In fact, everything is born with a long, can not be forced to be consistent. We don't need to feel inferior, everyone is different.
We can't help but envy what others have.
Envy other people's jobs, new houses and cars bought by friends,
Wait, except for one thing,
We ourselves are the envy of others.
When you are thinking about other people's lives, others are thinking, live your own life! People have been working hard for their dreams all their lives, running from the starting point to the end point ... until they reach the end point, they know that their dreams are not here! Looking back, the dream is at the starting point! So I ran back from the finish line … over and over again! Dreams seem to play tricks on people, always behind you! Desire is endless! Just like chasing shadows, people are destroyed by desire! Pigs can't become cows, cows can't become pigs! An eagle can't become a chicken! A chicken can't be an eagle! On the other hand, you will be happy! Why torture yourself!
In fact, people always envy each other like this. Some people often fantasize that they will wake up one day and become someone. Perhaps it is because we are well aware of the shortcomings of our own lives that we compare those we think are perfect as the coordinates of life. In fact, there is no perfection in this world, and people we envy are also suffering from their disappointments. The so-called problem of one family has one family, and people's vanity makes them show their scenery to others. Who can really see behind the scenery of others? Many times, what you get is what you bear. Everything has two sides like a coin, both positive and negative. People, especially women, often like to compare themselves with others, and the result is that "people are more popular than others" In fact, we might as well compare ourselves and see if we are getting better and better and getting closer to our desired goals. Encourage yourself from time to time and you will do better. Maybe while you envy others, others are envious of you.
Of course, some people really deserve our envy, not because they get more, but because they are good at business. Envy others because we expect perfection and live a better life. However, we have overlooked that everyone's situation is different and others can never imitate it. However, we can correct our own shortcomings by observing the advantages of others. Instead of looking up to other people's happiness, we should pay attention to the way others manage happiness. It is better to learn from others' efforts than to envy their good luck.
Don't envy others, count the blessings God has given you, and you will find that what you have is definitely much more than what you don't have. The missing part, although not cute, is also a part of your life. Accept it and treat it well, and your life will be much happier and more open-minded. Therefore, there is really no need to envy others. Grasping what we have and thinking clearly about what we really want will make us truly happy!
Get out of this circle and enjoy what you have! You may not be happy until the end, but you are absolutely happy to enjoy the beautiful scenery all the way! Don't be led by desire! It will be a busy life! Think about this story in turn, and you will enjoy life!
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