Many people think that the story in Love in a Fallen City is to rely on Fan Liuyuan's marriage relationship to get rid of the White Mansion. Some people even make fun of Bai's stupidity. I think she has to do this. She has no choice but this way out.
Bai Ryukyu and Sue were married once and escaped from Bai Mansion once. Although Zhang Ailing did not directly describe the living conditions of Bai Liusu and her former visitors, she just beat about the bush from the crowd. When she learned that her ex-husband had died, everyone advised her to go back. Bai first said flatly, "I'm divorced. Being his widow makes people laugh!" " Third Master urged, "Sister Liu, that's not what you said. We all know that he has done a lot of things that are sorry for you ... "As can be seen from the story, it is unfortunate to stay at the ex-husband's house for nothing. This misfortune is not only felt by him, but is known to everyone. "In another paragraph of the third master's speech, he said," I thought you were crying home and clamoring for a divorce, only blaming me for being a bloody person. I can't bear to see you hit him like this ... "This further proves that the marriage comfort zone in the defense is actually a mess. Let's not examine Bai's behavior in her husband's family for the time being, from "once married to her husband's family, his husband becomes the black sheep." "When I returned to my mother's house, I saw that my mother's house was going to be destroyed-a natural broom scarlet!" It can be seen that the quality of the previous interview was very poor. Then, the death of this marriage is not misfortune, but a narrow escape. Returning home is also a natural dependence. But Pan didn't give her much comfort, even regarded her as a model of shame, and it was a waste of time to screw her out. The article said: "The remarriage in Baifu was treated as a joke, just to send her out. I can't help it, so I just ignore it and let Mrs. Xu make trouble. " It can be seen that she has no position at home, and these convicted Pan are even sadder than people. The most bitter thing for women is to be abandoned when they are injured outside and take refuge in their loved ones, and be regarded as a joke. In fact, her parents also have troubles: they want to kick her out and suffer from nowhere to land. Fortunately, the eccentric Fan Liuyuan appeared.
Zhang Ailing deliberately let Fan Yin make a mistake in a very dramatic way. Aren't all the women in our family "my fair lady and good wife"? Isn't everyone in the family expecting bags and Liu Yuan that meet their own standards? It happened that this quirk of Liuyuan looked down on standard women too much, and ruined the good thing of Canhua. Visible white ryukyu and Sue unintentional lethality. Here, Zhang severely knocked on the "old military uniform thought in the new era". "Today she didn't mean to, but anyway, she gave the villas some color to see see. They think she's been playing all her life? Good morning! She smiled. Paul must be cursing her in his heart, and he is also impressed and awe-inspiring. " Bai Ryukyu and Sue retaliated against everyone with great pride, and fought back with her dancing behavior, which was regarded as not entering Ryukyu. Although it is based on Fan Liuyuan, it is also a smug move. It should be said that it is based on Fan Liuyuan that makes her so proud. So that Paul, a standard uncle and daughter, secretly looked at her with new eyes and respect. Zhang summed up this episode and defined the social status of women: "No matter how good a woman is, she can't get the love of the opposite sex, so she can't get the weight of the same sex." That's what women do. " @2 1cn.com
She jumped out of one fire pit and was then hid in another.
The situation of Ryukyu and Su was the representative of women in the social background at that time, and Ryukyu and Su was a woman with a little mosquito awareness. She realized that the family couldn't stay any longer, and that she couldn't rely on anyone-including Liu Yuan. "Don't really like her yuan? That's not necessarily true. She doesn't believe anything he says to her. She could see that he was used to lying to women. She has to be careful-she has no relatives. She has only herself. " She also wants to find something to do, to support herself by her own ability, and to support herself for one day. But "after my humble career, I lost my identity as a lady." That identity, tasteless to eat, is a pity to abandon. Especially now, she has not despaired of Fan Liuyuan. She can't belittle herself first, otherwise he will have an excuse to refuse to marry her. So, you have to put up with it for a while anyway. "She is a woman with a little mosquito consciousness, but she is not completely mosquito consciousness. She has independent thoughts, but she has no courage to act. What is the reason why you dare to think and dare not act? The reason is that the standard that society defines a woman's social status and social value is the man around her. Men with high status are kind to her, so women are extravagant and lucky; A woman has no position to be nice to her, so her face is very glorious; Men have high status, and if they don't tell her, women deserve it (such women are generally very cheap, at least a little tied to the achievements of sharing property with men), at least on the surface, it is glorious; If a man is incompetent, backward and bad to her, it is a woman who deserves it. So, besides targeting Liu Yuan, how dare Ryukyu and Sue make a move? biography
It's a pity that Liu Yuan is a good barber. Didn't bring her much satisfaction. Let her fall into a chalk dream that others think is a dream.
Liu was afraid that others would not admire him, so that Ryukyu and Sue could not explain the actual relationship between him and Liu Yuan, but people called "Mrs. Fan". Gave a few sweet ironies. Let Ryukyu and Sue love and hate him, and hate themselves for disappointing. So she offered to go back to Bai Mansion. When I got home, I realized: What is disappointment? I left him not to fight for myself, but to become a woman who was "stabbed several times and was too dirty". Only with Liuyuan, that's all. No matter how poisonous a person is, only in this way can he hold his head high and be a man. So she gave in. "Of course, women like to be surrendered, but that is limited to a certain category. If she is completely conquered by Fan Liuyuan's charm and entertainment, it is another story, but it is also mixed with family pressure-the most painful component. " With the cooperation of the most painful components, she even succumbed to her own thoughts, and sleep and play completely disappeared. Then, try to enter the siege of her and Liu Yuan. Although it is an empty city, at least she has become the kind of woman in society who has at least a face on the surface. So she deserves everyone's envy and everyone's imitation. Zhang Ailing's Love in the Whole City
One more thing: in my eyes, they are just two poor people with psychological obstacles. I dare not open my heart to love again. Even if you love, you should step by step, play psychological tactics and play word games. Liu Yuan was depressed by her parents' deformed family, so she lost the belief of organizing her family, the attraction and dependence of her family, and the sense of responsibility. He is not at home. In "Family", Bai Liusu showed the audience how they lost confidence in the family's corpse and how they were disgusted with the family. Homesickness is actually world-weariness, and I am tired of that society to the end. Two people who dare not love again seem to be in love; Two people who don't want to enter the family seem to be forming their own family. What will happen in the future? Who knows? Hope is happy.
Looking at the society at that time from these three families made me sad.