Learning to speak is easy; Basically, children over two years old can talk, but it is not easy to learn to say what others are listening to. I often accuse myself of not being able to speak, or not telling the truth skillfully. In life, it is important to learn to say what others like to hear, but of course it can't be ignored. No wonder Lin, a famous and successful scientist in Taiwan Province, said: "A person can't speak because he doesn't know what the other person needs to hear;" If you can see through each other's psychological activities like a scout, you will know how powerful the power of speech is! Indeed, the "power of speech" is enormous.

In life, some people have a bronze diploma, have a hard-working spirit and strong working ability, but just because they can't speak, or can't say what others like to hear, they have been living in a breathless feeling; On the contrary, some people have no diploma and average working ability, but they just have a good mouth, and everything goes well as a result. This contrast is not simple, but the golden rule proved by countless facts. The art of speaking often does not come from hearsay, but can only be truly realized by one's own day-to-day feeling.

We inevitably have something to say with colleagues, leaders and friends every day. What to say, how to say, what to say and what not to say should be "exquisite". It can be said that "speaking" at work is also an art. Many times, some people suffer because they can't master the art of speaking. For example, if your colleague wears a new dress and others praise him as "beautiful" and "young", when others ask you how you feel, if you directly answer "you are too fat to fit." Or say, "The color of this dress doesn't suit your complexion. Not good-looking. " This sentence not only made the customer unhappy, but also embarrassed her colleagues who had praised her. Although he is telling the truth, he lacks artistry and skill.

American President Coolidge once criticized his female secretary: "This dress of yours is very beautiful. You are really a charming young lady. I just hope that you pay attention to punctuation when printing documents, so that the documents you type are as cute as you. " The female secretary was deeply impressed by this criticism, and the printed document was full of mistakes.

Speaking is also an art, as the saying goes, "A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts the cold in June". Many people say a lot of things with good starting point and foothold, but because they don't pay attention to the art of speaking, they often lead to unnecessary misunderstandings and disputes, and even affect unity.

I often see people who are full of knowledge and speak slowly, and sometimes I hear people who are ignorant. Therefore, the most fundamental condition of speaking is: not only to have rich and valuable connotation, but also to be good at expressing, making people happy and memorable. Therefore, "having something to say" is really not an easy task. To reach the realm of "having something to say", we must keep learning and strive to enrich ourselves.

Behind the speech, all the character, accomplishment, talent and ability of a person are condensed. In today's information age and civilized society, it is indispensable to discuss knowledge, contact affairs, exchange information, impart skills, socialize, convey emotions and entertain. In addition, whether a person has strength or not, and whether this strength can be shown or not depends largely on his speaking ability.