Live hard and you will be treated gently by the world.
Author: Eat and sleep.
No matter where we want to go, there is a particularly difficult road, which will make us feel confused, painful and desperate, but we choose to move on because there are people we love in this world, so it deserves our deep affection.
We all live so hard, most of the time, for the people we love, for the people who love ourselves. We should thank those who give us love and strength, and at the same time thank ourselves for having the courage to undertake love and responsibility.
After working for many years, Xu Ge got married and had children and went back to school for postgraduate study, which made me admire.
I met Xu Ge on campus. Xu Ge has lost a lot of weight, and his face is obviously tired.
After careful inquiry, Xu Ge's father got pancreatic cancer and lived in a hospital in his hometown.
Xu Ge, an only child, often goes back and forth between school and his hometown. Xu Ge returned to school with no income. His family income depends on his lover. He can't quit his job to take care of his father. His son is only a little over two years old and is sick from time to time. In his second year as a graduate student, this is the heaviest scientific research task, and all the burdens are on Xu Ge.
Although I don't feel the triple pressure from home, hospital and laboratory, I am sure that Xu Ge must be very tired and exhausted.
I don't know how to comfort him. Brother Xu seems to understand what I want to say. He said, "Get over it, and it will get better."
See you in a few months, Xu Ge. Although Xu Ge is still very tired, his eyes are bright and firm. He was not defeated by the immediate difficulties.
Brother Qiang, who wrote a novel on the Internet together, said that he had gone out to write a novel, and the new book was military.
"I wrote very carefully this time because I need money." Brother Qiang said.
We used to write books for fun, because we read too many novels, so we had the idea of writing novels.
After reading his book, I found that I really worked hard, the update was stable and the effect was good. I asked him, aren't you tired of updating so many words every day?
"I talked about a girlfriend, getting married soon. I want to save money. The housing price in Xiamen is so high that my salary is not enough, so I write novels to earn some money. "
Brother Qiang works as a supervisor on the construction site, and his salary is really not very high. Now he spends four or five hours writing in his small house every night, writing until one or two in the morning every night, earning more than 3,000 yuan a month.
"I will try to be a great god, and I will keep writing!" Brother Qiang said cheerfully.
At ten o'clock in the evening, I was a little hungry. I pushed open the window and reached out from the 24th floor to explore the temperature outside.
There is snow, which falls on your fingertips and is very cold. Wondering whether to go to bed hungry or go downstairs to find something to eat heroically.
I put on my shoes and hurried out of the community, only to find that my uncle who baked sweet potatoes was still there.
Picked a sweet potato, yellow pulp, 8 Liang, 4 yuan.
Smelling sweet potato, my hands are warm.
"Grandpa, why don't you go back? The snow is so heavy. "
"There are only two left. I'll go back after I sell them, hehe. " Grandpa smiled and rubbed his hands.
A classmate who works in Wudaokou said that she was still in the internship period for the first half of her work, and her salary was relatively low, so she lived in Changping. Get up at 6 o'clock every morning, then squeeze the bus and squeeze the subway after the bus.
The buses in the high-end period in Beijing were so crowded that it said, "Squeeze everyone into a steamed bun!" " It is no exaggeration to use it to describe it.
She said that she spent four hours on the bus every day and came home at night feeling devastated.
In order to save money, stir-fry in the rented room at night, steam rice, put it in a lunch box, take it to the office the next morning, heat it in the microwave at noon, and it will be lunch.
During that time, she often cried in bed. She has been wondering whether staying in Beijing is a wrong choice. This life lasted for half a year.
After becoming a regular employee, my salary was high, and I saved some money to rent a house in the urban area.
"Work and life are finally on the right track, don't be so hard." After working for a year, she sent a message saying.
I always think that the most touching part of my graduation thesis should be my "thank you".
I am the one who thanked himself in the graduation thesis "Thank you".
"Thank you" is the only emotional part of the graduation thesis. Other parts must be logical and accurate.
I remember the last sentence of my graduation thesis was after one o'clock in the morning. At that time, my only feeling was that I wanted to rush out of the dormitory and run outside shouting "It's finally over!"
After I calmed down, I began to write the "thank you" part, and the experience of studying for ten years came to mind one by one.
At the end of Thank You, I wrote this passage.
"More than 70,000 words, thousands of days of literature reading, experiment, thinking and writing, thank you for not forgetting your active mind and persisting all the way."
In life, we will encounter many difficulties, such as family illness, like brother Xu, financial difficulties, like strong brothers and classmates. ...
Some people are overwhelmed and choose to escape, or choose extreme ways to end their lives. And we have been persisting and working hard.
So we should thank ourselves, in this prickly society, for our forbearance, for our efforts, and for our efforts. Thank yourself for crying and laughing when facing ridicule, betrayal and lies.
Thank you for always believing that as long as you work hard, you will be treated gently by the world one day.