Parents' concept of "looking forward to their children's success, looking forward to their women's success" still exists, and today's new schools have also begun a series of practices to require today's children to have a good future. Next to the gate of XX school, we can see a huge piece of paper:
"Students who have entered shimen middle school are: XXX, XXX, XXX. ...
Students who have entered Nanhai Middle School are: XXX, XXXX, XXX. ...
Students who have entered Jiujiang Middle School are: XXX, XXX, XXX. ...
XX primary school shows "
This practice makes those children who have just entered primary school realize that "I must enter a key high school so that I can be on the list." However, who has ever thought about how many hardships and difficulties are hidden behind these children? Perhaps, some people think that this is just to make children more motivated and have a sense of urgency in advance. A child who has just turned six will begin to shoulder such a great responsibility, and at this age, shouldn't he enjoy that wonderful and happy childhood?
When I was in kindergarten, I had to take an exam every day. If I didn't get 100, I felt sorry for my parents. Worried about exams all day, I can think of exams in my dreams. Where is the happy childhood? In junior high school, the military training here is even more suffocating. Three big exams in one semester have been divided, but in the second day of junior high school, the so-called boarding classes and non-boarding classes have been divided, which is even more different. Non-boarding classes are competing to attend boarding classes; The students in the boarding class all want to be among the best in the class, and finally get a good ranking in the class, but the ranking in the class is far from that in the first grade! Every student tries his best to win the place in the class for himself, but the result is often unexpected, which makes us scared every day.
So soon there was such a heavy sense of oppression, and when I grew up, I had to adapt to life, the environment, the boss and so on. So what? Life, is it necessary to be so nervous?
I once saw a public opinion poll on TV, which was about "Do you agree with the implementation of the examination system in kindergartens?" The result is that 60% people disagree, 30% people agree, and the remaining 10% people don't care. Those who disagree believe that children should have a wonderful childhood and should not strangle their innocence and become slaves of learning in this flower season. Yes, learning so fast will only be a machine for homework. However, the behavior of this school has greatly deepened the pressure on our teenagers. Maybe the people on the list will feel very satisfied and happy. However, has this school ever thought about not going to that key high school, resulting in its anonymity on the list? What will their mood be like? Maybe it is a difference of one point; Maybe someone who is not so famous in high school now; Maybe this student is not suitable for the so-called arts and sciences, but wants to enroll in some technical schools. It's all possible. What will they think when they see a notice without their own name? Is it possible to feel inferior? If this school can think of these problems, not only the so-called grades, scores, but also the honor of the school. Can these seemingly useful things save a child's self-esteem? Achievements, grades and school honors are important, but can you be so indifferent to people's feelings? Seriously, it's unfair to wait for people and not look them in the eye!
Because of the fierce competition now, college students may not be able to find jobs, so people are forced to read blindly because of the situation, and finally they just read the dead books that white-haired people gave to black-haired people! Even if I can have a career when I grow up, will I feel lonely when I look back? Looking at your descendants, are you willing to make their childhood gray? Learning is easy and happy, but we make it a tense environment. Passive learning attitude and active learning attitude are completely different, and the results are completely different!
Living in ancient Zhou Enlai, I was determined to study for the rise of China since I was a child. Students from Jinlai studied to repay their parents, to study for a smooth employment, and to study for a better life. This sentence came from my friend in Zhou Enlai at that time. What is the difference between this and the previous feudal society?
A successful person is often cultivated by a child. However, this kind of training is learned from life, not from boring books. When reading, we should also have a childhood, have fun in study, find happiness in books and find happiness in class. This is what a child should do. Relax when you should relax, and be nervous when you should be nervous. Similarly, a dazzling person does not want to leave bad memories at his alma mater. However, this school is killing them. I have no position in this alma mater. I think that when I was studying in this alma mater, I was so hard and worried about studying every day. However, I don't have that amazing prestige today. Poor man!
Now, we should learn to respect the pillars of the motherland, pay more attention to their childhood, and make their childhood happier, more free and without regrets. Tension and relaxation must happen in the same life. The problem is how to solve it. In school, parents need to care, but they can't indulge their behavior. They should learn to treat others equally. There is also the old idea of son preference. I hope everyone here who once had this idea will correct it, because it is unfair to every girl. Let's have a happy childhood, when we relax, we will be nervous, and when we are nervous, we will relax, so that we can do it right!