Good revelation
CCTV reported that not long ago, a female college student in a certain place appealed to Wang Jian to save her sick mother and begged people to lend a helping hand. After her begging was made public on the Internet, people all over the country donated money for her. Teachers and students at school also helped her, and even some children of several years old donated their pocket money.
However, it turned out that this was a scam! Because the girl's hairstyle is made of several hundred dollars, she also wears a pair of brand-name glasses made in 500 yuan and uses an expensive mobile phone. However, all the medical expenses spent by her mother who worked in the examination room were 654.38+10,000 yuan, which was reimbursed by the state free of charge, but this classmate concealed this fact. After the news was reported by the media, people were talking about it. One of the comrades who once donated 5000 yuan to this classmate said: When I saw what happened to her online, I donated thousands of dollars without hesitation. I thought I had done a good thing, but I didn't expect it to be a scam! I can't believe it. She cheated me of my kindness. How can I do good things in the future so that I won't be cheated? At this time, another gentleman said: since your kindness has been donated, don't think too much about what others are doing with money, which will not only increase your happiness, but also make you live a down-to-earth life. ? However, many people don't agree with this gentleman's idea. They think that this will only encourage some bad atmosphere in society and make people's kindness become the use of others. Although this classmate has explained it to everyone, it happened after all. Who can believe that a person is willing to spend hundreds of dollars on glasses and hairstyles when he is short of money and in urgent need of help? ! It's incredible.
There are many examples of these things happening in real life. Let's take beggars in the street as an example. Those people with intact limbs and nothing different from ordinary people beg for food in the street. what do you think? Do they really have no other skills? Of course not. They can go to work and start a business, but they don't, because they know there are too many good people in China. As long as there are good people in this place, they won't starve. There are also some children aged six or seven who are asked in the street. There is a black hand behind them. In other words, people who manipulate behind the scenes touch people's kindness with children's begging, relying on people to extend their kind hands and give their kind hearts. But who knows that someone used it to deceive their kindness.
? The beginning of life is naturally good? When people come into this world, their nature is kind, and there will be many kind actions. However, good hearts are deceived again and again, and people's good nature will be mixed with doubt, vigilance and concern. In a sense, the good nature of human beings will be stained with utilitarianism. Kindness, will it still flow from people's hearts like clear water without any impurities in the mountains?
Kindness cannot be deceived, misinterpreted, disguised, and needs sincerity, because kindness is a noble love from the bottom of my heart.
The value of kindness
Everyone in the town came out to watch the train enter the town. At this time, a guy with a mouthful of alcohol disturbed everyone's order. The village sheriff told him to be quiet, but the drunk pulled out his gun and shot him. The sheriff didn't use his own weapon. After several fights, he tied this guy's hands behind his back, paid his gun and sent him home.
A bystander asked the sheriff why he didn't use weapons, and the sheriff replied. I don't want to hurt him because his children are still waiting for him at the door and his wife is still worried about him. I can't shoot him. I want to give him and his family a chance.
That sheriff is a man with little education, but he has a kind heart. He would rather risk his own life than implicate others and make them sad. He knows what consequences his actions will bring to others.
Kindness is a person's business card.
It often enters the field of interpersonal communication in the simplest, simple and natural way. If kindness and kindness meet, often a knowing smile can fluctuate each other's heartbeat.
Good people have few opportunities to pick flowers and many opportunities to meet thorns, but most of them live indifferently. In their dictionary of life, the words sympathy, care, kindness and love can be found on any page, but they can never find a word, that is ugliness.
Kindness is calcium in the bones, salt in the blood, a pair of hands reaching out to the weak, a crutch for the blind, a ticket for the lost children to go home, an umbrella for pedestrians in the rain, and an opportunity for those who make mistakes.
Kindness, sometimes easily seen as incompetence or weakness, is really biased.
Kindness also has a scale problem. Others may use your kindness to satisfy their own selfish desires. But he can only use it for a while, never for a lifetime.
? If you turn yourself into a donkey, don't complain about others riding you. ? This sentence actually has great one-sidedness and limitations. In any case, kindness is not a bad thing, it is like a mirror, reflecting your true heart.
Sometimes, you can deny a person's kind behavior, but you can't deny a person's kind nature.
Goodwill silence
Once upon a time, a man gave the king two gold men and asked him to guess which one was more valuable. The king found the best craftsman, but found that the two gold men were the same size and weight. Finally, an old minister gave the king an idea, asking the king to give each gold person a copper coin, and the gold person with no voice is more valuable when the copper coin falls. When I first read this story before, I agreed with this view, but today I questioned this view. I think that priceless gold man is like a stagnant pool. Whatever you throw into it will drown you. Another gold man is like a flowing stream. If you throw a stone in, it will stir up waves.
As the ancients said, silence is golden. Proper silence is to hear what others say clearly, and excessive silence will make people feel that they are there? Play the lute to a cow? . Therefore, sometimes you should be silent, such as when a good friend confides in you. But sometimes, silence is a deadly poison. What is silence when competing with others? Silence is concession. What is silence when communicating with others? Silence is awkward. Although you have a lot to say, but you don't know how to say it, then silence will become your shield. You think you are hiding in a silent invisibility cloak, but you don't know that your head has been labeled as ignorant.
In today's competitive society, what do you rely on to get the appreciation of others and get a favorite job? Through silence? It is true that actions can prove a person's strength more than words, but if you don't know how to sell yourself, how can others see your actual actions?
Someone said:? It's gold. It always shines. ? Is silence his light? I don't think so. Why can you pick out that piece of gold from a scrap of copper and iron is because it is different, because it knows how to sell itself, and the light is its words. If you want to be an appreciated piece of gold and let others know your preciousness, words are the best way.