The way to cultivate the ability of love is as follows:

1, learn to accept. When you really love someone, it means that you accept and respect the person you love to the maximum extent. Love the person you love as a unique individual;

2. Learn to be confident. A person who is not confident enough often cannot love others well. They will be afraid to show themselves sincerely because they are not confident, and they will always worry about losing each other's love because they are not confident. As a result, they may not dare to love completely. Loving someone means taking a responsibility, so you need enough courage and confidence.

The way to cultivate the ability to be loved is as follows:

1, and strive to improve their ability, both inside and outside. Learn etiquette, make-up, and clothing collocation to enhance taste;

2. Read more good books to enhance the connotation and personality charm.

I never think love is an ability, I think it is an emotion. It is a good idea that you are willing to love and warm others, but if it is listed as a clause and put in a frame, everything will become cold. Smile happily, help if you want, keep your heart soft, don't force yourself, and don't impose any ability to love others, so you are already great.