We have been losing it since we were born. We don't have any good ideas about these. Some people say that I can fight with heaven and earth, but can you fight forever? Sooner or later, you will not survive, so you must choose to lose something.
Losing is actually wisdom. Losing is not necessarily a loss, but perhaps another gain. For example, if you are sick, it means that you have to go to the hospital to see a doctor, so that you lose money but gain health, or for example, if you try hard to socialize in order to get a partner, even if you get a partner, you lose health.
Life is impermanent, and the next second is doomed. What we need to do is to do well in the present and leave the next second to ourselves to solve.
Some people always feel unhappy. In fact, in the final analysis, these people are so competitive that they want everything but are not so capable of being sad.
Actually, we don't have to argue about everything. Everything is the past except ourselves, blowing in the wind.
In the journey of life, there are several things that we must never lose, such as honesty, affection and friendship, but some things don't need to be too concerned, such as money and rights. Only in this way can we not be disturbed by common things, and we can always maintain a normal heart no matter what we encounter.