success
But on the other hand, why do some people succeed in everything? It's like they have powers.
Is it possible to learn how to succeed? Whether you can take some actions and form some habits to ensure your success in everything, or that success is to select a few successful people from a certain angle through DNA.
The secret of success1-believe in yourself
Successful people have a firm belief in themselves.
Secret of success 2- imagine your goal every day.
Imagining your future every day is another good medicine for success. I suggest that you can post pictures or posters of the goals you want to achieve. Post these pictures where you can see them when you wake up in the morning and when you sleep at night.
Secret of success 3- living within your means
If you want to make progress in success, you need to redouble your efforts.
I'm talking about your desire to succeed quickly now.
If you want to succeed without fighting for it, you can't succeed.
Warren Buffett, one of the richest men in the world. He lived within his means and made a fortune. He always spends far less than what he has or what he earns, so that he can save money and put his ideas into action. This (and luck or unique intelligence) helped him achieve today's success.
Don't spend if you have no money. In fact, spend less money than you have, and then you can save enough money to invest in your business idea, which will eventually make you really successful.
Secret of success 4- Manage affairs, not work.
Most successful people start with small things and manual labor, and can do everything well. But successful people all know that the way to success is to be in a leading position at work and let others do those trivial and time-consuming things.
If you are a work leader, then your ideas and creativity are the most valuable things. In short, you should be in a leading position, supervise everything, let everything develop in the way it should, and don't waste your precious time and energy on small things.
Secret of success 5- Never give up
Most (if not all) successful people have encountered many setbacks and failures that you can't imagine.
Do you know that the man who founded Coca-Cola failed 17 times just to give his company a name? But this company has billions of assets. Because of various business ideas, he failed 17 times before he succeeded, but he insisted on believing in himself and never gave up.
If you want to succeed, you must have perseverance.
You may need to change your approach to success, but you must never give up until you reach the ultimate goal of success.
The Secret of Success 6- Constructive Criticism
Successful people are often very hard on themselves.
They analyze and summarize their methods, progress, behaviors and so on from time to time to see if there is room for improvement.
Successful people are very strict with themselves and their behavior, so that they can make progress. This means that any criticism is to improve the space. Successful people will not destroy themselves, nor will they instill negative thoughts into themselves.
If you want to succeed, you must be strict with yourself, your own behavior and others' behavior, but you must make useful criticisms, not negative, boring or destructive, just asking for improvement.
[3] The secret of success 7-from the beginning of learning.
1, the most important thing in life is not hard work, not struggle, but choice.
Successful pictures (4)
The boss can only give one position, not a future. No matter how big the stage is, people are cold when they walk.
I don't know which comes first, the accident or tomorrow. No crisis is the biggest crisis, and satisfying the status quo is the biggest trap.
4. What you saw and heard changed your life, and you unconsciously ruined it.
5. Business can control efforts and inputs, but not the results. Find the way when life is good, and there is a way out when it is bad.
BMW has a spare tire. What about your life?
6. How many talented losers are there in the world? There are many highly educated unemployed people in the world-because of wrong choices.
7. Bet and win once; Follow the right person and win a lifetime.
8, knowledge is not as good as knowledge, knowledge is not as good as doing things, and doing things is not as good as being a man.
9, do not know the goods, half a lifetime of suffering; If you don't know anyone, you will suffer for life.
10, life is not about living long or short, but about having an epiphany early or late.
1 1. Be a man and treat people with things: those who value teachers are kings, those who value friends are tyrants, and those who value themselves die.
12, people who have no goals will always work hard for those who have goals.
13, three stages of life: than talent; Compared with financial resources; More important than the kingdom.
14, if people frame themselves within a certain range, it is easy to limit their thinking and pattern.
15, today's advantage will be replaced by tomorrow's trend, grasp the trend and grasp the future.
16, it's better to read thousands of books than Wan Li Road, and it's better to instruct famous teachers than to read countless people. [4]
prerequisite
1. Strengthen the will:
Be clear about why you want to succeed. Linking success with happiness will not link failure, or link maintaining the status quo with pain. The stronger the feeling of happiness and pain, the stronger the desire to succeed.
2. Improve the ability:
(1) Clear objectives and understand the current situation:
What abilities are you going to improve and to what extent? Then grade your ability. Assume that the ability to reach the ideal state is 100. What is your current ability status? Maybe only 40 points.
(2) make a plan:
Make a successful plan [5] How long does it take to improve your ability? For example, you want to improve your ability from 40 points to 100 points, and break down the process from 40 points to 100 points into several segments.
(3) Take immediate action:
Success depends on a lot of action. What are you waiting for? Act now!
(4) Adjustment and correction:
If the ability is improved, for example, from 40 points to 50 points, it means that the method used is correct, and there will be rewards immediately, such as watching movies and eating big meals. If the ability drops, for example, from 50 points to 45 points, it means that there is something wrong with the method, so try other different methods until you find a new one to improve your ability.
(5) stick to it:
If you want to really improve your ability, you must stick to it Winners never give up, and quitters never succeed!
Improving ability is different from learning knowledge. We are used to the way of learning knowledge and think that the way of improving our ability is the same. We use the way of learning knowledge in school. If you want to get a high score in school, you have to know all the knowledge you want to take, memorize it, have answers, and think you can take the exam at 100, so that you can get a high score. We naturally think that the same is true of improving our abilities: we will only take action after we think that our abilities have reached our satisfactory and ideal requirements. Actually, this is not right. Ability should be improved in practice. If you wait until you are satisfied with your ability before you do anything, I'm afraid you don't want to do anything! There is nothing wrong with pursuing perfection, but being too perfect is not a good thing. Perfectionism may help you learn knowledge, but it may be harmful to improve your ability! We can't wait until everything is perfect. Perfection is our goal, but it cannot be the standard of our action!
If you want to improve your ability, you should do a few things you don't want to do every day. This aspect is to exercise willpower. On the other hand, what we don't want to do is often something that our ability is low and we can't do. If you never do it, you will never improve your ability in that field. Only by crustily skin of head to do, can we improve our ability.
(6). Look for opportunities:
As the saying goes, "opportunities are hard to come by." But as the saying goes, "God helps those who help themselves!" "Opportunities only favor those who are prepared!"
Opportunities are rare and fleeting. If the opportunity comes and you are not ready, wouldn't it be a pity to miss it in vain? Therefore, we should adjust our mentality, improve our ability and be ready to seize the opportunity at any time! [6]
Approach to realization
1, dare to decide-overcome the habit of indecision
Many people have accomplished nothing, and the biggest problem is the lack of the means to dare to make decisions. They always look around and think about the past, thus missing the best opportunity for success. Great people dare to make important decisions when they see the possibility of success, so they take the lead.
2. Breaking through the Dilemma-Pinch out the capital of success from failure.
Life is always faced with the challenges of various difficulties, and it can even be said that difficulties are "the gates of hell". Most people are afraid in the face of difficulties, but those who achieve great things can turn difficulties into a powerful springboard to success.
3. Seize the opportunity-be good at choosing and creating.
Opportunity is the greatest wealth in life. Some people easily waste opportunities, so all the opportunities with great potential slip away quietly. When you achieve great things, you are absolutely not allowed to slip away. You can jump at them.
4. Give full play to your advantages-do what you are best at.
A person with extremely weak ability will certainly find it difficult to open up the situation of life, and will inevitably be the victim of heavyweight players on the stage of life; Great winners give full play to their talents in what they want to do and broaden the road to success step by step.
5. Adjust your mentality-don't let your emotions hurt you.
People with negative mentality can't afford life and heavy burden anyway, because they can't face life setbacks directly. Those who achieve great things pay attention to the high-speed mentality, and even when there is no hope, they can see a glimmer of success.
6. Take immediate action-it's futile to just talk and not do it.
One action is worth a hundred thoughts. Some people are "giants of language and dwarfs of action", so they can't see more practical things happening to themselves; People who achieve great things rely on actions to realize their life plans every day.
7, good at communication-clever use of human resources.
A person who knows how to communicate is bound to enhance the strength of interpersonal relationships. One of the characteristics of successful people is that they are good at creating a successful situation by borrowing power and heat, so as to complete a difficult thing and realize their life plan.
8. Re-planning-Standing at a higher starting point