"Benevolence" is an important principle of Confucian moral cultivation, and it is also an important principle for correctly handling interpersonal relationships. "Kindness" means "sympathy, love and help others" and "* * * assistance" means "* * * to tide over the difficulties together". This kind of thought has a distinct aristocratic feeling of "pushing yourself and others". "Make yourself a talent" comes from the Analects of Confucius, Yong Ye, and the original text is "Make yourself a talent, make yourself a talent". It means that if you want to succeed, you must first let others succeed. If you want to be understood, you must first understand others. It and "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" constitute the Confucian moral code.

"Caring for others" takes properly handling the relationship between people, people and nature, and people and society as the starting point and ultimate goal of moral construction.

Nowadays, on the one hand, our economy is developing at a high speed, on the other hand, there has been a moral decline phenomenon that does not match the growth rate of economic development, such as moral anemia, calcium deficiency and ulcers; Indifference of human feelings, weakening of family ties, hardening of love, indifference to life and nature. The introduction of the "Outline" is not unrelated to this.

Lu Xun mercilessly exposed the national inferiority in many of his essays or novels. He deeply analyzed the national mental numbness and spectator psychology, from which we can see that some phenomena that run counter to social care have a long history, not starting today.

Bai Yang, the author of Taiwan Province province's best-selling book The Ugly China People 65438-0985, lashed out at China people's "sauce jar culture" such as "infighting" and "unable to unite" with the attitude of "hating iron to produce steel". Bai Yang said: "The Chinese nation is a deeply hurt nation. Instead of cultivating the ability to praise and appreciate others, China people have developed into polarized animals that fight for themselves or flatter others. Moreover, because it has been sauced in the sauce jar for too long, thoughts, judgments and horizons have been polluted by the sauce jar, and it is difficult to jump out of the scope of the sauce jar. " The popularity of Ugly China in Taiwan Province Province and later in Chinese mainland shows a general introspection psychology of foreigners, but there is also a dark psychology of "voyeurism" that has nothing to do with others. Otherwise, the social phenomenon of Lu Xun's denunciation at the beginning of last century and Baiyang's denunciation at the end of last century should be weakened or even disappeared, but this is not the case. This is also the realistic reason for strengthening the education of Chinese excellent traditional culture today.