We grew up in a relatively rigid educational environment, and we did not advocate innovation or encourage others. From an early age, my parents would tell us to "study hard and get into a good university", but never say why we should study hard. I guess they don't know either. Until we go to college, each of us has only one goal, that is, to get into a good university. We will unconsciously adhere to our parents' ways of thinking and concepts, and never doubt them. But once we graduate from college, there are too many roads in front of us. We seem to have lost the ability to find our own goals in life because we blindly accept our parents' way of thinking.
When we are born, everyone will carry the seeds of dreams and our own goals in life, but it will stay dormant for a long time. I don't know if you have played it. When I was a child, the game we played every spring outing was called "Looking for Baby". We hid some notes with the names of prizes in the Woods so that we could find them. You can find this prize at any time. At that time, it was always exciting. We searched all the trees and grass for notes, and every time we found them, we would jump for joy. In the process of searching, some children find it too difficult to give up. Some children said that there were no "babies" in the forest and gave up. The children who finally get the "baby" are those who have taken the trouble to find it.
I think maybe the seed of this dream is just like the "baby" you were looking for when you were a child. Will not appear in front of your eyes. You have to find it yourself. It takes a hard process. Once you find it, you can activate the seeds of your dreams from hibernation. Many times, finding the goal in life will not go according to your expectation. There will always be a lot of heartbreaking struggles before reaching the goal, or sometimes it will appear in front of you in an unexpected form.
Until I was a graduate student, I also worked hard every day to get good grades according to my parents' arrangement. When I graduated from graduate school, my parents asked me to continue my PhD. Their idea is, "Now that I have finished my master's degree, I wish I had a doctor at home." At that time, I didn't know what my life goal was and what I would do after graduation. I just feel that I can't go on studying (because it is said that many female doctoral students in the school are abnormal and can't get married), and I don't want to be a teacher or do research. When I first started looking for a job, I set myself the goal of entering a Japanese company and becoming a senior white-collar worker because I like Japanese very much. As a result, many resumes didn't respond, because many Japanese companies needed English ability, and my English level was very low at that time. After many twists and turns, I invested a lot of resumes and finally entered the company where I used to work to do strategic planning. I didn't know what strategic planning was at that time. However, after I entered this company by mistake, through these years' exercise, I found my own goal and found something I like in my post, "expressing my thoughts in words and infecting others with words."
Oh? Henry is a famous American writer of critical realism and one of the three great masters of short stories in the world. Only after suffering great misfortune and being locked in a small cell in Columbus, Ohio, did he find his talent sleeping in his brain. Through his unfortunate experience, he was forced to know his "other self", and with his imagination, he finally found himself a great writer.
Maybe now you have lost your way, or you can't find your goal in life, or you don't know where to go in front of a vast sea. Please rekindle the fire of hope, faith and courage. Because it is not more difficult to find one's goal in life and pursue one's dreams and success than to accept misfortune and mediocrity. When you keep pursuing your goals in life, the ripples of hope will ripple.
What is life? What is the purpose of life? The purpose cannot be said to be unimportant. Purpose determines the direction of life, but life is not equal to purpose. Life is still the whole process of running towards the goal. Life is a process! Ah, this is the simplest but least noticed mistake. The goal of life is our eternal tomorrow, and our life will always be today, not this moment, but the fleeting present!
People with goals live a meaningful life, and those who can attach importance to the process of life itself and grasp it are the people who live a full and true life-"don't waste your life!" " "The purpose and process should have quality. If you have a good purpose, aim high and save trouble, people will get an ideal education. However, many people have lived all their lives, but they have never enjoyed life in the end. This is a lack of life consciousness and introspection. Ups and downs are life, we can understand every situation, we don't care about things, but we don't care about ourselves. Gains and losses are all gifts of life.
All ups and downs are life. However, we often use an interest coordinate to judge the situation of life. Forward is positive, backward is negative, rising is excellent, sinking is bad. In fact, life is far more complicated than this coordinate, and the life interest contained in ups and downs is far from single.
People are eager for promotion, cherish their reputation and expect the speed of reaching their goals. In this way, the process of life is increasingly ignored, and life becomes an expectation of return, the cost of achieving the goal, and even redundant files that can be deleted on the computer, just because it needs to be accelerated! Wang Wei has a famous saying: "The grass withers and the eagle suffers from eye diseases, and the snow is as light as a horseshoe." The flash of life is not necessarily when Fei Ying grass grows; When life is proud, it is not necessarily the place to come back from the flowers. In the same way, Du Fu famously said, "Fish comes out in the drizzle, and Yan Xie in the breeze." In the dull and soothing, I wrote the comfort and tranquility of life, and also wrote my love and joy for life. Du Fu, who wasted his life, didn't do much before his death. But his soothing and peaceful life sentiment has penetrated through thousands of years, as slow as drizzle, nourishing our hearts.
Life is only once for everyone, and 70 or 80 years is a long but short process. Different views on long and short are due to different living environments and different views on life. A miserable and boring life is long, a happy and colorful life is short, a life of unremitting struggle is long, and a life of idleness is short, which depends on where one stands on this issue. In my opinion, the length of time is not important, the key is to live a meaningful and wonderful life, which may be a truth that no one can doubt. Everyone wants to live a meaningful life and knows to work hard for it, but what kind of life can be called meaningful? After all, this is a very general concept, and there is no same standard to measure it, because everyone has a different outlook on life.
Here, I just want to briefly talk about my own life goals and how I understand a meaningful life. The life path I expect may be simple to say, but it really requires me to pay a very high price and make a lifetime of efforts.
Constantly pursue and enrich. Pursuit refers to the pursuit of higher self-quality, and enrichment refers to enriching more knowledge that can belong to oneself. I am sure that people with different knowledge levels have different personal qualities and qualities, which are not produced by pretending or copying. To tell the truth, I'm afraid of being looked down upon by others. I hope my achievements can be envied by others. I don't know if this is self-esteem or my vanity. If one day, others doubt my ability and even look down on me, I really don't know how to face it-who are you to blame? Don't blame yourself, only blame yourself for not working hard; Want to cry? But I can't cry, I can only shed sour tears in my heart. How painful will this feeling be? How bad is it? I think the greatest sorrow in life is this. I want to work hard and struggle. I can't let this happen. I want to realize my personal value.
What kind of people can be called valuable people? Or what can a person do to say that he is valuable? I think the value of a person is not judged by whether he is smart, tall and handsome, and whether he has such advantages, but by whether he has made great contributions to society. Only those who have made great contributions to our society can be called valuable people. Of course, the greater your contribution to society, the more you will get in return. More specifically, the more your salary will be. But we must first understand a truth-if we don't consider absolute salary, but consider the relative number of pay and return, in fact, in a normal society, the more a person pays for society, the more disproportionate he or she gets in return and pay. For example, a low-income person, although earning very little, pays very little for the society, and the proportion tends to1:1; A person with a high salary class, although on the surface, has a high salary, but the value he creates for society may be hundreds or even thousands of times his salary. If you ask who will be out of balance, then I think it should be the latter. Probably everyone wants to be the latter, indeed, I hope so, because that is not just the reason for high salary. Suppose that when you enter the high-paying class for a period of time, when you don't have to work hard and make a living, you will ask yourself the question-why on earth should I keep working? For a career? I think this is a relatively empty explanation. For life? You don't have to worry anymore. Contribute to society? Although this explanation seems a bit outdated, I think this is the answer. If the day that belongs to me comes in the future, I will explain this answer to myself. When I see that with my efforts, the social economy is becoming more and more prosperous, the environment is becoming more and more comfortable, and life is getting better and better. Although a person's efforts are so small relative to the whole society, I will definitely feel very happy because I see my own value. On that day, I won't leave any regrets in realizing my dream of personal value.
I don't believe in fate. As long as you work hard, no matter what the environment, anyone has the opportunity to change their destiny. But I believe that character determines fate. Throughout a person's life, what kind of personality a person has determines what kind of laws he follows in life. Opportunities are equal to everyone, but due to differences in personality, some people seize the opportunity, while others give it up. I don't want to judge the right or wrong of people who seize or give up opportunities, because it may be because of their different personalities or personal conditions. I just want to make it clear that if an opportunity comes that I can grasp, if I don't have certain personality or conditions, I may be forgiven for not seizing the opportunity, but if I have these qualities, but I give up the opportunity because I don't work hard, then I won't forgive myself. Now, the society provides me with a good learning opportunity and environment. As long as I am willing to learn, there is nothing I can't learn. I once gave up the opportunity to attend a key high school for a good job, which was a great pity for me. I am in pain and sorrow for this. Of course, I don't think so now, and I will try my best to make up for the loss. I will never let this regret happen again in my life.
Let the family live a happy and beautiful life. The pursuit of a better life is the reason for our original efforts; There is no best, only a better quality of life is the belief that we should continue to work hard. If the most important thing for a woman in this life is to find the best man to be her husband, then I think the most important thing for a man in this life is to let his parents, wife and children live the happiest and best life through his own efforts. A happy and beautiful life should include both material and spiritual aspects, which are indispensable. Material life is the foundation. Maybe my family doesn't have high expectations for it, but I won't relax my requirements for it. I will try my best to provide them with a beautiful living space. Spiritual life is the most important thing, and its premise is to ask me to establish good moral concepts and values. What parents want to see is that our future generations can grow up healthily, my future wife wants to see my sense of security and responsibility, and my future children want to see the example I set for him. The decisive factor of all this is me, and I can't let them down because I only have one chance.
These are the goals I set for myself in life, just as the same song sang: "This is my test for myself, and this is my promise to myself. When I come to the end of my life, please tell me whether it has been realized. " I think this is exactly my promise to myself, since the promise must be realized. The road I choose is tortuous and hard, there is no retreat, but it is also a bright road, and I will March forward bravely along this bright direction.
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My dreams look like stars in the sky. Sometimes I dream that I have been admitted to a university; Sometimes I dream that I am a salesman; Sometimes I dream that I boarded a spaceship and visited space ... As time goes by, many wonderful dreams are blurred, but only this one I remember clearly.
On a quiet night, the soft moonlight touched the earth, and the cool autumn wind sent me to sleep.
It was in a remote mountain village, a simple classroom, where dozens of simple children were sitting, with dozens of bright eyes staring at the door together. I walked up to the podium with a book in my hand, and the children stood up and shouted, "Hello, teacher!" " I saw dozens of bright eyes and dozens of pure hearts. How urgent it is for children to acquire knowledge. I am excited and excited, and my heart is warm. I stood on the podium and said kindly, "Students, we are all here for knowledge. A class is a group, and this class should be United. Let's stick together, shall we? " As soon as my words were finished, the students said in unison, "Good!" A warm current welled up in my heart. How lovely the children in the mountain village are! I smiled so sweetly.
Then, I teach children to learn: "I love Tiananmen, and I love the great motherland." I read it once and the children read after me. The children read so carefully and were so emotional. Every word, every voice, comes from the sincere heart. Children suck the nectar of knowledge like mushrooms after rain. My eyes are moist, and I gently call in my heart: "Flowers of the motherland, grow up quickly!" " Learn scientific and cultural knowledge well, make contributions to the motherland, and build the motherland more beautiful and rich.
After class, I played the game of eagle catching chicken with the children. I am a "hen" and protect the "chicken" with my hands. How interesting!
I also seem to see that after the end of the senior high school entrance examination, all the students reported good news to me with the admission notice: "teacher, open the door quickly!" " ""teacher, open the door quickly! "
The sound was so familiar and exciting that I opened my eyes at once. Oh-what a wonderful dream!
I hope my dream can come true!
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Everyone has his own dream in his heart, but most people think that his dream is just a dream, too unreal to imagine, so they bury it in their hearts and don't even give them a chance to break through the ground. In this way, how can his dream produce beautiful and fragrant flowers?
As we all know, Deng Yaping loves playing table tennis since she was a child, and she dreams of being able to show her talents in the world arena one day. But he was rejected by the national team because of his short stature and short hands and feet. But instead of being discouraged, she turned failure into motivation, practiced her skills hard and made persistent efforts, and finally pushed the bud of her dream away-she got her wish and stood on the podium of the world champion. In her sports career, she always won 18 world champion medals. Deng Yaping's outstanding achievements not only brought great glory to himself, but also changed the traditional concept of selecting athletes only among tall people in the world table tennis.
Before Liu Xiang, who would have thought that a yellow race would one day climb the podium of 1 10 meter hurdles? On August 27th, 2004, in the men's 1 10 meter hurdles final of Athens Olympic Games, Liu Xiang tied the record set by British player colin jackson with 12 second, won the gold medal, and created the miracle and myth of China people in short track events! After the game, he began to forget all about eating and sleeping. Many things happen. In the men's 1 10 meter hurdles final of the 2006 IAAF Super Grand Prix in Lausanne, Liu Xiang won the gold medal with a time of 12.88 seconds, breaking the world record of men 1 10 meter hurdles who had been sleeping for/3 years! At the beginning, the young buds, soaked in sweat, have already exuded the fragrance of the world!
I have always liked a poem by Grandma Bing Xin entitled "Successful Flowers": "Successful flowers/people only admire her present brilliance/but at the beginning, her buds/tears of struggle/blood rain of sacrifice." Successful flowers need sweat, tears and even blood.
This is the case on the field, isn't it the same in life?
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I have a dream, deeply rooted in my heart. I want to be a scientist when I grow up.
Although I don't have extraordinary intelligence, rigorous thinking and particularly accurate judgment, I won't give up my efforts. Although this dream is far away from me, I will not stop pursuing it. Although there will be many setbacks and countless hardships in the process of realizing my dream, I will not be discouraged. Because I believe that only through training in hell,
In order to cultivate the power of creation; Only bloody fingers can pop up the swan song of the world; Only by experiencing difficulties and setbacks can we realize our dreams.
In the past, whenever I saw the outstanding achievements of scientists, I always felt envy and admiration. It is they who promote the development of society; It is they who have improved people's living standards; It is they who have won a brand-new tomorrow for the development of the motherland.
Therefore, I want to be a scientist, a person who has contributed to the country, and a pillar of this country. Whenever I see people who waste time, I feel sorry for them; Whenever I see frustrated people, I feel sorry for them; Whenever I see people who don't do their job well, I feel indignant. Because they can't see their own value and have no dreams. This life is meaningless.
And I, at least, have a dream and a goal. With this dream, I will always work hard and never give up. With this dream, you will master your own life direction and will never lose your way again. With this dream, it is like a bright light, illuminating my way forward. Until the pinnacle of victory.
I will work hard for this dream. I also hope that everyone will forge ahead towards their dreams and find their own tomorrow!
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2 the mountain is not high, and the fairy is named; The water is not deep, and the dragon is the spirit; People are not poor, but they can win if they dream. Every ordinary person has his own lofty dream. As long as you work hard towards your dream, you can realize your dream.
Friends, do you know? I have 10 1 dreams!
I want to take a bath for nature. Protect the air from pollution. Grass and small trees can grow straight. I will invent a machine called "vacuum bath machine" in the future. As long as I wave, I can control the machine to bathe the young trees from head to toe, so that every branch of the young trees is clean, and all the young trees are green, leafy and upright. At that time, people will naturally thank them. They will say, "son, you love me and I will repay you." In summer, I will be like a big umbrella, sheltering people from the wind, rain and summer, and in winter, we will help people keep out the wind and keep out the cold. "
I want to be a scientist and bring more magical things to people in the laboratory. I will invent a magical medicine, so that human beings will no longer suffer the pain of losing their loved ones. I also invented an "umbrella" to make people no longer worry about fires, floods and natural disasters; Let humans no longer worry about getting sick; In this way, mankind will live a happy life.
I want to buy all the books in the bookstore, immerse myself in the arms of books, enjoy more historical stories, universe stories, truth stories and fairy tales ... absorb their "food", learn more knowledge from books, and tell these stories and my dreams to children on earth.
I want to be the Monkey King, with a unique seventy-two changes. I changed one, turned myself into a rich man, and drove a Mercedes-Benz BMW to see the magnificent mountains and rivers of the motherland. Second, start a company as big and luxurious as Haier Group. Third, donate money to the children, grandmothers and grandfathers in the disaster areas, so that they can live a happy life forever. Four changes, make our motherland stronger, not bullied by others, not regretted by others. Five changes, to associate with aliens, to be their best friends. Six changes, so that every child has super wisdom. The seven major changes have made our country rich. Eight changes have made everyone on earth very smart, civilized, polite and disciplined. Jiubian ...
Remember, my friends, "If you dream, you can win. Let's work together! "
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My dream is
Become a magical elf.
He can make me happier on April Fool's Day!
He can make my life more exciting!
My dream is
Become a little writer who knows books and is polite.
He will fill my world.
Joy, sadness and dreams!
My dream is
Become a lovely bird
Let me fly on the vast land!
Let me fly freely on the vast land!
My dream,
You will become one by one.
Shining pearls!
Flying, my dream!
Into glowing silver beads
Fly in the beautiful world!
Dreams, since ancient times, countless people have made dreams in ups and downs. In the dark, a dream is a lamp that is sometimes dark and sometimes bright, bringing people hope, and hope is far away and near. It floats in imagination and expectation, and it is the tireless pursuit of people's hearts.
Under the impact of reality, dreams are only the comfort of the soul, making the long road of life brighter. Dreams are always based on persistence, sweat, efforts and tears. Looking forward to the future, the great Madame Curie benefited mankind, worked hard all her life, and finally refined pure radium. Although her life disappeared because of the long-term stimulation of radioactive substances, her pursuit of dreams will never stop. She wrote down the eternity of life with her dreams.
And we, because of numerous obstacles and stop, or because of lazy heart and give up the dream. Don't expect flashy dreams to come true, and don't immerse yourself in prosperity and noise. If you choose such a path, you must go on. No matter how long the road is, no matter whether there are many obstacles ahead, as long as you have the belief of "going a little further", will the joy of realizing your dreams be far away from you?
The dream of a seed is to blossom and bear fruit, and the dream of an eagle is to spread its wings and fly. "An old horse crouches, aiming at a thousand miles", even an old horse can support his weak body with his dreams. Then, should we young people use our good years to pursue our dreams?
Dream is like a flying butterfly, attracting us to catch it with gorgeous wings; But it is more like a wisp of fragrance, tempting us to look for it with a tangy fragrance, and finally only catching it once. No wonder some people give up the right to pursue their dreams, because "real dreams are too elusive". Are dreams really that hard to touch? No, it's because those people are so greedy that they put their dreams at the height of the sky, but they never consider whether they have the ability to realize their dreams. When he discovered this, he was already disheartened and had no interest in exploring his dream again.
Is the dream really that far away? In fact, it may be not far away, just waiting for you to wave and look forward to your arrival. Or, it is at the corner of the intersection, ready to jump out to surprise you and give you a surprise when you are caught off guard. It may be an illusory dream, or it may be a temporary pleasure. Life is always shining because of dreams.
I saw a girl singing in the street. Her sweet songs should have been sung on the stage, but now she sings silently under the eyes of charity. Oh, don't bother her, and don't feel sorry for her. You know, she is paving the way for realizing her dream. After persistence, sweat, hard work and tears fill your heart in turn, your dream will release its true light.
I have a dream.
I have a dream, deeply rooted in my heart. I want to be a scientist when I grow up.
Although I don't have extraordinary intelligence, rigorous thinking and particularly accurate judgment, I won't give up my efforts. Although this dream is far away from me, I will not stop pursuing it. Although there will be many setbacks and countless hardships in the process of realizing my dream, I will not be discouraged. Because I believe that only through training in hell,
In order to cultivate the power of creation; Only bloody fingers can pop up the swan song of the world; Only by experiencing difficulties and setbacks can we realize our dreams.
In the past, whenever I saw the outstanding achievements of scientists, I always felt envy and admiration. It is they who promote the development of society; It is they who have improved people's living standards; It is they who have won a brand-new tomorrow for the development of the motherland.
Therefore, I want to be a scientist, a person who has contributed to the country, and a pillar of this country. Whenever I see people who waste time, I feel sorry for them; Whenever I see frustrated people, I feel sorry for them; Whenever I see people who don't do their job well, I feel indignant. Because they can't see their own value and have no dreams. This life is meaningless.
And I, at least, have a dream and a goal. With this dream, I will always work hard and never give up. With this dream, you will master your own life direction and will never lose your way again. With this dream, it is like a bright light, illuminating my way forward. Until the pinnacle of victory.
I will work hard for this dream. I also hope that everyone will forge ahead towards their dreams and find their own tomorrow!
Everyone has a dream, and everyone yearns for it. The life of people without dreams will be empty. But dreams always change with the progress of thought. When I began to have memories, I had a dream. I wish I had money. The adults asked, "Young man, this is a great dream. What are you going to do with the money? " "I'm going to buy chocolate." "What if you have a lot of money?" "I will buy a lot of chocolates." "What if you have inexhaustible money?" "I will buy the factory that makes chocolate." It is true that when we were young, we were innocent and had a kind childlike innocence. Happiness and happiness were a constant movement. When I was a child, I had a dream. I hope I can become a kite, float in the blue sky, and then slowly fall. At that time, I liked to play on the green grass with my companions, and I often chased the blue sky and white clouds, which made me laugh and dreamed colorful dreams all day. I had a dream when I was studying. I hope to have a basketball; When I am holding a basketball, I want a football. When I was playing football, volleyball became my pursuit again. When another dream comes true, I believe that the dream is not far away from me. As long as I play childish, my dream will come true. Slowly step into primary school, middle school, high school ... The greater the pressure, the less fantasy. All I know is to study hard and lose those happy notes. When I am sensible, I have a dream. I hope I don't have much homework to do every day. Playing time is deprived bit by bit, while 40% of us are confined in the classroom and spend a lot of time studying. But in the face of learning, it is still a vague understanding. As the saying goes, "Confusion is hard to change", and the understanding of things has also developed from feudalism to capitalism. The older I get, the more I feel that my point of view is right. When I started walking up, I had a dream. I hope I can become an excellent student and win many awards. When you get home, you can get praise from your family; Can get the teacher's affirmation at school; Can stand out among classmates; Can be said to be recognized as a good boy in everyone's eyes. However, gradually, I found that this dream can not be realized by childishness. After that, I learned to struggle. It's really leisurely to go home from school, listen to music, eat and go back to school after a busy day. This kind of life is monotonous, and you may sometimes miss many friends. Sometimes I still have a pair of sleepy eyes when I am in a hurry for class. I like fashionable school uniforms and want to have a look around. Sunday is really short, and the child's temper really wants to make mistakes. Gradually understand the hardships and dreams of being a man is really difficult. Fortunately, I will try to see that everyone is getting up early and getting greedy for life, so as to grasp that I am no longer loose. Today, I have a dream that I can be admitted to a favorite university, preferably in Beijing. I look for food in this dark water tank in high school for my dream, and I struggle to find food every day to enrich myself and work hard for a better future. Dream is like a seed, planted in the soil of "heart". Small as it is, it can take root and blossom. Without dreams, it is like living in a desolate Gobi, cold and lifeless. With dreams, there is pursuit, there is the goal of hard work, and with dreams, there is motivation.