Today's society is struggling without money, but money is not everything. We don't oppose wealth, and we don't exclude money. As long as we earn wealth through proper channels and hard-working hands, it is worth promoting. But with money, regardless of family ties, being rich and heartless will also be reprimanded by the world. Money is not everything, you can't buy affection, let alone friendship. Being rich doesn't mean having everything, and sometimes being rich doesn't make the mare go.
As we all know, money can't buy happiness. Although this is true, poverty can't buy happiness. Some people are rich, but they still suffer from unhappiness; On the contrary, others don't have much money, but they spend their lives with satisfaction because they know how to enjoy what they have to the maximum. The purpose of life is not to desperately collect money. We must learn to cherish what we have and appreciate the life we have. For example, if we throw away unnecessary sundries in the room, it will make people feel empty and free. If you think that happiness comes from the possession of property, you are wrong. If a little property can make you feel satisfied, you can also get happiness. Our happiness lies not in what we have, but in our inner satisfaction.
If we only regard money as a small part of our life and hardly think about it, we will become very happy. In order to achieve this, we must try to avoid debt, because it is usually difficult to get rid of it. Learn to spend as planned, not on impulse. If you really want a loan, you must first have a perfect plan, and then choose an acceptable and reasonable loan project.
Try to avoid complex and high-risk investment plans, which may have high returns, but also have great risk of failure. A good financial plan should be simple and balanced, so that you won't worry about the income. So we need to find a safer way to invest, so that we can let go and not be afraid of getting stuck.
No matter how much money you have, are you still jealous of those who have more money? A recent survey asked people whether they were willing to choose a salary higher than the national average. They could have chosen to get a higher salary in a certain country, but the salary is lower than the national average. Surprisingly, however, most of them chose to get a salary in a country with a low average level. Although it is not that high, the salary is higher than the average level.
I don't think it makes sense. Others have more money than you should not be the reason why you are unhappy. It is good for others to live a full life. Don't feel sorry for yourself just because you haven't surpassed the people around you.
Throughout ancient and modern times, the word money has interpreted countless tragicomedy in the world. The comedian is happy physically and mentally, and his family is prosperous and everlasting; As a tragedy, I beat my chest, hurt my family and regret it forever. Therefore, Chinese traditional education regards money as a kind of pollution to people's spirit, and educates people to take strict precautions. It is also called "Green Rust", "Bronze Flavor", "Kong Fang Brothers" and "Blocker". The secular view of money is another way of saying, "money makes the mare go", "money goes to business, fire goes to the pig's head" and "everything is round with money" A penny can kill the hero's theory of money omnipotence. It can be said that there are different opinions about right and wrong.
In the Western Jin Dynasty, Lu Bao wrote in "On the God of Wealth": "With money, poverty is bright, cold is warm, and poverty is brave." "Money can turn disasters into blessings. When you are defeated, you will find peace, and the deceased will be like this. The length of life, rich or poor, cares about money. " This passage is joking, humorous, laughing, hiding and scolding, and it focuses on awakening the world. Although it was written by people nearly two thousand years ago, readers still seem to have synaesthesia today. Zhang Wei, a scholar in Tianbao period, commented on Qian's poem: "The world needs gold to make friends, not much gold is not deep. Even if you make a promise temporarily, you will always be a passer-by. " With sharp and profound language, Zhang Wei revealed that the friendship in secular society is based on money, and it is necessary to have deep affection and use more money. Some foreign celebrities have also issued similar sighs. Shakespeare once said a lot about money. "Money is a great magic wand, which can casually change a person's appearance," he said very thoroughly in the drama Timon of Athens: "With only a little gold, you can turn black into white, ugly into beauty, wrong into right, humble into noble, old people into teenagers and cowards into warriors. It can make the cursed people blessed, the people suffering from gray epilepsy loved by all, it can make thieves compete with their elders, and it can make yellow-skinned widows become brides again. " This passage is incisive to money, which can distort human nature. When it comes to money, western cultures are interlinked. No wonder Sima Qian, who buried himself in writing history books, also said, "Prosperity in the world is beneficial, prosperity in the world is beneficial. The king of thousands of people, the king of thousands of households and the king of hundreds of rooms are still poor, but the situation is that the people are made up of families! "
When people are poor, they are eager for material things and money, but once they have it, they suddenly find that money is not everything. Rousseau of France said, "Money can't buy what the soul needs." Money can buy marriage, but not love; Money can buy advanced Simmons, but it can't buy sleep; Money can buy books, but not knowledge; Money can buy expensive medicine, but not health; Money can buy a diploma, but it can't buy real materials and practical learning; Money can buy elixir of life, but not life. Confucius, the most holy teacher, said, "A gentleman is righteous and a villain is beneficial." What Confucianism advocates is a word of benevolence and righteousness. "Being rich and expensive is what people want, and there is nowhere to find it." Taoism in our country pays attention to returning to nature, not seeking fame and fortune, "the breeze and the bright moon don't want money", which is somewhat dusty thinking, for fear of being polluted by money and becoming vulgar. It has also become an unattainable detachment temperament of our nation. The praise and criticism of money is reasonable, and the old lady said that the old lady has a way.
But in any case, money is a tool for human survival and one of the foundations of a country's prosperity. In all fairness, money is really a good thing, and the key is people's attitude towards it. There is a saying in our country that a gentleman loves talents and takes them wisely, but he has no way without taking money. The former mayor of Fuyang was insatiable for greed. In the court of the Provincial High Court, the judge deducted reasonable living expenses and other expenses from the legal income of the Xiao family. Xiaojia also has 12232638.26 yuan, 14243 yuan, 83880 yuan and so on. And can't tell the difference between the source. The money used to be wealth, but it became evidence in court. There is a saying, "Don't cry until you see the coffin." Zuo Xin Jr. finally understood the meaning of money. He said, "People want three meals a day and three meals a night. What do I need so much money for? " This understanding is really like Zijuan's girl saying Jia Baoyu, "Master Bao, you are late!" The mayor was dismissed and the citizens failed. They were imprisoned and tortured, and all their hard work, struggle, honor and wealth were wasted, just like a nightmare. Money, money, you didn't discuss it. No wonder the cynical Jigong sang, "Gold is not red enough, and silver is not red enough. How can it reach you after you die? "
Bacon, an English thinker, said well that money should be sought by proper means, used cautiously, used generously to save the world, and separated from it when you die. Everyone needs money, everyone needs money, but there are many ways to get love, mainly depending on which channel you choose to get it. To paraphrase an old saying, "A gentleman loves money and takes it wisely." For money, what we have to do is to maintain an attitude of admiration but not admiration, and not to be too greedy. It is absolutely impossible to do whatever it takes for money, especially for our contemporary college students, who should have a healthy view of money. For money, keep a calm heart, don't make public, but don't shrink back. To put it bluntly, money is like underwear. Everyone should have it, but you can't tell others that you have it, or even show it to others. Although others know that you have it, they just don't know how much you have. In fact, this is a truth. This is our correct attitude towards money! I also believe that this will be everyone's attitude.