Folklore is a story passed down from mouth to mouth by ordinary people.

I bring you a story about a 20-year-old girl smiling at cancer:

1999 In June, Li Lei, a sophomore in capital university of economics and business, found herself having a headache for several days in a row, which was nothing to her, who had never been ill since childhood and was the first sprinter for six years in a row. At first, it hurt once or twice a day, and she carried it over. Later, three or four times a day, she went to the school doctor's office for painkillers. Later, the pain was not only frequent, but also lasted longer. In order to attend class normally, Li Lei kept taking painkillers. After half a year, the daily strength increased from 1 tablet to 8 tablets, but she still couldn't control it and gradually couldn't open her mouth. Because of the persistent headache, she can't remember the words, can't do her homework and can't sleep well. Her classmates advised her to see a doctor instead of taking painkillers.

In April 2000, she walked into the hospital for the first time. From the CT film of nasopharynx, the doctor suspected that this beautiful young girl had nasopharyngeal carcinoma, and it was terminal. When she learned that she came alone, the doctor said lightly, your skull is fine, and our hospital has little experience in doing this kind of examination. You must go to a specialist hospital for another check-up.

When Li Lei went to Peking University Stomatological Hospital, she couldn't even put a small spoon in her mouth, but she naively thought it would be good to open a knife. After watching the film, the doctor made a biopsy. As soon as the instrument was inserted into his nostrils, blood could not stop flowing out. He complained while doing it. Well, why did you come now?

An ominous sign flashed through Li Lei's mind for the first time. Am I cancer? On the bus home, tears kept rolling down her pale face like broken beads. Looking at the street scene that flashed outside the window, she suddenly felt like a duckweed floating around the world, with no home. She wants to catch everything in front of her, even the mailbox and telephone pole. As long as she can catch it, it seems to be a lifeline ... but when she walked up the stairs, Li Lei suddenly comforted herself with luck. Shouldn't we wait for an expert to make a diagnosis? Maybe it was a misdiagnosis. She wiped her tears, patted her face and casually pushed the door open.

Hearing the concern of grandma and uncle, Li Lei burst into tears. What am I supposed to tell them? She deliberately went to the window and whispered to the window, nothing, just a little inflammation.

However, just as the family was still immersed in happiness, the phone suddenly rang two hours later, and the hospital informed Li Lei and her parents to go to the hospital at once! When her parents arrived at the hospital, Li Lei was already sitting in the examination room. There are several films on the light box board. There are four or five doctors in the room, and one of them is still holding the chair where she is sitting. The doctor asked, are you from Guangdong or Guangxi? Li Lei said that I am from Beijing. How old is it? 20 years old. Then an elderly doctor held her hand and said kindly, son, with the development of science and technology, we can cure all kinds of diseases ... Li Lei suddenly understood everything. She bit her lip hard, but tears kept coming out.

When parents learned that their daughter had nasopharyngeal carcinoma, and it was advanced, the family of three cried bitterly. They asked the doctor if they could treat it. The doctor said there was still hope for a cure. Parents are determined to do their best for their daughter as long as there is a glimmer of hope. From then on, the Li family began to treat their daughter and embarked on a difficult and long road.

Li Lei is in the hospital. After two months of radiotherapy, the salivary glands were destroyed. Not only is the drinking water salty, the soybean milk astringent and the milk fishy, but also her eyesight drops, her ears become deaf, she feels sick and vomits, and her eyebrows and hair fall off. Regular radiotherapy makes the neck skin red and bright, as if it is broken at the touch, and it can't be twisted, let alone cold. The mother guards her daughter day and night. She told herself to hold on and eat more, but after three months, she lost more than ten kilograms and slept in two chairs. She has a small notebook beside her, which records every day that her daughter is hospitalized. Condition, examination, medication, body temperature, appetite, defecation, doctor's words, daughter's feelings, etc. At this critical juncture, the Li family spared no effort! Li Lei and her mother privately formulated an "eight space policies": face the reality and seize the time-hook seal! (that is, their little fingers are opposite)

Death finally slipped away from this brave girl, and Li Lei returned to that simple and warm home in early August. The mother and daughter called this period the Anti-Japanese War, and the "eight-character policy" was: hand in hand, * * * with the enemy. They regularly check and take medicine according to the doctor's requirements, and only piled up half a balcony for their daughter's surviving ganoderma lucidum residue. In recent years, CT and nuclear magnetic disks weigh 7 kilograms. In order to take care of her daughter, her mother resigned, and soon her father retired. With an income of nearly 1,000 yuan, I have to treat my daughter. Parents received subsidies and the school donated money to Li Lei, but life still seems to be stretched. A house of 16 square meters was split in two, and the wardrobe, air conditioner, TV, water dispenser and mobile phone were all given by good people. Li Lei dropped out of school, and her mother looked at her daughter who didn't like talking or going out, and brought back a kitten, hoping that this cat would bring happiness to her daughter.

Although the whole family carefully guarded this "key protected object", one year later, Li Lei's focus shifted to the thoracic vertebra 6 and the left bone 7, and her white blood cell was 1000 (normally 5000- 10000), so she had to be hospitalized again for radiotherapy. However, Li Lei, who is lively and active, just settled down and secretly begged her mother to go swimming. The mother looked at her daughter with begging eyes. She doesn't want to leave any regrets for her children, so let her be. But the management of the swimming pool stopped them. He looked at two palm-sized purple marks on Li Lei's back and said that people with skin diseases could not enter. Li lei said naughtily, you don't want to say n yet, this is the most popular tattoo this year! The man was dazed and let go.

At this time, Li Lei knew her illness very well, but she never said anything. "She only had one belief in her heart: hold on and live! Sure enough, the disease quietly disappeared in front of this optimistic and strong girl. Li Lei, who was discharged for the second time, returned to school after two years of suspension. Her graduating class hugged her and encouraged her to say, "Lei Lei, hold on!" ! Two years later, we will definitely come to Bob to attend your graduation ceremony!

Learn to love even when you are hurt.

At the end of 2002, Li Lei attended a friend's birthday party. Before the party, her friends introduced others to her one after another. When they were introduced to a burly, intelligent and enthusiastic article, they suddenly realized that they met from this friend three or four years ago, but they had never met. At present, Li Lei, with long hair and slender figure, has attracted Wen. Li Lei also felt that his eyes seemed to stay on himself for a long time, and he took special care of her when eating, and kept picking up food for her. He didn't talk much, but his heart was very careful and considerate. When everyone broke up, Wen took the initiative to ask Li Lei for a phone number. Although Li Lei had a good impression on him and declined, Wen insisted that Li Lei only said the top 7 of the mobile phone and never wanted to say it again.

Three days later, Li Lei suddenly received a strange phone call. The other party asked if it was Li Lei. I am. Who is this, please? The other party was silent for a while and said, I am Wen. Li Lei was very surprised. How do you know my phone number? Wen said that it took me more than 100 to find you! At that moment, Li Lei was deeply moved. She didn't expect this spoony guy to "search" her 7-digit mobile phone number.

After that, the two young people came and went, and there seemed to be endless words, regardless of the extraordinary period of SARS. Wen often picks her up from school, accompanies her to the hospital, and sometimes brings some gadgets that surprise her. Li Lei thinks Wen is as considerate, caring, kind and humorous as when she first met him. She couldn't leave her body because her salivary glands were damaged. Every time she was about to get up and pour water, Wen grabbed it one step at a time, and then learned to say, madam, I'm coming ... Every time Wen went to Li's house, she was holding a big watermelon. He said that Lei Lei had a bad voice, which was to clear away heat and fire. Here, have two more! Every time he leaves, he goes downstairs with a kitchen garbage bag carefully. Wen always walks behind her when they are in the hot sun. Li Lei was surprised. Why don't they go together? Wen said with a smile, I'm afraid you will faint at any time. A word touched Li Lei for a long time. She didn't expect Wen to care so much about herself. Accompanied by Wen, she realized that life is so wonderful and beautiful.

A few months later, the young couple became good friends, and Li Lei gradually opened his heart to him and told his life experience without reservation. Wen said, I already know. Don't you care? Wen said firmly, I don't care. What if parents disagree? This is my own business. I will marry the girl I like. He also took Li Lei home. Wen's parents also liked this quiet and beautiful girl, and even said in front of everyone that this is our future daughter-in-law. In order to express his love and sincerity for Li Lei, Wen formally proposed to her.

At that moment, the girl's heart was shocked. In her burning eyes, she realized the sweetness of love and was intoxicated with deep love ... Li Lei's parents were very happy to see two young people in love. She died and had such a good person to accompany her daughter through her life.

However, Li Lei has always been deeply disturbed that Wen's parents don't know their physical condition. She doesn't want to hide it, and she doesn't want to act first. When they started talking about marriage, she offered to tell Wen's parents first. At this time, Beijing TV station asked Li Lei to do a program. She discussed it with Wen and let Wen's parents know a real Li Lei on the screen.

In May 2003, after telling her story to a large audience, Li Lei frankly told Wen's parents what she had been suppressing for a long time: Uncle and aunt, if you can accept Wen and me and give us a beautiful shed, we will care for each other, help each other, encourage each other and live happily every day.

However, as no one expected, Li Lei's frankness made Wen disappear forever. He didn't come to the Li family again, and didn't even call. After the TV broadcast, Li Lei had made various conjectures, but she didn't expect this cruel result. It is said that Wen's parents found him a job abroad. It is said that Wen's parents think Li Lei is sick, and Wen's family thinks Li Jia is poor ... but what Li Lei has never understood is, where has Wen gone? Where is the "courage" he sang hand in hand? Those vows are gone again? For Li Lei, those days were like floating in the ocean of pain, suffering, confusion and injustice, which seemed to be something she could not extricate herself from. She felt that everything around her had changed and become completely strange. ......

But when Li Lei saw her parents' sad eyes, she soon calmed down. Any parent who doesn't want their children to be happy and safe, whether they are combined or separated, is fate. Don't blame fate, didn't God give himself a gift? At the age of 20, I learned to be kind, beautiful and grateful, but some people may not really realize it after living all their lives.

Someone asked, do you hate Wen? She said I didn't hate him. No one forced me to choose him at first. Now I just want to remember his goodness and don't want to hurt myself with it. To say the least, we have turned the page. Why don't I start over? If he can find the girl he loves, I will be happy for him. In fact, what you lose is not necessarily misfortune, and what you get is not necessarily happiness. Forgiving others is forgiving yourself. Wouldn't it be better to leave some space for yourself? On the other hand, if you are in a bad mood, you will get sick, you can die, but the whole family will be finished. I am responsible for my parents-even if I am hurt, I must learn to love! In this way, Li Lei soon came out of the emotional shadow.

Accept a drop of water when necessary, and I will repay your kindness with spring water.

At the end of 2003, Li Lei fell ill again because of a cold, with facial numbness, toothache and high fever of 4 1 degree. She is a person who can stand and sit, but this time she can't stand it. She doesn't even have the strength to lift her eyelids. She has completely turned into a pool of mud. She was a little scared this time, too. Maybe she's really finished. She thinks about who to call, who to call, who to give the pen and sweater to, how to arrange in the future, and so on ... She knows her illness very well, and fighting for time is fighting for life. But she also heard that cancer cells can be burned to death at 43 degrees, so she insisted on not going to the hospital and hoped that she would burn to 43 degrees quickly. My parents cried and begged, my silly girl, how can people burn to 43 degrees? In that case, didn't they also burn to death? Don't wait, go to the hospital! Later, she was in a coma and was carried downstairs ... The dose of radiotherapy had to be increased to 9000 reed, which is 1000 reed.

However, Li Lei of Che Yun once again passed by death.

This year123 October 65438, she went to the hospital to see the results. When she left, her father asked her, did you bring water? When she went to get the water bottle, she found that her father had peeled six almonds for her, and tears welled up in her eyes. She knew that her father loved her the most and was the most soft-hearted. He is afraid to accompany his daughter to the hospital. Every time Li Lei's movie is replayed, he is in tears. Someone once said that it is not suitable to keep a cat because of Li Lei's illness. After the cat was sent away, dad couldn't eat for several days. He said it was a plaything of Lei Lei! Finally, I brought the kitten back. Today, in the face of his daughter's achievements, he can only use six almonds to express his encouragement and blessing to his beloved daughter. How much fatherly love the little almond has placed. I am everything to my father and a continuation of his life! Li Lei carefully put them in a small box and carried them with her all the time, just like her father accompanied her.

Many people know Li Lei from TV, and they also keep the Li family busy, playing from 6 am until late at night. Li Lei always tells everyone with a smile that uncle (aunt) has another stall. It's okay. I am lucky, lucky, don't worry. ......

In a few days, Li Lei carefully recorded the names, locations, contents and contact information of more than 200 calls. The mother saw her daughter's voice hoarse and her face yellow, and she answered the phone with distress. Li Lei said that no matter how tired I am, I will stick to it. If I don't answer, my uncle and aunt will be disappointed and rude. This is a rare feeling. I don't feel the concern of so many people every day, tired and happy!

In recent years, Li Lei has not only made friends with teachers, classmates, patients and doctors, but also made many friends of different ages, identities and experiences, which may not be seen for a lifetime. They sent folk remedies, invited her to play, asked her to give a report and confided their feelings to her ... Last year, Shunkou's mother went to Kangxi Grassland to see patients, and there were blue sky and white clouds, red flowers and green grass everywhere. Breathing fresh and pure air, touching the beautiful and vast nature, everything smiles at her. How wonderful life is! Although I am unfortunate, I am the happiest, aren't I? Wherever I go, I am full of warm and sweet smiles-the world is full of truth, goodness and beauty!

With everyone's concern, Li Lei lived up to expectations, passed the 10 course in the graduation exam and joined China. She often said, in fact, I shed more tears to care about my stream of people. Many people tell me that you are the hope of our life. Any difficulty can be overcome in front of you; We have been paying attention to you all our lives ... they have touched me and educated me. I am not only the hope of my parents, but also the hope of everyone. Not only can't I give up, I will try to improve my self-worth. At least I can climb steep roads, which is better than Zhang Haidi and Sang Lan in wheelchairs. I also want to do something for everyone to integrate myself into the ocean of love.

Li Lei wants to open a teahouse, let passers-by come in and tell you their own life stories, and encourage everyone to contribute their values with their own experiences and attitudes towards life. I want to be a talk show host, show my sunshine and help them solve problems; I want to set up a scholarship foundation for my alma mater so that children who have no money can go to college; I want to set up a cancer foundation for patients, so that people who have no money to treat diseases can also fight for the right to live. She also wants to take her parents to see the sea and travel to Europe. ......

College students can also sell insurance.

Li Lei will graduate from college this summer. Like all her classmates, she began to look for a job, but her heart was very sensitive and fragile. Sure enough, the six-year record of the university made all units return their resumes quickly, and indicated that they failed the qualification examination. In fact, this result is expected, but she is unwilling to accept the unit introduced by acquaintances and get thousands of days' full salary. Isn't this causing trouble to others? I feel uneasy myself! But facing the reality, she really doesn't want her parents to work hard for herself. It's time to give them a break.

According to her own ability, Li Lei thought about it and finally found a platform for herself that can serve others and adapt to herself-insurance agent. Her classmates and even friends can't figure it out, so how can a simple sunshine girl do insurance? She said that Tsinghua graduates can shine shoes and Peking University graduates can sell pork. Why didn't I buy insurance for the first time? Although some people are biased against insurance agents now, their reputation is not very good, and they even hold a contemptuous attitude. But she firmly believes that the concept of the insurance industry is fashionable, scientific and virtuous. As long as it is based on integrity, any industry can win the championship, and gold will shine wherever it is placed. What's more, she has a deeper experience in the insurance industry:/kloc-When she was 0/6 years old, many parents bought insurance for their children, and the father said to her mother, shall we also buy insurance for Lei Lei? The mother looked at her lively daughter and said, the child is so healthy that she has never been ill since she was a child ... It is true that unexpected events will bring misfortune and happiness. Only four years later, she became ill.

To do insurance, we must first make a careful plan for our customers, then explain it repeatedly and run errands constantly. It takes several rounds or even a dozen rounds to reach an agreement, and then you have to take him to the physical examination. Therefore, it is very hard to sign an insurance policy, and it will be wasted if it is not signed well. The purpose of Li Lei's agency is to make customers spend the least money and get the most benefits, among which honesty is very important. Her graduation thesis is "On the Moral Quality of Accounting Practitioners-Honesty-oriented".

The goal is set, but it can really be achieved. Nevertheless, she suffered a lot of grievances and suffered a lot of pressure. She also cried her nose and tried to give up several times. But if you don't do it, you will say sorry to those who care about yourself. How to maintain this family from novels? Later, she gradually figured it out. Now that she has chosen this job, she must insist on doing it well. What can be done easily and smoothly? You can't choose setbacks, but you can choose your attitude towards them.

She insists on visiting customers regularly and calling if she can't go. She thinks that insurance is a kind of friendship, and she is responsible to the customer to the end. As long as she is alive, she will do it forever.

Although the income from insurance is limited, Li Lei is happy and practical. She wants everyone to see that cancer patients are not a burden, they have no achievements, they also have pursuits, they can also contribute, and they can also contribute to the sky in live high!

Li Lei likes the movie Make a Wish starring Cecilia Cheung. In the film, a patient "Onion" cared for by a female nurse died unfortunately. In heaven, his deep love for a female nurse was finally moved-God, God allowed him to return to the world with a brand-new look for 7 days. Although the nurse didn't know him, the onion marked a familiar symbol in front of her, and the two of them burst into tears and hugged each other tightly. ......

Li Lei said that if she is given a brand-new look and coat time, "First, I want to be the mother of the second mother. She's done so much for me. I want to treat her well, let her live a good life, and then make our tick. " Secondly, I want to be an aunt in the cold drink shop downstairs, because when I go to kindergarten, my parents will buy popsicles for their children. I asked my father why he didn't. The next day, my father bought three at once, and my mouth was numb, and I didn't want to give my father a bite. Now I will send a popsicle to the old people who come over and ask them to eat to relieve the heat. Thirdly, I want to be a bride, wear a white wedding dress, walk into the sacred church and listen to the solemn voice of the priest: in health or disease, rich or poor, will you marry him? I will say that I have been with him all my life ... Fourth, find the person I love deeply and ask him why he left me at the beginning. Do you still love him now? Fifth, if I want to have another volleyball match with our former opponents, I will detain them in the back row. Sixth, I want to write a book and tell you my true story. Seventh, I want to be a TV host. Of course, the audience is already a brand-new Li Lei ... "

Although Li Lei still has a bright face and is full of youthful vitality, her nose has started to bleed recently, which is a bad sign, but she says nothing and always secretly wipes it away behind her parents' backs. ......

Although people's life is meant to be, everyone still hopes that this girl with a strong smile will be safe in her life.

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