The so-called perfect love is just the same wine stored in two jars, which can completely integrate Confucianism.
Coco chanel said, "A woman can live without marriage, but she can't live without love". It can be seen that love is the water of life that nourishes women's romantic feelings. Without it, the flowery life will wither alone. I agree with this statement, but in my bones, I have the impulse to make a small modification to it: "A person can live without marriage, but not without love". I don't know if this is an understanding of the profound thoughts of ancient philosophers. But my revision is not unreasonable, that is to say, not only women need love, but perfect love is equally important to men. It is the spark that ignites men's passion for life and inspiration for career creation.
People say that "behind a successful man, there is always a caring woman who silently supports him", and the reason why she gave him great support and encouragement without regret, I think, is love.
Perfect love is a bond that closely links the feelings of two individuals of the opposite sex. The width of this bond is cut by their respective moral cultivation and traditional ethics. Their temperament and cultural accomplishment are full of the color of this bond. Different fates and different emotional experiences have formed slightly different opinions and formed a summary on the bond, which is entangled with each other for life.
When love first comes, it is always half-hidden, with mysterious and attractive colors and twists and turns. That is at arm's length, like jade smoke, like wind cutting water. This is undoubtedly the initial prototype of this link that has not been visualized. More accurately, it is the initial feeling in love. This feeling is full of intoxication that can't be as confusing as morphine. At the same time, what is more painful is the acacia and expectation intertwined with drug addiction. It's like a person who has been imprisoned in an unattended darkroom for a long time and suddenly hears footsteps approaching for a long time. As a result, the door that has been locked has also cracked a small crack that is not easy to be noticed by people, holding their breath and expecting further tentative knocking at the door by outsiders. But the fingers outside are hesitating and the heart outside is anxious. The tangible bond is so silent.