There is a saying: "Benevolence is invincible." But I want to say: "Ninja is invincible." (With the help of "the benevolent is invincible" and changed to "the ninja is invincible", it is easy to make an argument, which is naturally distinct and takes care of the topic. )
The most classic example is Han Xin, who was humiliated by street hooligans and became the object of ridicule. Everyone thinks this guy is too spineless and will accomplish nothing in the future. But Han Xin's success in the future made them feel ashamed. (positive example, typical. The narrative is clean and neat. )
Some people say that life is full of choices. When Han Xin is humiliated, he has two choices: either pass or kill the other person with one knife. However, he knew that although killing each other could be a "gentleman" for a while, his ideal and ambition could only stop at the guillotine.
So "forbearance" plays a very important role at this time. If he can't bear it, he can only be silent in the long river forever. Analyze the facts, get to the point, and don't bother to say anything more. )
A good example is stock speculation. The stock market is hot these days, and people flock to the market. However, many small and medium-sized investors have psychological problems: they are happy when they go up, buy wildly when they fall, and worry and sell wildly when they fall. In the end, it didn't make money when it went up, but it also lost money when it fell. Buffett put it well: "I am afraid when others are happy, and I am glad when others are afraid." It boils down to four words: "buy down and sell up". But many investors can't do it because they are not "bears". Knowing that it won't fall again, I just can't help it. I wanted to sell at the sight of losing money, and the result became "selling down and buying up". This psychological formation can only be summed up as "unbearable". (Connecting with social reality, giving negative examples, combining narration with discussion. )
Forbearance, since the "blade" is in the heart, its process is bound to be painful, and it is bound to bear the double pressure of spirit and body. In fact, as senior three students, we are a good example. The teacher said: learning is to fight against forgetting. This adds another mountain to our shoulders. Sometimes we say that we are worse off than people in the old society. There are three mountains on their shoulders, and we have four: one is the expectation of family members; Second, the pressure of the school; Thirdly, the contrast between my "wonderful" life after the college entrance examination and real life has also given me great pressure; Fourth, the forgetting mentioned above, we should write down every text, every word, every formula ... All this must be endured, and sometimes we will always remind ourselves that this is China, and this is the college entrance examination. Everything will be fine with patience.
Of course, passive patience is absolutely not desirable. Chinese medicine says: anything that is suppressed for a long time will become a disease, and many diseases are known to be suppressed. Some people say: I can't stand it anymore. Put up with it, it is better to vent. Playing ball and running are good. Finally, write about the study life of the students who study hard with themselves, make a brief analysis and point out their lifestyle. )
In a word, forbearance is a very important character. If a person can endure, endure and be kind, his life path will be "suddenly enlightened". Summarize the full text, reiterate the argument, take care of the beginning, and integrate the beginning and the end. The language is still clean and tidy. )