Once on a hiking trip, a grain of sand got into a shoe, which felt strange and uncomfortable at all. I have an impulse to take it out, but I always think it is indecent to take off my shoes in front of everyone, so I have to be patient. When I arrived at the hotel, I couldn't wait to take off my shoes and take out the hateful sand, but there was a small blister on my foot, which hurt like hell. ...

Have you tried the same fate? I believe this is an inevitable little thing in life. However, the sparrow is small and complete. Things are small, but the impact is immeasurable! This is probably the sand effect in shoes! In fact, many things in life are the same.

People always have the illusion that not paying attention to small things means being informal and unconstrained. However, this is often not the case. Here's an example:

Two young people with similar knowledge went to a company for an interview. The first one is a tall and strong man. During the interview, he answered with confidence; After the interview, I feel good about myself and full of hope for the result. The second is a young lady, whose eloquence, confidence and courage are not as good as those of the previous man. After the interview, she felt desperate. Just as she turned to leave, the manager of that company announced that she had been hired. She and he were both surprised, and the result was just the opposite of what they thought. Everyone wants to know.

The manager explained, "In fact, your knowledge is similar, but your ability to do things is not equal. It's really difficult to make a choice, so I did a little experiment and posted a piece of paper at the door of the interview room to test which of you will be responsible for this seemingly trivial but far-reaching thing. " The first man saw the paper ball and gently kicked it near the trash can. The second woman leaned over to pick it up and put it in the trash can. Suddenly, everyone understood. ...

From this point of view, although men have certain advantages, they just lost to an inconspicuous plate. Maybe he will be unconvinced and unwilling. But I think this is the inevitable result. How can a person who can't even do small things well take on great responsibilities? As the saying goes, "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" Maybe he will feel ashamed and want to interview again to seize this chance, but neither time nor opportunity allows anyone to come back!

This story made me understand what "don't do small things with kindness". Details, often can see a person's ability to do things, also can see success or failure.

Therefore, the next time I meet sand in my shoes, I won't be afraid of elegance, but I will take out that lovely little sand at the first time and say "thank you" to it. Thank you for giving me such a beneficial life lesson.

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Discussions are all triggered by trivial matters in life, but a trivial matter is related to a profound philosophy of life. The language of the article is plain but the reasoning is plain and thorough. It is readable.