Nowadays, many people in the society complain that they always collide and that fate is unfair to them. In fact, looking back, you will find that many times it is because you are too stubborn. I feel like a seven-foot man when I meet anything. How can I bend down in front of him? And the result? As a result, only your waist saved his dignity, but your head was hit hard. Now most young people are full of that kind of determination. In the face of anything, they like to die hard and eat bitter. They are unwilling to bow their heads and work hard to the end. As a result, many people will be black and blue. I think people who are swollen and fat are the most stupid and suffer all the time. Only those who seek truth from facts are the most realistic. When they encounter setbacks, they can respond in a different way according to the actual situation, even if they wronged themselves. Only in this way can we prevent ourselves from colliding on the road of life. As the saying goes, a gentleman can bend and stretch. Only flexible people can be called courageous people. As we all know, the story of Gou Jian's destruction of Wu. Defeated by the State of Wu, when he was trapped in Huiji Mountain, it was a small door in his life. If he can't be flexible, he will think that he has lost everything, even his dignity, and maybe he will choose to commit suicide. Gou Jian is a gentleman who can bend and stretch. When he faced the small door of life, he chose to bear the burden of humiliation and taste courage. Finally, he succeeded in crossing the small gate and destroyed Wu. There are many such examples in history. A true gentleman can bend and stretch in the face of the small door of life. In this way, they walked through the door and ushered in new success. When Xiang Yu was defeated, he chose to commit suicide. But if he can return to Jiangdong, maybe his descendants will follow him and raise flags and shout, so there is still the possibility of turning defeat into victory, which will not cause a historic tragedy. Nobel once said, "Isn't adversity the touchstone of fate?" When we face adversity, that is, the small door of life, who can deny that you are a piece of gold if we want to be flexible and pass through that door unharmed? So if you want to make your life smooth and accessible, you must be flexible and be able to prove that you are a piece of red gold.