, the homework was not handed in and the teacher talked to him. He said, "What does it matter to hand in your homework? Anyway, you did well in the exam, no problem. " The teacher shook his head.

The exam is coming, and he doesn't hurry to review. He is as carefree as an idle person, and his parents and teachers can't stop him. He still said, "The exam is not easy."

The day of the exam is coming. When the day came, he walked into the examination room calmly as usual. But when the test paper was handed out, he was dumbfounded: why is it so difficult? The paper used to be easy, why is it so difficult today? The exam results came out and he failed in three subjects. He was very sad and finally understood that modesty makes people progress and pride makes people fall behind.

Every setback is accompanied by a truth. Although the frustration is gloomy, the sky must be blue after dark and serious reflection.

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Source: Guan Yue.

You can't avoid setbacks in life. The problem is how to deal with setbacks. When young friends encounter strong pressure from setbacks, they often have two reactions:

One is to only see the difficulties, threats and losses you have suffered and regret that you shouldn't have done one thing or another, so that you will be cautious and have no fighting spirit in the future. If you look closely, it is not difficult to find that such people are not without ambition, but have no good attitude in the face of setbacks and are pessimistic and disappointed all day, so that time is wasted.

The other is to face the reality, understand that "worrying is useless", slowly calm down, analyze the causes of setbacks, see clearly your strengths and weaknesses, and make wise choices. Setbacks and difficulties will indeed exhaust people's energy, but they can also help people to mature and push people to success. For example, Mr. Ceng Xianzi, the founder of the famous Goldlion, suffered from all kinds of cynicism at the beginning of his business. But with strong confidence, extraordinary perseverance and the spirit of not giving up until the goal is reached, he finally succeeded. Failure and frustration are not necessarily bad things, but they can temper people's will and make them strong and mature. Therefore, we should learn to feel happy and happy in the battle, sum up experiences and lessons when encountering setbacks, enhance self-confidence and become a strong person in life.

————————————————————————— It's late at night, and the moonlight is scattered all over the floor through the casement. I sat at my desk alone, letting my tears "beep, beep" wet the test paper with poor scores.

This final exam, I am far from achieving the expected results. I feel very wronged. Why do I pay so much and get nothing every time? I blame God for being unfair. Unconsciously, I remembered the scene of burning the midnight oil to read a book, and I remembered the scene of my parents sending me bread and milk. Why, why, am I really not learning material?

Forget it, don't think about it, turn on the light and read extracurricular books. I turned on the lamp. I found biscuit crumbs moving on the table. I pushed my glasses to see more clearly. I saw several ants moving the biscuit crumbs, and the biscuit crumbs stopped moving, as if struggling to move. How interesting! I brought a magnifying glass to take a closer look at these little things. I have to put some obstacles in their way. I put the pencil in front of them, only to see them change direction. I was surrounded by my pen. See what they can do this time! I watched carefully with a magnifying glass, and an ant climbed the fence first. This is like a commander. Several ants climbed up one by one. They tried to grab the biscuit crumbs, but failed several times. The leading ant lifted the biscuit residue, and the ant behind pushed it hard. It took about thirty minutes, and the biscuit residue was finally carried away from the pencil by ants.

I suddenly realized that even such a small ant was not discouraged in the face of setbacks, and we humans should dare to face setbacks. I remember again: Edison's laboratory was bombed. In the face of such setbacks, Edison did not lose his fighting spirit, but successfully invented the phonograph in just three weeks; Beethoven was deaf in both ears, which is undoubtedly the biggest setback for a musician, but Beethoven did not flinch in the face of setbacks. He said, "I want to seize my destiny." In this way, Beethoven wrote the world-famous symphony Destiny.

There are storms and thorns on the road of life. As long as we struggle, there will be flowers and applause waiting for us. Celebrities have said that frustration is a bottomless pit for incompetent people, but it is a stepping stone to success for those who dare to face setbacks.

I opened the textbook again, when the first ray of sunshine in the morning entered the room, where I fell and got up again. I smiled, frustrated, I challenged you, and life was more exciting because of setbacks.

Postscript: My later achievements are like sesame blossoms. I am grateful for that sleepless night. On that night, I tasted frustration and read its letter. I appreciate setbacks!

————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————— It has been several months. Looking back at the long journey, I picked up the map in my hand and saw the conspicuous mark again. This is a mark that brings me infinite regret and strength-experiencing setbacks.

On September 27th, a sunny afternoon, the general election of the Student Union was in full swing. Although some thoughts in my heart make me a little uneasy, I still wait for the announcement of the election results with a smile. Think about what I have achieved in the past year. Although I can't say that no one can compare with me, it's hard for someone to look back at me. As a senior one student, I am not only involved in organizing various school activities, but also in good contact with senior high schools and newspapers in Jinan. Although I was alone most of the time, when I heard that a large part of the last chairman's report was attended by me or even presided over by me, I strengthened my confidence in winning. In addition, in the TV speech on Monday, I played normal. All this seems to indicate that the final ownership of the new chairman is not far from me.

However, good wishes do not represent reality, on the contrary, sometimes they are too far away. The results have been announced, but I'm not on the list of new student union members. I have never experienced lightning, but it was really hard at that time. I don't know how I spent that afternoon. The depression in my heart made me burst out several times, and the tears of pain turned countless times in my eyes. Finally, I survived, because I knew that if I did that, I would no longer be myself, a strong person.

Am I overreaching myself? Is it because I have no strength? Even now, I don't doubt my ability. I always accept defeat easily, but from the gossip during the campaign, the phrase "his father is the principal" keeps coming out, which makes me feel infinite grief and indignation. Yes, my surname is Yu, and so is the headmaster. We are the closest family in the world-father and son. I never deny that my father taught me how to be a person, how to study and how to be a good class cadre since I was a child. But his education comes from the correct guidance to me, and more importantly, he always lets me finish one thing independently. He cultivated my tough character and made me understand the importance of being an independent person. My father's spiritual encouragement gave me the motivation to constantly impact my potential. This kind of spiritual support between father and son is regarded by some people as the affection between father and son, which makes me feel endless sadness and disgust. Am I really as simple as some people think?

Although the failure of the election was the first major setback in my life, I lamented the injustice of the world, but compared with those who wantonly slandered, I felt very fortunate. After all, I have experienced new experiences, even setbacks. What's the point? !

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