People often say, swallow your pride and feed the pattern.

This sentence sounds as if the so-called pattern is that a person silently bears the burden of humiliation. This understanding is somewhat pessimistic. In fact, people who really have a pattern don't feel wronged. The pattern is not forbearance, but an ability to digest others' "grievances" well.

Whether a person lives high or not does not depend on the judgment of others, but on his own inner cognition. Everyone has his own way of living, regardless of rank. It is high to make yourself feel that life is meaningful.

Zeng Guofan said: "Those who seek great things should focus on the pattern first." If you want to achieve great things, you must have a mind, a vision and a strategy.

As the saying goes, 360 lines, each line is the best. There are many ways to succeed, but there is only one way to fail. People who live high have their own style, and those who live low fail without exception.

Confucius said, "A gentleman is useless." It is said that a gentleman is not an instrument, so don't stick to a fixed mode of thinking. The big pattern is not limited. The higher you stand, the farther you look, and you can overlook the world with an open mind.

In life, people who don't have a pattern see rubbish, while people with a big pattern can always find vitality from layers of trivial things.

Rejection is a very easy thing, and the simplest of all rejections is total denial. Just like the frog in the fable "Looking at the sky on the well", it guards a well that has been abandoned for many years and completely denies everything outside.

Han Yu wrote in "The Original Road": "Sit in the well and watch the sky, saying that the sky is not small." A person's vision, height and cognition all depend on his pattern.

People can be without wisdom, but they can't be without pattern. A person with inferiority often has no pattern.

Zeng Guofan once said: profit can be * * but not alone, only profit will fail.

In front of interests, human nature is selfish, so interests should not be monopolized. Once monopolized, it will inevitably make enemies for itself, so the next road of life will no longer be easy.

"The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong" has a cloud: "People have no long-term worries, and there must be near worries." It is said that if a person doesn't think long before doing something, he will definitely hit a wall everywhere in his next life.

People with large patterns can think things through, and no matter what kind of things are given to them, they can easily solve them. Because they consider problems from various angles, by contrast, they can always find a more suitable solution.

People who have seen the world will always have a much larger pattern and will not be easily tempted by petty profits, regardless of the present and not deviate from the course of life.

As the saying goes, interlacing is like a mountain. Many times, laymen simply can't see the achievements of others, just like we can't appreciate thousands of paintings with three paintings and two paintings. Because we don't know calligraphy and painting, we can't appreciate the meaning.

Some people say that the size of a pattern depends on a person's cognitive range. In fact, the pattern is not only a simple cognitive scope, but also a respect for the unknown.

The bigger the pattern, the more people know how to respect, but when it comes to things beyond the scope of cognition, they will not pretend to understand, nor will they show disdain and contempt because they look simple.

There are always some people in life who think that the world is what they think, and even think that they are above others, and they can do whatever others do, or even do better. They didn't do it out of sheer disdain.

This kind of person is a typical self-satisfied personality. Living at the bottom of his own well, he thinks he owns the whole blue sky.

Writer Qilu said: "It doesn't matter if the IQ is not high, and the EQ is not high, but the pattern of being a man must be big." To put it bluntly, you may not be smart or sociable, but you must have a big picture. How successful you will be with the big picture. "

People who have no pattern will unconsciously block the road they want to take next. All quick success and instant benefit can only produce meager benefits, and sometimes even small profits are difficult to obtain.

As the old saying goes, if you pick up sesame seeds, you lose watermelon. The deeper reason why people can do such stupid things is that they have no pattern, can't see the development direction of things, and can't wait patiently.

Most poor people are not unlucky, but the pattern is not big enough. As the saying goes, opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared. It is more important than preparing in advance to have a pair of eyes that can find opportunities.

A person's pattern determines his level. The bigger the pattern, the higher the level. Without the pattern, how to live is not advanced.

Life is a practice, and the highest state of practice is to achieve these nine words: affordable, free and free.

When you are young, you may think that the world is colorful, or that day and night are black and white. With the growth of experience, you will find that the world can only be seen from a distance, there is no obvious boundary between colors, and everything is gray.

Among the design elements, there is a color called "high-grade gray", which is either black or white, or black or white.

Writer San Mao said: "The source of happiness comes from everyone's heart. If you are unhappy inside, others can't help you out. " Nine times out of ten, you can't let go of everything, leaving you with gray sadness.

There is a saying in Buddhism: "There was nothing, so there was no dust." Everything we experience now is given by our past obsession, and everything we experience in the future will be unconsciously affected.

Letting go is not giving up. Letting go just underestimates the gains and losses. If you don't stop for a difficult problem and keep moving forward along the plan, life is not perfect, and the pursuit of perfection will only make you tired.