About adults
The meaning of "success" in "adult" here is not "adulthood" or "maturity" but "growth". So "adulthood" means "growing up". There is no uniform standard on how to grow into a person. Judging from the specific social roles of contemporary college students in China, they should at least have the following three elements: a sound personality, a high sense of social responsibility and a strong spirit of innovation.
How can I grow into a person? Growth is not based on individuals, but on society. For contemporary college students in China, it is necessary to link their personal growth with the future of the motherland, national rejuvenation and collective honor consciousness, so as to truly grow into people.
First of all, the national spirit is unbreakable. After 5,000 years of historical precipitation, our Chinese nation has formed a national spirit of unity, peace-loving, hard-working, courage and self-improvement with patriotism as the core. At the same time, in the process of China's revolution and socialist construction, our party led the people throughout the country to form the spirit of Jinggangshan, Yan 'an, Lei Feng, "two bombs and one satellite", "fighting floods" and "aerospace", which greatly enriched and developed the connotation of the national spirit. At present, it is an important task to firmly establish and actively practice the socialist concept of honor and disgrace to carry forward the national spirit. Party committees in colleges and universities should carry out the education of socialist concept of honor and disgrace through various effective ways, so that college students can know honor and disgrace, do what they should do, refuse to do shameful things, firmly establish the socialist concept of honor and disgrace, and strive to become an example of practicing the socialist concept of honor and disgrace.
Secondly, the tradition of hard work cannot be lost. Today's college students are mostly only children born in the mid-1980s. Due to the excessive care and care of the only child by society and family, some college students lack ideals and beliefs, are indifferent to the future and destiny of the country, and lack dedication; Lack of willingness to study hard, can bear loneliness in study; In life, I am greedy for pleasure, wasting money, wearing famous brands and stressing ostentation and extravagance, and my consumption level exceeds my family's economic ability. The most important thing to write and call home is to ask your parents for money. In the choice of employment, they are too bitter, too tired, too low in salary, too fond of pleasure and success. Now advocate hard work. Some people may say that people strive for a better life, and thrift is the initial accumulation stage of survival. Once the living conditions are superior, there is no need to work hard. Maybe some college students will think that only by promoting consumption can economic development be promoted. In fact, hard work is a person's spiritual motivation. It's hard to get it without knowing it, but it's hard to get it even if you live at home. You should understand the truth that "starting a family is like picking soil, and losing a family is like pushing sand". Therefore, the spirit of hard work is not out of date, but it is still of great significance to China, which is in the primary stage of socialism. In the new century, hard work and thrift have new connotations. It is not only manifested in diligent study and frugal consumption, but more importantly, it forms the values, internal motivation and behavior of life on this basis.
Third, the sense of unity and cooperation should not be weak. Unity and cooperation are people's lifestyles, moral norms and character cultivation. The consciousness of unity and cooperation is an important quality of modern people. Modern society is a highly complex organism. Modern mass production and fast-paced social life require people to have a high sense of cooperation and team spirit. With the development of human science and technology today, the infiltration and integration of disciplines determine that it is difficult for individuals to reach the other side of success alone. Unity is strength, and cooperation is ability. The success of manned spaceflight project is the best example. The whole project has gathered hundreds of thousands of scientific and technological personnel from more than 3,000 units in more than 0/00 industries across the country. To strengthen the consciousness of unity and cooperation, we must start from our daily study and life. Students should communicate frequently, help each other, learn from each other, learn the correct "struggle" and respectable "concession", and realize the urgency of cooperation in * * *.
In short, if college students want to learn to be human, they must learn to be indifferent, tolerant, persistent and self-disciplined.
About becoming a talent
To be a talented person, you must learn to study. As far as China's contemporary society is concerned, it has moved from an academic society and an identity society to a capable society. College students are in an important stage of life growth, and all have the potential to become talents. But you can't think that you have become a talent just because you are a college student. College students are only a basic condition for future success.
(1) Clear orientation.
The successful orientation of college students is based on adapting to social needs, giving full play to their own advantages and making use of realistic conditions. Only by combining these three factors can success be possible.
(2) improve their own quality.
Opportunities are only given to those who are prepared. The main task of college students is learning, and the content of learning is not only book knowledge, but also practical knowledge. The study of these two kinds of knowledge is to improve one's own quality and prepare for future success.
2 wonderful exposition on "adult, success and success"
First, we must lay a solid cultural foundation. Cultural knowledge is the foundation and condition for the growth of talents and plays a key role in the success of college students. This includes solid and generous basic knowledge, profound professional knowledge and comprehensive knowledge.
Second, we should strengthen practical exercise. Nowadays, college students' social practice activities have undergone changes from organization to autonomy, from centralization to decentralization, from free to paid, from professionalism to sociality, and from singleness to pluralism. These changes are the reflection of the progress of the times and the result of social development.
Third, keep a healthy mind. At present, a word "depression" is popular on campus. "I didn't do well in the exam and I was very depressed", "I was depressed when I met difficulties in life" and "I didn't handle the relationship with my classmates well and I was very depressed"; "The unsuccessful election of student cadres is frustrating"; "I want to find a job soon after graduation, and I am very depressed", and so on. "Depression" is like a mirror, which expresses many college students' wandering and hazy emotional confusion. If this kind of depression is not solved and released for a long time, it will affect mental health, resulting in mental illness. Judging from the current situation, the common psychological diseases of college students are neurasthenia, depression, anxiety and psychological emergency-suicide. Among them, the incidence of neurasthenia among college students is about 8.5%. Therefore, it is very important for contemporary college students to constantly improve their mental health level, adjust their mentality and have a healthy psychology. Time is a good medicine to cure mental illness and adjust mentality. Learn to forget and endure, and life will be sunny and happy. In study and life, don't give up your right to be happy, keep discovering happiness, creating happiness and enjoying happiness. When self-regulation fails, we should turn to psychological counseling, make full use of psychological counseling channels such as psychological hotline, group counseling, consultation email, and mutual communication, and accept outside help and guidance, so as to effectively maintain mental health, optimize psychological quality, and promote personality perfection.
About success
Success is learning to do things. In today's society, success has become the most striking topic in this era, and we are more familiar with the stories of one successful person after another. Everyone is eager for success, and college students also want to succeed in their careers. So, how can we succeed? We must first understand what success is, and then go all out to succeed.
(1) Grasp the meaning of success.
Success is a kind of spirit. Zhang, member of Henan Provincial State Taxation Bureau, 16 National Top Ten Outstanding Young Candidates, graduated from Changchun Taxation College. He studies behind his mother's back. In the past five years, he not only worked to earn money for his mother to see a doctor and abide by filial piety, but also used a little time to study hard, won a scholarship for five semesters, successfully completed his studies, and won the first place in the comprehensive score of written interview in Henan Province in the 2005 national tax system recruitment civil service examination, and was admitted by the State Taxation Bureau of Henan Province. It is precisely because of this perseverance and spirit of perseverance, hard-working, tenacious struggle, and never giving up until the goal is reached, that he finally succeeded in his study and employment.
Success is a sublimation. When Lu Jianguo of Hubei won the second "China Youth Entrepreneurship Award", his acceptance speech introduced him as follows: "From poor migrant workers to private entrepreneurs with assets of hundreds of millions, Lu Jianguo has achieved a' myth of getting rich' for rural children". How was Lu Jianguo's myth of getting rich written? He started selling clothes, and later he ran as a passenger. Despite his hard work and spiritual efforts, he failed again and again. When he started from another business-collecting waste products-he finally took the first successful step, which laid a solid foundation for him to become the chairman of Hubei Longfa Iron and Steel Industry and Trade Co., Ltd. in the future. Failure is not only the negation of success, but also the foundation of success. It is worth noting that success is not a simple accumulation of failure, but a profound understanding and continuous transcendence of failure. It is the sublimation of wisdom and reason. Learn from failure and accumulate wisdom so that failure will not be "in vain".
Third, success is a process. Young employees are usually lazy at work. One month before becoming a regular employee, he asked his boss, "If I work hard for a month, can I become a regular employee?" The boss replied, "If you cover the thermometer in a cold room with hot hands, it can make the temperature on the thermometer rise, but the room will not be warm at all." Success is a hard practical process, a process of piling up one goal after another, and each goal is a step. The real success is to integrate diligence and hard work into daily study and life and into daily work practice.
(2) Choose the right road to success.
For college students, there is a common goal during their study in school, that is, to achieve good academic performance and improve their comprehensive quality. And graduation is just around the corner, everyone is facing different life choices and moving towards different life paths. Generally speaking, college students will face the choice of further study, employment and self-employment after graduation. So, which way can you choose to succeed?