Only those who have been trained in silence and baptized in loneliness can capture the true meaning of life. People can only know themselves when they are lonely.
A western philosopher said, "The strongest man in the world is the loneliest man." "Only the greatest people can accomplish their mission in loneliness."
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Loneliness makes a master. This is because, after getting rid of the complicated troubles of vanity, people's hearts are purified and their thoughts can fly freely. Many scholars and celebrities, immersed in their own learning, are willing to be indifferent, bear hardships and stand hard work, and finally achieve something.
Only by enduring loneliness can we maintain a person's normal mind, find our own coordinates in the lively and changeable social life and focus on realizing self-worth, show our talents, be ready to go, and finally jump out of the ordinary and achieve immortality.
Loneliness is not desolation, nor sadness. Farmers can only have a good harvest if they work in loneliness. Confucian scholars who have been cold for ten years must be lonely.
It is really sad to spend the energy of life on grandstanding chatting, playing mahjong and socializing in teahouses and pubs.
Some people say that loneliness is to leave the last life and the last strength in life to yourself, to create in loneliness, to find yourself and to realize self-worth.
Loneliness can not only find a "paradise" in the mind, but also a wonderful way of fitness. After a long-term investigation, American scientists found that people who can tolerate loneliness can often withstand the impact and hardships of life, and the probability of suffering from mental diseases such as heart disease, hypertension and cancer is about 30% less than that of the average person.
Loneliness is also conducive to self-design and self-shaping. It can be said that loneliness is not only a "crisis" in life, but also a good opportunity for self-reflection and self-improvement. Therefore, if we transcend the limitations of self and time and space and devote ourselves to the scientific and cultural creation of mankind, we will experience a profound, lofty and eternal enrichment and happiness, and then we will enter a beautiful realm of happiness.
When a person is quiet and not attacked by external noise, the world will become clean. In this environment, you can dream a thousand things, polish the articles you conceive, and add bricks to the buildings you create ... you don't have to worry about trivial things and chores at all, nor do you have to worry about human injustice. If you can enter this realm, it is like enjoying the fragrance of orchids, the elegance of chrysanthemums and the purity of lotus flowers, and you can find your true self.
Liu Haisu, a painter, gave some advice to people who like to join in the fun, love to make trouble and can't bear loneliness: "The more you are afraid of loneliness, the more lonely you will be. Because you spend your time and energy in busy places, you have no time to study and study your own problems. I have accomplished nothing in my busy field. Finally, if society doesn't recognize you, you will get lonely as you get older and die lonely as you get older. After death, it disappeared. Who will remember you who are unwilling to be lonely? "
In the hearts of strugglers, loneliness and loneliness are a kind of beauty and a valuable quality. There is no contradiction between communication and communication, and the isomorphism of them forms two quality systems of modern people. If you can find beautiful shells and pebbles in interpersonal communication, you can get the treasure hidden in the sea in lonely meditation.
The loneliness we are talking about is not a passive way to escape from the world, but a positive way to join the WTO. We don't shut people out, we don't lock ourselves in a narrow "snail shell", we don't engage in self-isolation and narcissism, but we give up the red tape that consumes youth and life, those boring entertainment, time-consuming idle talk and excessive entertainment, and concentrate on our favorite cause.
People who can enter the lonely realm will have the opportunity to avoid the hustle and bustle of prosperity and downtown, think hard and achieve their careers. Only those who can stand loneliness can have unlimited spiritual space.