Family style is a family's moral standard, just like food, it is an indispensable part of a family. In our family, there is also a family style, that is, how to be a person.
Be a man, you must be kind. There is a saying that "there must be a heart to hurt others and a heart to guard against others". That's what my parents taught me when I was a child. I remember when I was a child, I deliberately threw pebbles into a path. Although the path was narrow and remote, my father saw it and quickly stopped me and taught me, "How did this happen?" "What's the matter ..." I felt that my father was angry, but I said with grievance. "You may make the cyclist fall like this, which is tantamount to setting others up!" Dad said excitedly, I listened silently and gradually realized my mistake. Seeing that I seemed to realize my mistake, my father softened his tone and continued, "Son, you should remember the pain of falling down last year?" Riding a bike hurts more than that! "Unconsciously, I covered my left hand, and the injury made me unforgettable. At this time, my father became as kind as before and said, "Pick up those pebbles quickly." "good! "
A lesson, let me know that I should do every detail carefully, because I am afraid that a casual move will hurt others.
Be a man, be punctual. Although my mother didn't tell me this truth, she always told me this truth with actions. Every time I make an appointment with someone, my mother always arrives a few minutes early. She said that people would not wait for us. Once, I joked that "I would rather teach me to wait for the whole world than the whole world". However, over time, I also listened.
Some parents' behaviors always affect their children. Excellent quality is cultivated from them.
This is my family style, from which I have developed many good qualities. This family style is worth spreading!
The family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. The family wind is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the moisture of rain and dew can the seedlings grow healthily. Only under the influence of good family style can children excel. Recently, with the popularity of the word "family style", I can't help but see pictures of my grandparents educating me.
When I was a child, my grandmother always told me a few words before going to school: "Son, don't grind your teeth with your classmates at school (Bozhou proverb refers to quarreling or fighting). If someone bullies you, come back and tell me, and I will find your teacher! Grandma is afraid that I will have conflicts with my classmates at school. She always gives me "political lessons" and tells me some classic stories. She taught me to be frank when things go wrong, to live in harmony with teachers and classmates at school, and not to have conflicts with others at every turn. Under grandma's inculcation, I basically have no contradiction with my teachers and classmates.
Grandpa loves to tell me a lot about his experience as a soldier and warns me: "Few young people nowadays can bear hardships and stand hard work. You must learn to bear hardships from an early age, otherwise you can't do great things! " Grandpa also taught me: "When you suffer, you become a master." "Only after experiencing the unbearable environment of ordinary people can we cultivate real talents and excel in our future work and life. Perhaps this is "the sky will drop to a great post, first suffering its heart, working its bones and muscles, starving its flesh and blood ...", I think.
Now, I have entered high school and become a high school student. I have formed the good habit of helping others, working hard and simple living. Come to think of it carefully, all these are closely related to our family style. Grandma still gives me a "political lesson" before going to school every time, and grandpa still tells me about the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation from time to time before and after meals. I am happy to listen to them, because it is a good family in our family.
I have been thinking that it is a national culture worth promoting to establish a correct family style and inherit excellent family rules and family instructions. Nowadays, some bad habits in society have gradually withdrawn from people's sight, and "positive energy" has been passed down. If we add a good family style to the construction, our society will be purer, people's lives will be better and the country's future will be more prosperous!
I hope it will help you, but I still hope to adopt it ~ ~