Wang Bingxiang in the sixth grade
As the saying goes, "parents are the best teachers for children." However, I became a teacher for my mother and influenced the whole family with practical actions. In my mother's words, by changing my mother, I changed not only my mother, but also the people around her, including her colleagues.
It goes back to the winter of the year before last, when it was already very cold. It's very cold in winter in Beijing, so my family drove out to see a movie. Because Olympic officials come to visit Beijing, there are all kinds of plastic flowers everywhere in Beijing, which makes people feel a little warm in winter. We eat snacks and listen to music in the car, which is very comfortable. When I arrived in Dongzhimen, my mother threw the garbage bag filled with garbage outside along the window. It was too late for me to stop it. I asked my father to drive the car back to pick up garbage, and my mother said that the car could not be returned. Besides, there are so many cars on the road. What if I go back and collapse? Mom even said it would be nice to change it next time. But I was determined not to do it, and finally my dad brought the car back. Mother found the rubbish she had thrown away. Although it took a lot of time, the whole family thought I was right. On the way home, many garbage bags of different colors were hung on the trees on both sides of the airport expressway, and the whole family deeply reflected.
Since then, our whole family has become ambassadors of "stressing civilization and protecting the environment" with practical actions. Last week, my family climbed Xiangshan, enjoyed the red leaves and took a lot of food to have a picnic. After the picnic, everyone will collect the garbage separately, carry it down the mountain and throw it where there are trash cans. Such a thing will be done consciously in our family without my supervision. My mother touched me with practical actions. She often picks up the rubbish on the ground in public places and throws it into the trash can.
To be civilized and polite, everyone needs to start from me and start from small things. As small masters of the country, we have the obligation to help those who have not received a good education to learn and practice civilization. Because we are rich in material life today, we need to build a high level of spiritual civilization. Only in this way can our country become a strong and highly civilized country, and civilization can be admired by more people.
Once, I saw on TV that Germany, an ancient European civilization, called on the people of the whole country to be civilized and polite, and to find back the ancient etiquette of the Germanic nation. At the same time, for example, an old woman passed by this road. Although she was the only one on the road, she waited for the red light to turn green. The old woman replied, "I'm afraid the children upstairs will think they can pass when they see the red light." I sent this story to all my grandfathers, grandmothers, fathers and mothers. How important your words and deeds are to us. When you have uncivilized behavior, think about your children! Thought we were an ancient civilization!
I want to use this little experience to tell my classmates that our words and deeds can also influence and change adults! Try it if you don't believe me! Let's all be polite middle school students! In this way, our life can be better and our country can be stronger.
Civilized manners accompany me.
Eighth grade gong
Our country is a country of etiquette and has always been polite. Confucius believes that "you can't stand without learning etiquette"; Jia Yi in Han Dynasty regarded politeness as the difference between man and beast. In modern civilized society, being civilized and polite should be strongly advocated, because it is of great significance to "form a good social atmosphere of pursuing nobleness and inspiring advanced" and "promote the continuous improvement of the quality of the whole nation". Therefore, we citizens should conform to the requirements of the times, consciously abide by them and be polite and civilized citizens. However, it is a pity that in real life, uncivilized and impolite phenomena often appear.
For example, picking your ears, nose and even feet in front of the public; When listening to others, look around and disdain; Grab, fight for seats and even fight as soon as you get on the bus; Spitting in public places, littering and urinating on the roadside. On June 6, 2004, Beijing Radio and TV News reported that the roadside to the east of Muxidi Science and Technology Museum has become an open-air toilet for taxi drivers, so that it can be smelled every few hundred meters, and residents have great opinions. Residents can't have small opinions. In broad daylight, in broad daylight, it is convenient to say it is convenient on the side of the road without fences. It's really uncivilized It is convenient for people to urinate, but it is not convenient for passers-by. Not only is it inconvenient for pedestrians, but foreigners will not laugh at the low quality of our whole Chinese nation when they see it, because your convenience has discriminated against and implicated the whole nation. What a scandal! Be worthy of raising your motherland?
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John Locke, a famous British educator, said: "Politeness is a habit that children and young people should pay special attention to." We should learn from Premier Zhou, and American President Nixon commented on this in his book Leaders. Nixon said: "Zhou Enlai's agility and wit far exceed that of any other world leader I know. This is China's unique and special character, and it is also the essence of various China civilizations developed over the centuries. He is very modest, but calm and firm. " Zhou Enlai's civilized speech, polite manners, convincing temperament and demeanor are vivid manifestations of his noble character, broad mind, extraordinary wisdom and beautiful and noble mind.
It seems that manners are very important. So, what should we do? First of all, pay attention to cultivate your beautiful and noble mind. On the surface, politeness is external, but in fact, the external form contains internal thoughts and feelings. A truly civilized and polite person is a person with a beautiful heart, and beautiful language comes from a beautiful heart. This is what people often say: "what you say is what you do" and "what you say is what you do". Secondly, we should regulate our words and deeds with the requirements of civilized and polite moral standards in practice. Politeness is very important in performance. It mainly includes four points: ① Modesty and courtesy; 2 civilized speech; 3 dignified behavior; ④ Pay attention to hygiene. I think, if you can do the above four points, you are worthy of being a member of the "state of etiquette".
Goethe, a famous German writer, famously said, "A man's politeness is a mirror, which reflects his portrait." Indeed, people always judge you by your behavior. Because politeness is the golden key for human beings to live in harmony, and only with it can we be happy and happy.
Civilization is a quality that everyone must possess.
Deng Wenxue, Senior One (1)
The wind of etiquette has been passed down for thousands of years, and China is known as "an ancient civilization" and "a country of etiquette". In today's society, from the exchange of visits between heads of state to the communication between ordinary people, from the smile of political masters to the handshake of business masters, the brilliance of civilization and etiquette shines.
When we contact a person, we often give him some comments: "This person is of high quality and personable"; "This man is educated and speaks politely"; "This man is so bad that he can't even say a good word"; "This man is vulgar and foul-mouthed"; "This man is so sloppy that his clothes are wrinkled and his face has not been wiped clean" ... A high-quality and educated person must have good manners. Such people will be respected and welcomed.
Civilized etiquette should pay attention to peacetime, cultivate from childhood and develop good habits. There is an old saying: "Less becomes nature, and habit becomes nature." The story of "Liu Bei's three visits to the cottage" shows that only by respecting others can you gain their respect and trust and succeed in your career. Zhou Enlai devoted his whole life to the cause of the Party and the people, but every time he went out to inspect the work, he always shook hands with waiters, chefs, guards and medical staff to express his gratitude. Premier Zhou is a model of respecting others and an example for young people to learn. Some people think that freedom is not important in modern society, as long as you study hard, work hard and have real skills. Modern society does respect individual choices and has greater freedom. However, it needs more people's civilized manners, because civilized manners are an important symbol of social civilization. There are more and more "elegant halls" in modern society, and no one wants to be a person who is difficult to board "elegant halls".
Japanese family education attaches great importance to the education of children. The mother cooked the meal without telling the child to eat it. Children can't eat by themselves first. Children must say "you're welcome" before eating. Children have a set of etiquette rules every time they leave home or go home. Children should say "I'm leaving" to their parents every time they go out, and "I'm back" every time they go home and enter the door. The civilized behavior of Japanese children has become their habit.
Japan has strict customs, not to mention our ancient country with a culture of 5,000 years.
Now, our country pays more and more attention to civilized manners, such as advocating civilized manners; Publication of "Popular Reader of Civilized Etiquette"; Carry out a variety of activities such as the "Capital Citizen Civilization and Etiquette Competition". Once I was in the street, I saw four eight or nine-year-old children moving their bicycles away from the blind road. Sweat trickled down their foreheads one after another, but they didn't care. Seeing this scene, I think anyone will be moved by them. This incident is enough to prove the achievements of China's civilized etiquette education.
Civilized manners and behaviors, together with quiet, elegant and comfortable environment and rich cultural atmosphere, will stimulate students to explore and seek knowledge. Good manners and customs can affect your study, your life and even your later life. Why not? Only with deep background, elegant speech and proper manners can we be called real connotative beauty.
Etiquette is everywhere, it can show a person's moral cultivation, it can enhance the friendship between people, and it has too many functions. In this spring-filled March, spring is full of vigor and vitality, which means that we should have a brand-new look. So how can we make the etiquette of primary school students overflow in a beautiful campus? We primary school students should dress appropriately, conform to students' identity, and reflect the vigorous style of students in the new century, because your appearance, appearance and manners make people know your accomplishment at a glance. The flag-raising ceremony is the most solemn. This embodies the national flag of civilization and blood, which is more distinct under the encirclement of etiquette. At this moment, under the national flag, we should sing the national anthem seriously and in full spirit, and live up to the reputation of "a country of etiquette". Classroom etiquette has a great influence on teachers' teaching, which is directly related to the honor and cohesion of a class and reflects the class spirit and appearance of this class. Campus etiquette is even more important. During the break after class, don't spit, throw scraps of paper, play with chalk heads, walk up and down the stairs to the right, and take the initiative to say hello to teachers and guests in Mandarin. Also care for flowers, trees and all facilities, do not cross the green belt, care for cleanliness, obey the management of teachers, and accept criticism and dissuasion from students on duty. When you are helped by the teacher, you should take the initiative to say thank you sincerely.
Etiquette is also indispensable among students. It is like lubricating oil, which makes the rough friction disappear. If there are contradictions, do more self-reflection. Understand each other and tolerate others. Cultivating a strong spirit of cooperation will make the class more United and the friendship deeper. In March, the month of civility and courtesy, the whole China is filled with the fragrance of civility and courtesy. These scents come from all kinds of flowers. You are one of them. Believe in yourself, we can do it. We will provoke the mission of inheriting etiquette, and we will not lose to the future, nor to the beautiful campus that educated us.
When it comes to caring for public property, some people may think it is a cliche, because slogans such as "Caring for public property is glorious, destroying public property is shameful" and "Caring for public property is everyone's responsibility" can probably be said by kindergarten children.
But what have we done in real life? Careful observation reveals that vandalism can be found everywhere on campus: some students trample on the lawn in order to cut corners; Accidentally damaged the doors and windows of the classroom while playing football; Damaged the desks and chairs, railings and trash cans in the campus during outdoor sports; You often see all kinds of graffiti on desks and chairs ... Have you ever thought that whether intentionally or unintentionally, these behaviors have caused damage to public property, brought unnecessary troubles to other students' study and life, and increased the maintenance cost of school public property, which is not a small expense?
Whenever you see these uncivilized behaviors, you may frown and mutter: wicked! Yes, what these people lack is "public morality", they don't talk about social morality, they don't obey the rules and discipline. They never realize that they are also the "owners" of these public properties, and they don't know that public properties are common items, and everyone has the obligation to take care of them.
"Without virtue, the people will not stand, and without virtue, the country will not prosper." Citizen's moral quality reflects a nation's mental state and affects the rise and fall of a nation's cause. A person's words and deeds often show the level of personal quality, which in turn affects the overall quality of the whole collective. Whether a citizen cares about public facilities can reflect a person's moral quality and school spirit. Generally speaking, it also reflects a country's civilization and national quality. The "Implementation Outline of Citizen Moral Construction" promulgated by our country puts forward social morality with the main content of "being polite, helping others, caring for public property, protecting the environment and obeying the law". As citizens of China people, we should all regulate our behavior according to this requirement.
The ancients said: "Don't do it with small goodness, don't do it with small evils." In fact, caring for public property is also very simple to do. As long as you have a sense of public morality and abide by the rules and regulations of the school everywhere, you can ensure the integrity and normal use of public facilities.
1, patriotic and law-abiding, polite and honest, United and friendly, diligent and self-reliant, dedicated and dedicated.
2. Pay attention to manners.
3. Speak civilized language, do civilized things and be civilized people.
4. Smile is the key to open the heart lock.
5. Be polite and start with me.
6. If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it.
7. Etiquette, etiquette, courtesy, civilization, elegance and culture.
8. Etiquette is a civilized norm, and etiquette is a quality accomplishment.
9, details etiquette, details show quality.
Don't color my white dress. (wall cleaning)