Selected articles on positive energy: The difference between people lies in their spare time.
What do you do in your spare time in the evening? When many people think of it, except for eating and sleeping, the evening seems to have passed, watching boring TV and surfing the Internet, and the evening flies by quickly.
I didn't have any special ideas about it at first. I think everyone is like this. Life is like this. But a friend of mine passed all kinds of exams the year before last and became a publicity office for the introduction of outstanding talents. She changed my views a lot.
Once, she accidentally talked to me about the famous Harvard for two hours, which made me admire. Harvard has a famous theory: the difference between people lies in their spare time, and a person's fate is determined between 8 pm and 10.
After graduation, due to professional reasons, the distribution was particularly bad. She stayed for seven years and crossed her best years. What has she done in these seven years? It is said that the state-owned enterprise where she works is neither dead nor alive, but it is easy to muddle along. She is married and has children, and many people are too busy to think about unrealistic things at all. How is she? It's different. Everyone is the same at work, step by step. What about after work? She is different from others except that she eats, sleeps and does housework for two hours every day. Everyone reads a book at a time, or can't finish reading a book in a year. She read one book after another and began to write various professional papers. Every once in a while, she takes part in several training classes: lecture class, Kunqu opera audition class, bread baking class, and sometimes goes to women's lectures.
I asked her why even baking bread was included in her study plan. She smiled and said, in case the company goes out of business, I can be a full-time wife and I can shine. ?
Kunqu opera audition class She smiled:? Well, it's just because a university professor I know likes Kunqu opera. I was deeply moved by her expression when she sang Kunqu opera. Some women live full of vitality, and this god is dedication. It's fun to say. When the unit engages in activities, I will sing three words to knock everyone down. hahaha. ? We are in high spirits at the same time.
Seven years, two hours, calculate, what are you doing, what are others doing? Television, entertainment, boring surfing the internet, quarreling and disciplining children soon passed. Many people say that they have no time to read, study, absorb new things and stay with their families. Tell me, what do you have time to do? Have time to be bored and complain about unfairness? She said:? If it was unfair, I was in a very bad position. I spent my whole life in an immortal unit. Many people think it's good to get along like this, but I get along badly. I think, even if I mix, I will mix with relish. ?
You think she's a leftover woman? Not exactly. In seven years, she also got married and had children, and at the same time she didn't let go of her own affairs. She said: Many women like to make excuses. It seems that you can't move forward after giving birth. There are all kinds of excuses for you to give up on yourself. But I didn't. I can watch English movies, listen to audio books, sing plays and prepare for the next day's extracurricular speech while breastfeeding my children. Even the early education has been completed. Coincidentally, my son has a strong language ability. Does this have anything to do with her giving birth to a child in the fourth year in a state-owned enterprise? She is busy for two hours every night and doesn't feel tired at all. ? Are you tired? That's because you are always complaining, living in your passion and your own game. ? She said:? While holding the baby, I was at home flipping through professional books and playing Kunqu opera. This feeling is really super cool. My family and children are taken care of, and I haven't missed it myself. ?
At the beginning of August, she won the second place in the selection examination conducted by her unit. Her proper language and well-trained posture in the interview made her stand out quickly. Come in naturally like a duck to water, several stages of life, marriage, children, seats. She is still young, only 32 years old. Some women are smart because they are smart. They also use their time in different ways. If you complain about unfairness again, you really shouldn't.
Selected articles of positive energy: Flowers bloom in different seasons.
Our life, like the flowers of the four seasons, has different beauty at different stages: the innocence of childhood, the reverie of youth, the impulse of youth, the maturity of middle age and the wisdom of old age are all beautiful at different stages of life.
Almost everyone likes flowers, because flowers represent beauty, elegance and the brilliance of life. But if all flowers bloom only in one season, such as spring, and flowers are not seen in other seasons, the world will certainly look dull and people will lose their expectations for beauty. Imagine how much beautiful poetry will be lost without flowers in summer, autumn and winter! Imagine plum blossoms in spring to join in the fun and open. Does Wang Can still write An Shi? There are some plums in the corner, and cold ling opens them alone. Knowing from a distance that it is not snow, why is there fragrance? Is there such a poem with character? It is natural to walk among flowers in spring, but at the same time there are so many flowers in bloom (winter jasmine, apricot blossom, peach blossom, pear blossom, magnolia flower, etc.). ), isn't it a bit too busy and complicated? And because they compete with each other, the fragrance and color of flowers will be a bit mediocre.
Compared with the flowers in spring, I miss the lotus flowers in August, the graceful flowers, the blue lotus leaves and the fragrance in the air. I also miss the endless wild chrysanthemums in Yuan Ye in autumn and the sight of wild flowers blooming in the wind. I still miss wintersweet in winter. There seems to be no such flower in winter in Beijing. I remember one winter when I was in Nanjing, it snowed heavily. I went for a walk by Xuanwu Lake, and saw Chimonanthus praecox in full bloom and its fragrance floating away, which made me feel that it was a truly unique and moving life gesture.
I often feel sorry for the way and technology that human beings have invented to cultivate all kinds of flowers all year round, because flowers will only be charming if they bloom in nature and in their own season, and the mood of waiting for flowers is actually more important than seeing them. Waiting for flowers to bloom in a certain season is like waiting for your life to mature. What kind of excitement and expectation it is! We are excited and looking forward to it, because we know that as long as flowers belong to that season, beautiful flowers will bloom in that season.
Just like the flowers in the four seasons, our life is also beautiful at different stages: the innocence of childhood, the reverie of teenagers, the impulse of youth, the maturity of middle age and the wisdom of old age are all beautiful at different stages of life. If we are born with insight into the world and sophistication like old people, then we have no hope in this life; On the other hand, if we are as ignorant and simple as teenagers all our lives, there will be no progress and excitement in this life.
Life is precious because we always have different growth and understanding at different stages. My biggest fear is that life will never change or all good things will be released at once. No change means stagnation and ignorance; All good things are released at one time, which means that life is like fireworks in the night sky. Although dazzling, it instantly turned into darkness. We see many movie stars or singers who became famous when they were young, just like meteors in the night sky, which suddenly shine and disappear, which always makes people feel a little sorry. Nowadays, many young people are eager to succeed, eager to see others succeed when they are young, looking for various ways to achieve the so-called success, and even revealing their privacy online; There are still many college students who just want to start a business and make money, leaving behind such important things as accumulating lifelong knowledge through reading. These are all in a misunderstanding, thinking that a success is equal to a success.
Life is like a flower. Some people bloom beautiful flowers in spring, while others wait until summer, autumn or winter to bloom gorgeous flowers. Our life will not be less wonderful because of the late arrival of the flower season, and it will not be more wonderful because of long-term gestation, because we have more expectations and efforts. All we have to do is work hard and look to the future. You can learn lotus in summer, chrysanthemum in autumn and plum in winter. Maybe the later it opens, the more fragrant it will be, and the later it opens, the longer it will be. Sanders, the founder of KFC, started to run a small fast food restaurant at the age of 50 and eventually became one of the largest chain restaurants in the world. When Jiang Taigong was eighty years old, he was still fishing on the Weihe River. Finally, it was reused by Zhou Wenwang, creating the world of the Zhou Dynasty for 800 years. Qi Baishi's artistic creation reached its peak at the age of 90. Flowers have their own seasons, and people have their own moments.
Flowers usually bloom only once, and after completing their brilliant life, they turn into spring mud to protect flowers and protect the life of the next generation to bloom brilliant flowers. People can do better than flowers, and through our continuous efforts, we can make life open up a brilliant life. Su Shi is a great poet, a great calligrapher and a very successful politician. Kangxi was not only a great ruler and strategist, but also proficient in Chinese, Manchu and Mongolian, with profound knowledge of mathematics and astronomy. Einstein didn't speak until he was over three years old, and he didn't speak fluently until he was nine years old. Think carefully every sentence before he says it. In primary and secondary schools, Einstein disliked people because of his slow behavior, and neither his teachers nor his classmates liked him. The teacher who taught him Greek and Latin was disgusted with him and once publicly scolded him: Einstein, you will never be a successful person when you grow up. ? But Einstein finally became a scientist who made outstanding contributions to mankind, and he was also a pretty good violinist. Therefore, as long as we persist in our efforts, the flower season of life can be very long and different beautiful flowers can be produced. Many people are unsuccessful because they don't give themselves enough time and patience to work hard. Many people only succeed once in their lives and disappear like meteors, because they don't understand that success is a process of continuous efforts. When we know that every stage of life can be wonderful through our own efforts, maybe our teenagers will be as gorgeous as peach blossoms in spring, young people will be as fragrant as lotus flowers in summer, middle-aged people will be as tough as chrysanthemums in autumn, and old people will be like plum blossoms in winter, leaving unforgettable warmth and touching spirit in the cold.
Let's live a leisurely life and look forward to the moment when flower of life blooms in our efforts!
Selected articles of positive energy: action determines fate
Unfortunately, many people don't remember this biggest lesson, and as a result, they are reduced to mediocrity. If you look at those ordinary people, you will find that they are all passive. They say far more than they do, or even just say no. But they are almost all experts in making excuses, and they will find all kinds of excuses to delay until they finally prove that they should not do it, are unable to do it or are too late.
Compared with this kind of person, I seem to be much smarter and more cunning. Positive action is another sign of me. I never like talking on paper, and I don't like empty talk. Because I know that there is no result without action, and people who lack action have a bad habit: they like to maintain the status quo and refuse to change. I think this is a bad habit with deep deception and self-destruction, because everything is changing.
Only by relying on oneself can a person not let himself down and increase his chances of controlling his destiny. Smart people only make things happen. The most frustrating thing in life is that you want to do so many things that you can't do anything. We must admit that time is limited and no one can do everything. Eating elephants requires eating bit by bit, and doing things is the same. Doing everything will only let the opportunity slip away. My motto is: Rockefeller is unfair to emergencies.
If you want to be? I'll do it now, okay? That kind of person is to stop all daydreaming, always think about the present and do it from now on. Like what? Tomorrow? 、? Will you come next week? Sentences like this, with? Never do it? It means the same thing.
The leaders of the industrial and commercial circles, the government and the army are all very capable and willing people, and they are 100% active. People who stand by and do nothing will never be leaders.
Whether it is a spontaneous person or a passive person, it is a habit. Habit is like a rope. We weave a rope every day. In the end, it is too thick to break. The rope of habit either leads us to the peak or to the bottom, so we have to be optimistic about habits or bad habits. Bad habits will manipulate us and affect our success or failure. Development is easy, but service is difficult. Good habits are hard to form, but easy to maintain.
To have the habit of doing it now, the most important thing is to have a proactive spirit, get rid of the lax habit, and be determined to be a proactive person and be brave in doing things. Don't wait until everything is ready, and there will never be absolutely perfect things. To cultivate the habit of action, you don't need special wisdom or skills, just work hard to make good habits blossom and bear fruit in life.
Life is a great battle. To win, you need to act, act again, and act forever! !
The above are three selected positive energy articles that I carefully arranged and recommended to you. I hope you like them.