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Materials about learning to give up
In the course of life, we often have to get something and give up something. Give up melancholy and get happiness; Give up vulnerability and gain strength; Give up hypocrisy and gain sincerity. Giving up is a kind of learning. Please write an article of no less than 600 words on the topic of "Learn to give up". The topic is self-made and the style is not limited. Writing can give up some things in life, such as hollow reputation and petty profits; But some things can never be given up, such as dignity and responsibility, which are the most fundamental things of human beings. Writing this topic can be conceived from the following aspects: giving up is not a "failure", not a retreat or concession when encountering difficulties, but another way to face difficulties; Learn to give up, giving up is not giving up, but waiting for a better opportunity; Learn to give up, giving up is not a retreat, but a kind of courage to store and store more; Learn to give up, don't insist, it will only kill your will and eventually lose yourself; Learn to give up, giving up is a sobering agent, which makes you calm down and reflect, making your mind clearer; Learn to give up. What you should never give up is the dignity of your personality and the essence of being a man. Materials Supermarket Materials One or two young people came across an advertisement that could turn clean water into gasoline. They were overjoyed and immediately bought the so-called materials in the advertisement and studied them day and night. They have never succeeded. I don't know how long it took, but one of the young people found it impossible to turn water into gasoline through these days' study, so he resolutely gave up and turned to business. When he left, he persuaded another young man: "What we are going to do doesn't conform to the laws of nature at all, so don't fiddle around." But the young man who is still studying doesn't listen at all. He held his head high and replied, "As long as I persist, I believe I will always succeed." Five years later, the young man who turned to business has become a millionaire, and his business talent has been praised by many people. Another young man still failed again and again in his research. He finally went crazy and was admitted to the hospital because of severe mental paranoia. Think about it. Because there are too many stories about sticking to the end, people often think that sticking to and giving up will always be a contradiction. They praise persistence and despise giving up. In fact, persistence represents a tenacious perseverance, which is like a motor, constantly urging people to succeed. However, you need some skills when you move forward. Sometimes if the direction is wrong, it will go further and further. At this time, it is wise to give up first and find the right direction before trying. It can be seen that to grasp the success of life, we must not only learn to persist, but also learn to give up rationally. Material 2 Gandhi once took a train and one of his shoes fell on the track. At this time, the train has already left, and shoes can no longer be picked up. So Gandhi quickly took off the other shoe and threw it next to the first shoe. A passenger was puzzled and asked Gandhi why he did it. Gandhi said with a smile, "No matter how expensive these shoes are, it's no use keeping one. Throw this one out, and the poor man who finds a shoe next to this crossbar will get a pair of shoes. " Think about things that were originally very frustrating, and let the old people handle them like this, giving people a very comfortable feeling. Since there is no possibility of success, it is better to give up decisively than to persist hopelessly there and work in vain. Sometimes giving up at the right time will let us put down some unnecessary burdens, and we will also see new hopes arising from giving up something. Philosophers say that when one door closes, another door may open for you. Material 3 isaac asimov, the world's top science fiction writer, once engaged in biochemical research and teaching. In teaching and research, he found that he had the talent to create science fiction, so he made a calm and objective analysis of himself: "I may become a first-class scientist if I don't leave, but I may become a first-class science fiction writer." Asimov resolutely bid farewell to the university classroom and laboratory and returned home to specialize in writing. Asimov's ingenious abandonment made him brilliant achievements in creating 480 sci-fi works in his life, and also won him the honorary title of the most prestigious sci-fi writer in the world. Thinking about giving up is sometimes painful, but if you can't stand this pain for a while, you may incur lifelong pain. At that time, Asimov chose to give up his laboratory and podium, which was undoubtedly painful, but it was precisely because he survived the temporary pain and achieved the great cause later. If you don't give up, it will be the pain and regret of Asimov's life, even the regret of the world. Asimov's clever abandonment is his own happiness, as well as the luck of readers and the world. Professor 4 of Materials University asked Nanyin, a famous Zen master in Meiji Japan, about Zen. Nanyin treats it with courtesy instead of Zen. He poured the tea into the visitor's cup, and the cup was full. Keep pouring. The professor watched helplessly as the tea kept overflowing from the cup. Finally, he can't be silent. He said loudly, "It has overflowed, and it can't be poured again." "You are like this cup," Yin Nan replied. "This is all your own opinion. How can I tell you Zen if you don't empty your cup first? " Think about it. Sometimes, if we only cling to our own things, it is difficult to accept other people's things. Especially in modern society, people are more and more greedy. Some people don't want to give up anything, but they get nothing. Give up something and you will get something. For an expert, giving up is not failure, but wisdom. Material 5 A person feels that life is very heavy, so he goes to see a philosopher and seeks a way out. The philosopher put a basket on his shoulder, pointed to a gravel road and said, "Every step you take, pick up a stone and put it in to see what you feel." The man did as the philosopher said. Then the philosopher asked him how he felt. The man said, "I feel heavier and heavier." The philosopher said, "that's why you feel that life is getting heavier and heavier." When we came to this world, each of us carried an empty basket, but we had to pick up something from this world every step, so we felt more and more tired. " Think about it. There are many lovely people in life, but time and energy are limited. If you don't give up everything, I'm afraid you'll miss your success. Is it not important to resist temptation and learn to give up? Material 6 According to legend, there is a "six-foot lane" in Tongcheng, Anhui Province, which was originally a place of dispute between Zhang and Ye. The master of the Zhang family is the prime minister of the dynasty, and Mrs. Zhang wrote to him. He wrote back and said, "A letter thousands of miles away is only the width of a wall. Why not let him be three feet?"? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, and Qin Shihuang is not seen. " So, the Zhang family gave up three feet. Ye Jia was deeply ashamed and gave up three feet, becoming a "six-foot lane". Think about it. The Prime Minister gave up the dignity of his face, turned the war into a friendship with the spirit of leniency, and stopped fighting before the war. It can be seen that giving up correctly often requires the same noble demeanor as Song Qiuju. Material 7 Qian Xuesen, the originator of China's scientific community and the "father of Chinese missiles", resolutely gave up the generous treatment abroad for the national defense of the motherland and returned to China with the wisdom of "being the teacher of the Five Mountains". During this time, he made great sacrifices, risked his life and endured humiliation in a foreign country. He gave up successfully. If he stays in America, he must have rich material conditions. However, if he made such a choice, today's Qian Xuesen is just an ordinary or even mediocre member of Qian Qian's thousands of overseas students! It takes courage to give up, but also the courage to "dare to take the world by storm". Sometimes, giving up has to face all kinds of pressures, either from the society or from the secular. This article is reproduced from [Junior Chinese Education Network]:/Wen Zuo /200709/ Wen Zuo _10486.html.