In the face of setbacks 1 Someone once said, "People who have not experienced disasters will not know the value of spring." In the face of setbacks, what you can see is not necessarily darkness, but perhaps spring blossoms.
"The proudest flower always grows on the cliff. In the face of setbacks, it can stand proudly and live meaningfully. In that feudal era, women never got the dignity they deserved, but she could have the pride of that era, which was also the result of her face-to-face setbacks. Li Qingzhao had an admirable life. Rich family, her husband died young, remarried and humiliated, and put up with hardships and went to prison. After repeated blows, she never bowed to evil forces, showing a kind of backbone and expressing her dissatisfaction with reality with her talent. In the face of setbacks, she was fearless, but stood up straight and faced it bravely. Bacon once said, "the virtue of human beings is like a precious spice, which exudes a strong floral fragrance in the fire." "And Li Qingzhao is a precious spice extracted from the fire of darkness.
"A man can be destroyed, but he cannot be defeated." What brave words this is, and what courage it takes to face setbacks. On the eighty-fifth day, a miracle happened. The giant tuna was so powerful that the old man didn't stop there. Instead, he straightened up and put down more fishing lines to fight the fish. After two days of stalemate, the old man finally succeeded in biting it, but it attracted sharks and finally found nothing. The old man who faced setbacks turned into a tough guy. Although he didn't succeed, his courage to face setbacks has infected generation after generation, and his spirit will last forever.
Voltaire lamented: "Life is full of thorns, and the only way we can think is to quickly cross those thorns." Frustration is not terrible, escape is terrible! If Beethoven did not face up to the frustration of deafness in both ears, there would be no thrilling symphony of fate; If Sima Qian had not faced the defeat of castration, how could this amazing masterpiece Historical Records have been born? If Lincoln didn't face up to those nine failures, how could he change from a shoemaker to a man who holds the destiny of the country? Face setbacks, be reborn from the fire, and bloom the most beautiful flowers.
No one can guarantee that you will never be troubled by setbacks, but facing them directly is the key to success. Don't run away because you are afraid, you will lose the most basic competitive opportunity.
Shakespeare once said, "To be or not to be, that is a question." In my opinion, if you face setbacks directly, this is definitely not a problem. Survival is only the first step. The best quality can only be possessed after tempering. Face up to setbacks and be the most moved one.
In the face of setbacks, an eagle, whistling, is earth-shattering.
I, flying freely in the sky, enjoy the thrill of the eagle hitting the sky and overlook all beings. The snow on the earth has not completely melted, the flowers are in full bloom, the wicker is swaying slightly in the wind, like a green girl's plain skirt, and the farmer's uncle is sowing seeds in the field, all of which are filled with happy smiles. The new year is a brand-new beginning.
My mother looked at me nervously and happily at the top of the mountain, as if to say, "Son, you have finally grown up!" " "
Last winter, the biting cold wind blew on the bare cliff, whirring. At that time, I just grew feathers and couldn't fly. Every day, my mother flies out of the nest to find food for me. How much I yearn for the world outside the nest, how much I want to fly under the blue sky, and how much I want to go out for food with my mother.
So, I began to pester my mother to teach me the skills of flying in the sky, but my mother always said, "You are too young, I will teach you when I grow up." If I don't know, then I can only sneak around. I remember my mother's movements in the flight every day, and when she goes out for food, I will follow them.
Finally, one day, the weather was exceptionally good, the sun was shining on the earth, the breeze was blowing gently and it was warm, and my mother was just outside foraging, so I had a bold idea and flew to the opposite mountain.
Ejection, dive, flapping wing, gliding, a series of difficult movements are being carried out by me in an orderly way. I'm nervous and excited. I see the distance from the top of the mountain is less than 50 meters. However, my heart is unable to do so. At this time, I was exhausted, and my strong desire for survival urged me to continue flapping my wings, 30 meters, 20 meters, exhausted. I fell desperately in a free fall to the bottom of the cliff. ...
The rocks at the bottom of the cliff quickly enlarged in my eyes, and death approached like me, waiting for me, and my mind was blank.
A cry that seemed to tear the sky came into my ears, and my eardrum buzzed. In an instant, two powerful claws picked me up hard, and I was in a coma at this time.
When I woke up again, I was lying in the nest, next to my mother who was still sleeping. This reminds me that my mother saved me at that time, but my mother fell asleep because she was relieved. Fear, guilt, and resentment of oneself suddenly welled up in my heart. "am I really so useless?"
Many days later, my mother went out for food as usual. My mood has been very low these days, and I often look at the opposite hill alone and stay in a daze all day.
At this time, it was already dark. By this time, my mother had come back, but today, I began to worry about my mother's situation. After more than an hour, the sun has set, and the afterglow of the setting sun is particularly dazzling. My mother appeared in the afterglow shadow, like a black spot. I waved my wings to my mother excitedly. My mother seemed to see me and flew towards me even harder.
The silence of the valley was broken with a bang, and then I saw my mother's body falling towards the bottom of the cliff. At this moment, I rushed desperately in the direction of my mother's fall, and there was only one thought in my mind, that is, saving my mother, diving, flapping my wings and gliding. After completing this series of actions, my mother's body gradually enlarged in my eyes. I opened my claws, grabbed my mother's body and walked towards that.
Only when the cocoon is broken can there be butterflies, and only when nirvana can there be a phoenix. Sunshine always appears after a storm. It is also directly facing setbacks that we can grow.
No one's life is smooth sailing, not Bill Gates, not Li Ka-shing, not Tu Youyou, not me! We began to face challenges before we were born. No one can tell how many' difficulties and setbacks' our life will have. Maybe this is fate! However, some people don't go to the city and decide to "go against the sky" because they believe that fate will always be in their own hands! However, some people are resigned to their fate. He has no mood to overcome setbacks, and has lived a mediocre and unremarkable life all his life. I think our life should be wonderful and free and easy. This is a meaningful life and a worthwhile life.
In my eyes, people who have no confidence to challenge setbacks are like losers, who can't beat themselves and don't even have the courage to take the first step to pursue their dreams. What kind of person are you? When I was at school, I once ran for class cadre, and the class teacher chose me as the monitor. I felt how proud I was, but later I made a big mistake and was criticized by the teacher in my class. I feel ashamed, I hold back my tears, but the tears that failed me are still in my eyes. After class, I squatted by the flower bed alone, thinking about the disappointed expression of the teacher and the stinging words of my classmates. I really don't want to be a class cadre, but I hesitated. After all, I like serving everyone and I am eager to be a teacher's little assistant. I don't know how long I spent squatting beside the flower bed. I gradually cried enough before I got up and walked slowly home. I took a step back when I got up because I squatted for too long.
I walked home in frustration, weakly said "I'm back" to the kitchen, and sat on the sofa watching TV. My mother probably waited for a long time, but she didn't see me go in to help, so she came out to see what was wrong with me. My mother came over and asked, "What's the matter?" I looked at my mother and turned my head to the TV without answering her. After my mother asked again, I reluctantly told the story one by one. Your mother said, "What's the matter?" Think for yourself. "
Mom said that she went into the kitchen and began to be busy again. I just sat there and started thinking, why not get rid of those bad habits? I got up and ran to the kitchen with a big smile and said, "Mom, I'll help you with the dishes." Therefore, when things happen unexpectedly, only those who dare to face setbacks and control them can reach the other side of success and see further.