True love is deep sympathy and love for the person you love, and you don't want to give up the slightest. True love is the strong root of the tree of love deeply rooted in the soil. It will not die easily without the strong destruction of external forces. A philosopher said: "Love is essentially a feeling directed at the weak." A completely heartfelt state of mind willing to pay for each other's happiness and happiness, an involuntary strong impulse to put each other under their own protection and provide emotional and physical protection, so as to spoil her (him) as much as possible and feel sorry for her (him), regardless of whether they are actually stronger than each other.
True love is unconditional and selfless. True love is a glass of water handed by a lover when he is thirsty, a reminder when he goes out, an open embrace when he cries, an idea that "if I don't go home, he can't sleep" flashed in his mind on the way home in a hurry, a feeling that his lover wants to hurt her (him) when he is sick, and a stubbornness that "I will do anything as long as she (he) is happy".
As we all know, love represents a kind of responsibility, love is an unconditional sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not unrequited, and the return of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other party. And the other person's happiness is your happiness, and the other person's happiness is your happiness. You should be happy for her happiness and her happiness. Whether it is love in love or love in family friendship.
People live only because they want to live a happy life. Being with the person you love and paying for the person you love is a great pleasure in life. When you love someone, you also want her to be happy. Only when she is happy can you be happy. So when you think you love her, you have decided to pay unconditionally or even sacrifice for her. Only this kind of dedication and sacrifice can bring her happiness and happiness, your dedication and sacrifice are meaningful, and your love can find a home. If your dedication and sacrifice can't bring happiness and happiness to each other, it means that you don't know each other at all, don't know how to love each other, and are not suitable for being together at all. When you can't make both sides happy by changing the way of dedication and sacrifice (that is, the way of love), it means that you are not suitable for loving each other at all. At this point, all you can give each other is mutual blessing. Because blessing is also a kind of love, when your love for her is only blessing, you should give up. Then bless each other well, let your last love continue and let you find your own love.
There is no right or wrong in love, only suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When we can't be together, it's not that she didn't choose you or that you abandoned her, but that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't worry, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you can find your true love. If you feel pain when you lose someone, it proves that you don't love her at all. You just want to possess her. When your possessiveness is not satisfied, you will feel pain. When you love someone, what you have to think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her. Can you give her the feeling she needs? Can you give her happiness and happiness? Can you be happy for her happiness and happiness? Only such love is true love, and only such love is happiness.
Love is fair, and you can only get it if you pay first. Whether men or women, as long as they feel in love with each other, they should pay first, and it is always the most painful to get someone who doesn't want to pay. In fact, as long as you really give love, you will get the same return. As long as you really pay for the person you love, then your love is true love, not the true love you have, but the true love you give and the true love you create. People always want to find and get true love, but they are always unwilling to give it. If no one wants to give it, how can anyone want it? Since you are unwilling to pay, how do you have the right to ask others to pay? Therefore, those who really get true love will always be those who are willing to give their true love unconditionally and selflessly. Because true love is in your heart, and you don't need to look for it at all. You have true love yourself, but you hide it deeply and don't want to share it with others. However, only the true love shared with others can be felt and enjoyed by oneself, because true love is selfless, and true love is used to give rather than take.
If you believe in Christianity. "Love is patient and kind; Love is not jealous, love is not boastful, arrogant, shy, does not seek its own benefits, does not get angry easily, does not count people's evils, does not like injustice, but only likes truth; Everything is tolerant, everything is believed, everything is hoped, and everything is patient; Love never stops. "
In fact, everyone has a warm corner in their hearts. It's just that it wouldn't be so warm without sunshine. Therefore, even if no one gives sunshine for the time being, I think I should learn to give myself sunshine. Just like those who were crushed in the earthquake, they only gave themselves hope and sunshine.
Love should not be just an emotion, but an ability. It is an ability to change the rules of nature, to turn hostility into friendship, to turn decay into magic, to know how to give, to accept loneliness and to be selfless. It is easier said than done, but once you do it, you will be happy.