I once read a novel about a Danish college student who works and studies by himself. One day, his aunt wanted to visit him and have dinner with him, but his money was only enough for his meal that month. If he wants to invite his aunt to dinner, he will be hungry, but his aunt is very kind to him and he can't refuse, but she takes him into a high-end restaurant and orders expensive food again and again. He can't say "no", but he is secretly thinking about how to deal with the life of the month and month. Finally, his aunt paid for him and said meaningfully, "son, your social life is about to begin." This is an important lesson in my life for you. It will hurt my stomach for this lesson. I know I can't eat so much in one day! Remember: learn to say' no'. "

Yes, there are many helplessness and embarrassment in life. We don't have to face it all, learn to say no; There are also many times when we will be slack, decadent and hesitant, thus hindering our way forward. For these, we should learn to say no; There are many thrills in life. When we begin to degenerate and slide into the abyss of sin, we should pull back from the edge and learn to say no.

Refusing to slack off and facing life positively will usher in a new round of sunrise. Zhang Haidi's legs were disabled and decadent, but she learned to say no in the face of difficulties and setbacks, persisted in learning to write, and became a hero in many people's minds; Coincidentally, Hawking, the greatest scientist after Einstein, was also disabled by illness, resulting in paralysis. Only two fingers can do small activities, but with strong perseverance, he insists on scientific research, but with two fingers, it points out an increasingly clear road for science. Similarly, Beethoven was deaf in both ears, which was a fatal blow to musician Wu Ji, but he said no to fate. Continue to engage in music creation, creating a miracle in the history of music. The revolutionary Wen Yiduo died heroically in the face of reactionary forces, but he inspired generation after generation with magnificent poems.

If you don't learn to refuse, money will confuse you and make you lose yourself. Luxury will make you degenerate and bury yourself. "At the beginning of life, the nature is good, the nature is similar, and they are far apart." Only by knowing how to refuse can we correctly grasp the direction of life, otherwise we will get lost at the fork in the road and become a dead end of life. The biggest corrupt official and gentry in history did not say "no" in front of money, amassed huge wealth, plundered reputation, and lost money in the national treasury. All the money was put into their own pockets, and finally they were sent to commit suicide. He used to be a scholar, and he also had the essence of clearing goods and serving the country, but he couldn't say "no" under the temptation of fame and fortune.

Learn to say no, let yourself out of confusion, learn to say no, let yourself go into battle easily and create brilliance!