One: there is beautiful sunshine in the tolerant world, which is the beginning of friendship and the ladder of interpersonal communication; It can turn hostilities into friendship and make the world harmonious forever. It is tolerance. Tolerance is the spring breeze, which fills the earth with peace; Tolerance is summer rain, beating people's hearts; Tolerance is autumn leaves, singing the hymn of the soul between people; Tolerance is the winter rhyme. In an instant, the life of a fragrant person ... tolerance is a kind of wisdom and tolerance. An English proverb says that there is no garden without weeds in the world. Tolerance of others is based on understanding. Lin Xiangru's tolerance for Lian Po has created an eternal story of "reconciliation"; Li Shimin's tolerance of Wei Zhi's "telling the truth and admonishing each other" has made the "Zhenguan rule" prosperous; The monarch's tolerance for gifted scholars in the Song Dynasty ushered in the second cultural prosperity in the history of China. Tolerance is not only personal wisdom, but also social tolerance. Tolerance is a kind of cultivation and a realm. Bin Si Nuo Sally said that the human heart is not conquered by force, but by love and generosity. Facing other people's unintentional mistakes is bound to be a burden on the soul, and a true wise man will choose a generous mind. Han Xin, the king of Qi, had been "humiliated in the leg" before he made his fortune, but after being blocked, he was able to let bygones be bygones and appointed him as the captain of the patrol. What kind of benevolent cultivation and realm this is!
There is an old saying in China that "a prime minister can punt in his stomach". And Qin Bo attacked Zheng, but Qin Bo suddenly stopped. Faced with this dilemma, Jin Wengong did not fly into a rage, but showed tolerance. This excellent personality is an important condition for him to become one of the "five tyrants in the Spring and Autumn Period". Mr. Lu Xun also said, "When we meet, we will laugh and forget the enmity." "The world is wide and the villain is narrow." A narrow-minded person is doomed to die in the darkness of his own castle. Tolerance means calm and indifference. The broadness of human heart can make nature wider, music more beautiful and true feelings more mellow. More tolerance, less care and investigation; More tolerance means less suspicion and indifference; More tolerance, less loneliness and loss.
If the rain and dew of tolerance can last forever in the world, then everything in the world will be nourished forever, and it will always be harmonious and warm ... Tolerance is a river, tolerance is a virtue, tolerance is indifferent, tolerance is quiet and far-reaching, and tolerance is a piece of real gold that will never fade!
Two: Rub a blooming violet with your hand. What will you find?
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The sky was extremely dark, and he stood alone on the bridge, his eyes glazed over. The cold wind cut him like handfuls of extremely sharp knives, and also cut off all his expressions. In addition to melancholy, the loneliness at night made him sadder.
He is lonely and sad. When he saw other people's families happily together, this loneliness became more intense, and finally sublimated into hatred, which filled his heart. He hates God and everything, so that he can't feel the love of his parents and the warmth of his family.
He hates everyone, hates everyone, and fights with others to offend him. He usually doesn't say a word to others, except her, the only person in the orphanage who cares about his happiness since childhood. He called her "Mom".
On this sunny day, he helped his "mother" who was over 500 to walk in the garden. He always wears a pair of sunglasses during the day because he hates sunshine and colors. In his view, violets in the garden are catalysts for boredom and irritability.
They sat down on a bench among the flowers. "Mom" picked a blooming violet, put it in her palm, rubbed it with wrinkled hands, threw it away, then put her hand close to his nose and smiled and let her smell it.
He lowered his head and took a deep breath. It smells good, but it doesn't match my mood at all, mom. He looked at the front with glassy eyes, and his eyes were even more melancholy.
The child, a blooming violet, was ruthlessly killed by me, but he was not full of hatred, but left a fragrance on my hand. Why?
He looked at his mother doubtfully, and her mother smiled and said, "It's because of tolerance. Although God doesn't pay attention to you, you can attract his attention by changing your face and try to make him compensate you with something else. "
It dawned on him.
Soon, he left the orphanage and was no longer hostile to others and the world. He is particularly active in helping everyone embrace everything with a purple heart.
After a while, he was very popular with everyone and gave him all the good things as much as possible, which made him extremely happy. Happiness sprouted and grew in his heart, filling his whole heart and replacing hatred. He no longer hates not having a home, but laughs and throws away the residual flowers all day, puts his hand close to his nose and takes a deep breath. Then, he smiled and said to the grave next to "Mom": "Mom, I"
Three: Tolerance Hugo once said: "The ocean is the widest in the world, and the human mind is broader than the ocean. In fact, generosity is one of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Tolerance means focusing on the overall situation, regardless of personal grievances. Learning tolerance means learning to be kind to yourself. Resentment can only bury our hearts in darkness forever, while tolerance can set our hearts free.
In life, many things need to be tolerated. For example: tolerance between father and mother in the family; Tolerance of society and shopping malls; Tolerance between friendships is certain. If you fall out with a good friend for a trivial matter, such a person has no tolerance. For another example, if one party between men and women does not have a tolerant heart, then they will not be in a good relationship forever. It is conceivable that the word tolerance plays a great role between people! He can dissolve people's misunderstandings and make people better!
Forgiving others is to release yourself, and also to have a calm mind. We should tolerate an unintentional mistake! Whether facing friends or enemies, we should face them with a tolerant smile. Tolerance can make us friends. When you can tolerate others' mistakes with an open mind, you will naturally have more friends.
Tolerance is a kind of accomplishment, but also a virtue. Many people think that tolerance means cowardice, in fact, tolerance is a broad mind, which means praise and praise! Tolerance is like water. Tolerance means not caring about other people's faults, but being broad-minded. Tolerance is like water, and encountering contradictions is more effective than extreme revenge. Tolerance is like a clear spring, which cleans people's hearts and makes them calm!
Tolerance is like a warm current. Tolerance actually does not mean tolerating other people's mistakes, but warming others' hearts with their own love and sincerity. Calm as water tolerance is rare; The tolerance of giving charcoal in the snow is even more touching!
Tolerance is poetic. Tolerance is a beautiful compliment to life.
Tolerance is also a kind of learning. We should distinguish between small mistakes and big mistakes, and be willing to tolerate each other for small mistakes and small mistakes. Tolerance is not a disguise. We shouldn't cover up big mistakes or mistakes, or we will harm others and ourselves! Of course, when you do something wrong, don't forgive yourself easily, because that's not tolerance, but cowardice. Therefore, tolerance is also a science.
Because of tolerance, monotonous life becomes colorful; Because of tolerance, complex life becomes pure! Forgiving others is also releasing yourself! With the virtue of tolerance, you will have the blue sea and blue sky of love and life!
Four: On the journey of tolerant life, the wind blows, the rain cries and the flowers laugh. There are also many unpleasant things. With a tolerant heart, all unpleasant things will be like dust, and the wind will blow without leaving a trace. But what is tolerance?
"A hundred rivers, tolerance is great." The sea never despises any river. Maybe it's just a nameless stream. The sea will open its hands, hug it, kiss it and greet it with a smile.
Tolerance is respect for personality. Maybe your friends have done something wrong to you, please don't take it to heart. Because, he may be careless or for other reasons. No matter what he did wrong, trust him, believe that he didn't cheat you, and believe that he is your true friend. Forgive his mistakes and help him from another angle. Maybe your friend has bad shortcomings, please don't despise him, tolerate those shortcomings with a tolerant heart, and on the other hand, use wisdom to convince him every time you talk and chat. A true friend will one day understand your good intentions and appreciate your previous tolerance. Of course, I will correct my shortcomings. Because in his life journey, he gained the respect and trust of others. The power of tolerance is infinite, and tolerating others is also tolerating yourself. You know, "there is no garden without weeds."
Tolerance requires us to have a fair and rational attitude. When friends have less and less contact with themselves, they no longer care about you as before. Please don't be angry with him, find a suitable opportunity, open your heart to each other, give him a chance to explain and listen to his difficulties carefully. Never mind what happened before, because it may only break our friendship.
Tolerance is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but it is also different from unprincipled concession and humiliation in modern China history. Let everyone in China be angry with the "tolerance" of the Qing government, which left us too much blood and shame. This "tolerance" makes us a sick man in the eyes of foreigners, a decadent country. True tolerance should have principles, so that each of us can keep our own backbone. After the New China, we don't care what Japan did to China in the Sino-Japanese Sino-Japanese War of 1894-1895, but we extended our hands to establish diplomatic relations with Japan with tolerance and fraternity. This tolerance truly reflects the virtue and atmosphere of an ancient civilization.
The bright starry sky makes people want to stay because of its vastness; The vast ocean is intoxicating because of its magnificence, and the tolerant sunshine makes everyone smile at everything because of its warmth. Happiness shuttles through the journey of life.
Five: learn to be tolerant. There is a line in Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice: "Tolerance is like a drizzle in the sky, nourishing the earth. It blesses those who are tolerant We should learn to tolerate others ... "
In our life, it is inevitable to have friction with classmates and teachers. When we disagree with our classmates, sometimes we quarrel. At this time, we should calm down and think about it. A celebrity in Qing dynasty said: "His truth is that I am right and wrong, so I will let it go;" Whether he is right or wrong is my reason that I will tolerate it. "Don't be opinionated, be good at listening to other people's opinions, so as to avoid unnecessary quarrels. Friendship will bloom undefeated. When the teacher is wrong about you, there is no need to argue with the teacher excitedly about right and wrong. Talk to the teacher sincerely and understand that the ultimate goal of the teacher is for your own good. The relationship between teachers and students will last forever. Life is bound to be bumpy. If you want to live a relaxed and happy life, you must learn to be tolerant. If you want to learn tolerance, you must first understand. Tolerance is the expression of understanding. Only by understanding others can we tolerate others.
I have also heard people say, "He who tolerates others is a coward because he has no courage to retaliate!" " "-wrong!" Only brave people know tolerance; Cowards will never be tolerant, which is not his nature. "Generosity is a virtue. It consists of self-cultivation and self-confidence-sympathy and kindness.
Chen Lin is one of the seven sons of Jian 'an. He has a quick mind and is good at strategizing. At first, he helped Yuan Shao fight against Cao Cao, which made Cao Cao suffer a lot. What makes Cao Cao even more unbearable is that Chen Lin wrote an article asking Cao Cao to pay his debts and scolding his ancestors for their blood. After Cao Cao destroyed Yuan Shao, he did not avenge his ancestors, but pardoned his sins and appointed him as a counselor. Chen Lin was also moved by Cao Cao's tolerance and sincerely surrendered. Cao Cao's tolerance and generosity to Chen Lin, regardless of the hatred that cursed his ancestors, is worth learning.
But some people forgive others on the surface, but they still have bad feelings in their hearts. Of course, it is good to be tolerant of others, but it would be better if you could forget all the mistakes of others. Forgiving without forgetting is like burying an axe in the ground without a handle. This is not only dangerous, but also leads you astray. A gentleman should be tolerant and intolerant!
Tolerance is the beginning of friendship and the source of happiness. Learn to be tolerant and treat others sincerely, and you will be intoxicated with the wine brewed by friendship. Learn to be tolerant, the world will become wider, forget it, and life will be happy forever.
Tolerance is a garland of all the true feelings and fraternity in the world. Give the wreath to others and yourself, so that you will greet a brand-new tomorrow with a smile!