There is a fable about two horses walking together. One bit another horse's neck, but the bitten horse took the initiative to comfort the horse that was ashamed and uneasy because it bit itself. Although the story is small, it reveals the touching character between heaven and earth, that is tolerance.

In the fable, the tolerance of animals is good for evil, while in Buddhism, the tolerance of Maitreya is "the stomach can hold the world". How to understand tolerance in our real life? In fact, tolerance is a realm.

Tolerance is like water.

The usual "tolerance" is to forgive others' temporary mistakes, be considerate and be a generous person kindly. Tolerance is like water, and encountering contradictions is often more effective than excessive retaliation. It is like a clear spring, slowly erasing the temporary hostility of the other party, calming people down, so as to see the original reason of the matter. At the same time, it also saw itself. The fabled horse. Therefore, it can be said that the legendary national horse is actually very wise. Its wisdom lies in "returning evil with good".

Tolerance is like fire.

Because a higher level of tolerance not only means not caring about personal gains and losses, but also means warming the hearts of others with your own love and sincerity. Getting timely help is even more precious and touching. From the fable, we can see that the horse who made a mistake has realized his absurdity and felt ashamed. At this time, the tolerance and comfort of the bitten horse is like a flame, bright and warm. Tolerance can not only melt each other's freezing, but also radiate the heat of love to each other's hearts. In an era when some people criticized it as "materialism", it has come down from the bottom. Choosing tolerance means choosing understanding and warmth, and at the same time choosing the vastness of life.

Tolerance is poetry.

Tolerance is a poem of life. The highest state of tolerance is not only manifested in the handling of an event in daily life, but also sublimated into a kind of mind for the universe and a poetic tolerance for life. The meaning of tolerance is not limited to the understanding and care between people, but the generosity and fraternity of the heart to all life between heaven and earth. The legendary horse can't reach this level, but this level is so real and profound for human beings.

People who are worried about the dull and unfortunate life, please choose tolerance. This will not harm your dignity at all, but will help people cross mediocrity in the long river of life. Only with the ideological realm of tolerance can they understand the true meaning of life, and tolerance is also an art of life.

Of course, there is no contradiction between tolerance and "being strict with yourself and being lenient with others". Forgiving yourself easily is not tolerance, but cowardice. "Harmony with others" depends first on the object. Tolerant people do not cherish tolerance, which is promiscuity; Tolerance to those who are not worthy of tolerance is tolerance; Tolerance to unforgivable unscrupulous people is indulgence. Therefore, tolerance itself is also a kind of knowledge of life.

In our life, what happened is not as simple as two horses. Life is often complicated and often boring. It is because of tolerance, such as water, that complexity is filtered and purified. It is because tolerance is like fire that insipid becomes more and more distinct through calcination; Because of this poetic tolerance, life is endowed with art and eternity.

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In this world, everyone has to live and work and get in touch with society and family. In home life and home work, contradictions will inevitably arise, and there will be mistakes and mistakes of one kind or another. At this time, if you don't let me and I won't let you, it will easily lead to family conflicts and colleagues fighting.

Failure to forgive yourself or others' mistakes will increase your psychological pressure and affect your normal life and work in the future. Therefore, we need to learn tolerance, "tolerate others, learn from the sea, and learn the benefits of tolerance." .

The art of wisdom tells us that tolerance is an art, an art of being a man, and the spirit of tolerance is the greatest behavior of all things. Tolerance of others means accepting others psychologically, understanding their lifestyles and respecting their life principles. While accepting their advantages, we should also accept their shortcomings, shortcomings and mistakes, so that we can truly live in peace and the society can be harmonious.

Tolerance is the only criterion for evaluating human civilization. "Leniency and strictness, strictness and leniency, both of them" and "Leniency and strictness are the way to govern the country" show the important role of tolerance in society. Tolerance is the promotion of one's own ideological quality, as well as one's self-cultivation, quality of life and lifestyle.

In real life, there are many things. When you are going to know or solve them with resentment, you might as well try with tolerance. Maybe it can help you achieve your goal, resolve conflicts and turn your enemies into friends. In life, people who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others. But we can't just regard concession and accommodation as a kind of tolerance and the best way to get along with others. So, we are in real life. We give up our position and standard of living, so we will blindly accommodate other people's mistakes, leading to greater mistakes, and at the same time lose our ability to control ourselves. Such tolerance is the most irresponsible performance to others and oneself, and it is also a psychological crime.

Tolerance is a skill in life. If we are tolerant, our life may be better.

Tolerance, do you still need it?

Tolerance is a drop of crystal dew in the depths of the ancient well; Tolerance is the blue sky reflected in the sea; Tolerance is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.

Through the long river of history, people who have achieved great things in history are tolerant and generous. It is precisely because of their tolerant minds that they have achieved their respective careers and made them famous in the long river of history. Emperor Taizong, who was interested in Wei Zhengkuan,

Rong, therefore dare to speak, he created the prosperous situation of "Zhenguan rule" in the Tang Dynasty; Lin Xiangru, who was tolerant of Lian Po, and Lian Po offered a humble apology, created a much-told story of "harmony without difference", and he contributed to the prosperity of Zhao. Qi Huangong is very tolerant of Guan Zhong. He appreciates Guan Zhong's loyalty and helps him. He achieved Qi Guoqiang's hegemony for a while. On the contrary, many people are notorious for losing their tolerant minds and have been reviled for generations. Zi Ying, the king of Qin, "laughs at the world when he dies." Moreover, benevolence and righteousness are different. Shang Zhouwang "set himself on fire when he was desperate". What's more, he was very violent.

It is true that in the era of war, patience is indeed important. Then, in today's era when the world is peaceful and people live and work in peace and contentment, can tolerance be abandoned and regarded as useless? Can we cruelly hurt people we don't like? No, absolutely not. The philosopher once said, "The cruelest way to treat the enemy is to turn him into your own friend." Why don't we treat him "cruelly" as the philosopher said? Why do you have to hurt it?

Tolerance can turn hostility into friendship and violence into peace; Tolerance can heal broken hearts and bridge the gap between hearts; Tolerance, it makes the world warmer. Time can take everything away, but it will always be grateful. Be kind to everything with a tolerant heart, and you will find that life will become more exciting.