2, the villain complains more. -wangtong
3. The villain Gan. -Zhuangzi.
4, attached to inflammation, cold and abandoned. -Liu Zongyuan
5, the gentleman outside, the villain inside. -Luo Guanzhong.
6, the villain can't say it all. -Xue Xuan
7, clever words, fresh and kind. -Confucius
8. Young people are keen on small things. Horace.
9. It is difficult for a villain to keep small differences. Chesterfield.
10, please punish Chao Cuo Qingjun. -Liu Ying
1 1, love fame and fortune, villain. -wangtong
12, hunger is attached to people, and satiety is high. Fang Ling Xuan.
13, the gentleman's reach, the villain's hair. -Confucius
14, the founding of the People's Republic carries on the family line, and the villain does not need it. I Ching
15, a gentleman speaks with his words, but a villain speaks with his tongue. -Wang Su
2. To talk about others behind their backs, what are the famous aphorisms for dealing with interpersonal relationships 2 1 famous aphorisms:
One: Don't trust those who always report who is scolding you.
Two: don't trust people who praise you at first sight.
Three: Don't hate those who openly argue with you and criticize you.
Four: Never arrange for some people to collect what others say behind your back.
Five: Never use your right to gather some people in public to talk about others' evaluation of you, which is equivalent to tearing down your own platform.
Six: Don't answer any attacks on your life, only discuss meaningful things.
Seven: Don't defend yourself (in general), but you can clarify some opinions, some choices and some right and wrong.
Eight: It doesn't matter if you can't figure it out or take the blame. You are still you, and he is still him. A person who can't take responsibility can only be weak.
Nine: Don't refuse people casually, don't promise people casually, don't suspense people, and don't try to be brave.
Ten: Don't be in a hurry to show yourself or correct others. I'm watching, listening and thinking.
Eleven: Don't talk about others behind their backs.
Remember, interpersonal relationships are always two-way, how you treat others, how others treat you.
Thirteen: Never accept incitement or provocation.
Fourteen: When getting along with others, never consider what you can get from it.
Fifteen: Never think that anyone you meet is dumber than you, dumber than you, and easier to take the bait than you.
Sixteen: When you are surprised by someone or something, think about the benefits first. He may be helping you, at least objectively. Don't imagine others with hostility at once.
Seventeen: Never tangle with anyone. Your performance is the best answer and comfort to others.
Eighteen: Look for the combination point, contract and point instead of just staring at contradictions and differences, always be calm and calm, treat differences as normal, treat different opinions as reality, and make friends instead of being on pins and needles.
Nineteen: Never talk and think about problems from the perspective of personal interests, never argue with others about "I, I, I", and make the argument physical and chemical, not personal.
Twenty: Take the handling of interpersonal relationship as a special course, from which we can master our national conditions, history, society, structure, philosophy, tradition and fashion trends.
2 1: study, work, travel, etc. Go all out. It's a waste of energy, time and life to spend more time on dealing with friction in interpersonal relationships, sending three components for 30 seconds at most, and then doing things.
The motto of speaking ill of others behind their backs, insist on speaking well of others behind their backs, and don't worry that this good word won't reach the ears of the parties concerned.
When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.
When you advise others, if you don't care about others' self-esteem, then no matter how good it is, it is useless.
It takes only one word to destroy a person, but a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please have mercy.
There's no need to look back at who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite back?
Sit still and always think about yourself. Don't gossip about others.
Look at yourself and don't judge others.
The heart of a villain, guard against inadvertent hair.
With the heart of a villain, the belly of a gentleman.
Whoever doesn't talk about people behind their backs won't be talked about behind their backs.
What an honest man says is as reliable as his collateral. The confession of Cervantes is really cool and the most popular. -Balzac
Go your own way and let others talk!
A gentleman is figurative, while a villain is figurative. Confucius
4. Always talk about others behind their backs. What poem can be used to sum up "sitting and thinking about yourself, gossip is not about people's right or wrong."
From School Motto Thunder, author: Dynasty: Qing Dynasty.
It means: calm down and always reflect on your mistakes before you can reject right and wrong and do good. Don't talk about other people's gains and losses when chatting, leave some room when doing things, and leave some lip service when speaking.
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Motto related famous sentences:
I like listening to others, but I don't like listening to myself.
If you are good to yourself, how can you be good to others?
I like listening to other people's mistakes, but I like listening to my own. I like to talk about my own advantages, not others'.
If things are ambiguous, you should think about defending him, not attacking him.
People are poor. Think of them and treat them with dignity.
The privacy that belongs to others should be maintained, and there should be no thought of speaking ill. For poor and humble people, we should think of treating them with courtesy, and we should not have the slightest arrogance and contempt.
5. Don't talk about others behind their backs, saying that others are right or wrong. 1. Legs are long because of dew, and mouth is long because of trouble-proverb
2. There is no distance between right and wrong-Zhang Jiuling, a poet in the Tang Dynasty.
3. Fame and fortune, the world of mortals don't annoy people-Ma Zhiyuan, a poet in Yuan Dynasty.
4. Fame will never be heard, right and wrong will always be clear-Feng Menglong
5. He is also right and wrong, which is also right and wrong-Zhuangzi.
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1. Right and wrong is a Chinese vocabulary, and the pinyin is shē f ē i, which refers to the right and wrong of things; The general argument between tongue and mouth. See Book of Rites Qu Lishang: "If a husband is polite, he will make friends, be suspicious, be different and distinguish right from wrong." Used of bad things.
2. Famous aphorisms, also known as famous sayings, refer to some famous people's conclusions or suggestions written in history and drawn through practice, as well as famous cautionary words. Famous aphorisms are easy to pass down.
6. Famous sayings about argumentative essays (1). Persuade people to cherish time, black hair does not know how to learn early, white boss regrets, teenagers learn late, old age is difficult to learn, an inch of time is not light, an inch of gold is difficult to buy and save, and teenagers are sad (2). Admonish people to be honest (1). Those who are unwilling to become strong and wise will fail.
-Mo Zhai, Warring States thinker. 2. Internal and external correspondence, words and deeds are consistent. -Han Fei, philosopher and educator during the Warring States Period. 3. Goodness does not come from the outside, and the name cannot be spread in vain.
-Qu Yuan, a Warring States poet. 4. The true person is sincere, not refined but sincere, and can't move. -Zhuang Zhou, philosopher during the Warring States Period. 5. A person's treachery is not famous.
-Liu Xiang, a scholar in the Han Dynasty. 6. False deception can't last long, emptiness can't last long, rotten wood can't be carved, and love can't last long. -Han Ying, a poetic critic in the Han Dynasty. 7. If you don't trust others, your wife will doubt them.
-Chang Quan, a hermit in the Jin Dynasty. 8. Without loyalty, one can't stand on the world. -Cheng Yi, philosopher of the Song Dynasty. 9.
-Chen Fu, philosopher of Song Dynasty, 10. Being honest with others not only benefits others, but also benefits yourself. -Emperor Wen of Sui, a scholar in Song Dynasty, 1 1. Honesty is the lifeblood of life and the foundation of all values.
-Dreiser, British writer 12. Words must be done, and actions must be fruitful. -The Analects of Confucius 13. Deception can only be temporary, and honesty is a long-term policy.
-john ray, British scholar 14. Life cannot bloom brilliantly from lies. -German poet Heine 15. Honesty is the most touching.
16. If you can be true to yourself, you can be false to others, just like night and day, the shadow follows you. -Shakespeare, English playwright 17. How can there be dignity without honesty? Cicero, Roman statesman. If a person loses honesty, he loses everything.
-Li Li, English essayist 19. Honesty is the best policy. Franklin is 20 years old. If people can get rid of hypocrisy, they will get great peace of mind.
-Mark Twain (3). Persuade people to be tolerant, everything should be open to the sunrise, and the East China Sea will set the West Mountain, and one day you will be sad and happy; If you don't walk into a dead end, you will be comfortable and your heart will be comfortable. Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Changing what can be changed and accepting what cannot be changed is an emotion that consumes the spirit. Regret is a bigger loss than loss and a bigger mistake than mistake. So don't regret (4) strong will \ firm determination. I succeeded because I was determined and never hesitated.
An important sign of personality maturity: tolerance, forbearance and kindness. -"The weakness of human nature" famous aphorism makes you tired not by the mountain in front, but by a grain of sand in your shoe.
-the three armed forces can win the handsome, but ordinary people can't win the ambition. -The Analects of Confucius. Zi Han's famous motto about love (5), true love is to drive away crazy or lewd things.
Plato's famous aphorism (6) about cultivating a cultivated gentleman, the heart is right inside and the things are right outside. -(Song) Ouyang Xiu's famous sentence absolute beauty, gone forever, is hard to wake up in the morning. It's time to cheer yourself up, and time waits for no one.
-(Jin) Tao Yuanming has a famous saying that the moral character of epigrams should be noble; Life should be honest; Mind your manners. You should be polite. -(France) Montesquieu's famous aphorism is quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugality to cultivate one's morality, no seclusion, no ambition and no tranquility.
-Zhuge Liang's famous aphorism (7) People should always reflect-the hardest thing to know yourself is to know yourself. (Greece) Self-knowledge is the rarest knowledge.
(Spain) If you want to know yourself, you'd better ask someone else. (Japan) You can only know yourself in the crowd.
(Germany) There are countless stars in the sky, but there is no soot on the face. (Malaysia) There is only one audience singing their praises.
(Japan) Don't laugh at others' backs, but straighten yourself. The most sophisticated people can't see their own backs.
(Africa) The more incompetent people are, the more they like to find fault with others. (Ireland) Everyone knows where shoes pinch.
(Latin America) Your own shoes, you know where they are tight. (Spain) You know what you eat.
If you can't judge yourself, you won't judge others. (Germany) If you can't command yourself, you can't command others.
(American) People who are afraid of you to your face must hate you behind your back. (British) A selection of famous sayings and aphorisms (in alphabetical order) B When will all rivers return to the sea and the west? A lazy youth, a lousy age.
(Han Yuefu's "Long Songs") A hundred studies must be decided first. (Zhu) The sword is sharpened, and the plum blossoms are bitter and cold.
Put pen to paper shocks the wind and rain, and poetry becomes tears. (Du Fu) Don't cut the illusory body and be elegant, but learn from it.
(Du Fu) He has a broad vision and makes good appointments with people, but he has accumulated a lot. (Su Shi) erudite, interrogative, thoughtful, discerning and persistent.
(Book of Rites) You don't know the height of the sky unless you climb the mountain. Don't face the deep stream, I don't know the thickness of the ground. ("Xunzi") Others: If you don't fly, you will fly to the sky; If you don't sing, it will be a blockbuster.
(Sima Qian) Don't worry about people who don't know themselves, but don't know people. (Confucius) Nothing ventured, nothing gained? (Han Shu) If you don't stop, you can't stop.
(Han Yu) I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but toward which corner of the mountain. (Su Shi) Not afraid of clouds covering his eyes, he reached the peak.
(Wang Anshi) If you don't obey the rules, you won't be Fiona Fang. (Mencius) After a hundred flowers blossom into honey, work hard for whoever you are sweet for.
(Luoyin) Actually, the granary knows the etiquette, but you don't know the honor or disgrace until you have enough to eat and wear warm clothes. ("Pipe") Fuck a thousand songs and then sound, watch a thousand swords and then recognize the device.
(Liu Xie) Look at yourself and you can know people; If you look at today, you can know the past. ("Lu Chunqiu") A tiny difference is a thousand miles away.
(Hanshu) One day, I will ride the wind and waves, sail straight up and cross the deep sea. (Li Bai) Just because I have a magnet in my heart doesn't mean that the South won't rest.
(Wen Tianxiang) By the shipwreck, Qian Fan crossed, before the diseased tree, Wan Muchun crossed. (Liu Yuxi) Once you eat it, you gain wisdom.
(Old proverb) Short feet, long inches. But before he conquered, he died (Qu Yuan) and made the hero cry.
(Du Fu) Silkworms in spring have to spin until they die, and candles have to drain the wick every night. (Li Shangyin) The spring breeze is full of horseshoe diseases, and you can see all the Chang 'an flowers in one day.
(Meng Jiao) Spring can't close the garden, but an almond goes out of the wall. (Ye Shaoweng) A spring night is worth a thousand dollars.
(Su Shi) Good is like Deng, and evil is like collapse. (Mandarin) A gentleman would rather die than surrender.
If you are straightforward, if you are smart, if you are clumsy, if you are argumentative. Be loyal to your art, you don't know your age, and let wealth and fame drift like clouds.
7. Don't talk behind others' backs. Be a punctual person, pursue perfection and strive to do better. Growth is a lonely journey. Be good at keeping your mouth shut and don't talk about people behind their backs. Have a strong heart and always give opportunities to those who are prepared.
Know the world, not the world. Don't expose people's shortcomings, don't speak ill of others behind their backs, don't blow yourself up, don't spend the night outside, and don't get too close to the opposite sex with no definite relationship; Make sure the relationship, don't do anything special. Same-sex relationship is very good, and I am gentle with everyone, but there is a bottom line, and I will never do anything wrong. Strong quality, cheerful personality, many friends, only a few intimate, very concerned about the feelings of others.
From then on, I decided to be such a person: simple and simple; Hard bones, soft hearts; Be true and tell the truth; Do not flatter, do not talk behind your back; Not the front of people, but the back of people; There is no intention of grandstanding, but a heart of seeking truth from facts; It's not that you don't consider personal interests at all, but that you consider others more; The key is the word "truth", which is a person with temperament.
8. What are the classic sentences that describe gossiping behind your back? 1: Who said what behind, who said what in front.
2. The evil mouth in the world, together with the free tongue, is the root of all evil.
3. Right and wrong people are right and wrong, and right and wrong people are right and wrong.
4. How can a gentleman go to a villain, and a villain will die like grass.
5: All hearts are gentlemen and all hearts are villains.
6. Summer insects can't talk about ice, and well frogs can't talk about the sea.
7: Why not fly in Wan Li?
8. Sit still and think about yourself and gossip about others.
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1: gossip refers to gossip; Discuss the right and wrong of others behind their backs; If you are not satisfied, personal rumors, rumors, behind-the-scenes news, etc.
2. Gossip, if it has nothing to do with business, talk less, pay attention if you are not satisfied, so as not to let people say it.
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