Listening to opinions is a kind of tolerance It is not a vast sky, but it is like a sea containing hundreds of rivers. It is precisely because of this tolerance that we will brainstorm and listen to good suggestions.
Isn't it? Believing in yourself does not mean being opinionated; Listening to opinions doesn't mean following suit.
There is no doubt that Emperor Taizong's ability to govern the country freely, but at the same time he accepted Wei Zhi's "Ten Thoughts" and did not have to "think hard instead of thinking".
The King of Qi also has the ability to manage all directions and state affairs, and he will not doubt his talent, but he also accepted Zou Ji's "teachable" and made "Yan Zhao, Han Wei are all equal".
No one will doubt themselves easily, but who can be as good at coaching and listening to others' opinions as their predecessors? Always think that "believing in yourself" and "listening to other people's opinions" are incompatible, always think that you can do anything, or always think that others are invincible. Why? Why can't we believe in ourselves, be confident and open a cigarette case full of friendship at the same time?
Believe in yourself, believe in the future, believe that the earth will fly tomorrow and believe that we will develop in the future.
Trust others, respect others, trust others to think of you, and respect their ideal choices.
Yes, in the journey of life, we will always encounter difficulties and setbacks. They are like roses, stinging your hands and mine. However, the wounds of the soul must be repaired by themselves, and the wounds of the hands must be bandaged by others. We believe that we will overcome difficulties, but we never deny the help of others. No one can live alone without the help of others.
So, don't be stubborn and extreme, and don't do whatever you want. Sometimes other people's advice is like good medicine. Although bitter, it can cure your disease. Sometimes, other people's advice is like poison. Its appearance may be delicious, but it can kill you. Therefore, we let people believe in themselves and treat others' opinions selectively, rationally and wisely. Ok, just bring it here; No, let it go, the spring breeze blows and blows, and the flowers bloom and fall. Can we care that much?
Believe in yourself, have you done it?
Listen to other people's opinions, okay?