After the implementation of the current "double reduction" policy, some teachers on campus strengthen the management of children's study, training and life, but after school, students do not make up classes or reduce tuition fees. This "empty" period calls for the supplement of family education. As a teacher who has been working in the post of class management method for a long time, the last thing I want to see is the method of "widowed parenting".
There are many factors that lead to this kind of parenting education. Some parents can't stay with their children because of work or geographical reasons; Some are because the family is unfortunate, and only one party accompanies the child to develop; There are also some parents who are too tough in the whole process of raising their children, which makes the other parent unable to intervene. In the long run, family education has long lacked the efficacy of one parent, which makes the balance of family education unbalanced.
Childhood is bright and the most precious. People often say that a happy childhood cures a lifetime, and a miserable childhood cures a lifetime. The harm of widowed parenting to children's development is irreversible. "If the son doesn't teach, the father is responsible". Compared with children from healthy families, children who have long been absent from their fathers will show the characteristics of lack of self-confidence, timidity or offside. "Father's love", without the company of his father's tall shadow, will lead to children's lack of self-control, especially boys must be promoted by their father's example, and his excellent characters such as responsibility, courage and cheerfulness will deeply hurt them.
"Motherly love is like water", and children who lack their mothers for a long time have more serious personality defects. I once taught a student whose mother seldom saw her children when she was working in a different place. Because of the lack of mother's company since childhood, children have strong self-control ability, but they are easy to be impatient and reckless, and they are very easy to lose their minds. They often fight with their classmates over a trivial matter. Long-term lack of maternal love, his heart is "hard" and his temperament shortcomings lead to his anxiety in class interpersonal communication.
In family education, parents' mutual cultural education is particularly important for children's transformation. Parental love, like the wings of a bird taking off and landing, is a necessary condition for a child to grow up healthily and happily. In the environment of "double reduction", we gave enough time and indoor space for family education, so that we could bloom with our parents when we were young. The best gift is the company of parents.