When I was a child, my father always said to me, "Look up at the sky and bow your head." He just repeated what he said without explanation. I guess he doesn't know what it means, because grandpa often says this sentence. So I have a bad habit. I stopped and looked around. My classmates say I'm stupid, even my dad thinks I'm abnormal. Every time he corrects me, I look at him and wait for a while, dare to be angry and say, "Didn't you teach me this?" Is there a problem with obedience? "

For an introverted child, expression is a very difficult thing. Many doubts remain in my heart, either suddenly enlightened one day or petrified for a long time. Just because I don't say it doesn't mean I have no idea. I can only give it back to him with "bold" eyes the next time he says this sentence. Then secretly write down the preface he mentioned.

? Sometimes I do well in exams, and he criticizes me for being proud.

? Sometimes I failed in the exam, and he encouraged me to persist;

? Sometimes I don't know why I can't lift my spirits. He pointed me in the right direction.

? Of course, more often, when I don't know what to do, he put forward this method of never giving up.

? Sometimes when I am bored, I will take this sentence out and chew it slowly. Isn't it contradictory to look at the sky and hurry? Should we look up or down? This problem, which has been stuck in my chest for a long time, was suddenly solved one day in the political class.

It turns out that these are two actions, dealing with different situations respectively. In this binary relative world, there is no one way to solve all the problems. When dealing with different situations, the two methods can be switched freely.

For me, understanding this problem is a major turning point. Because from then on, I will never stop to look at the sky. Not only that, I also understood the truth that a father and grandfather wanted to convey to me. Never mind what you can't solve, you have to do it first. Of course, you can't act rashly. Stop from time to time to see if you are close to the target and if there are any pits to bypass.

? Jay Chou has a song called "Listen to Mom". But I listened to my father's words, which was especially beneficial. One day, sitting in the examination room of the college entrance examination, I got a composition topic about the process and turning point of life, and I smiled frankly. The turning points are all on the road ahead, so we have to bow our heads and go there first. As for how to turn, I will know where to turn when I look up at the sky.

? It suddenly occurred to me that my father taught me a technique called "crocodile eye" when he took me swimming in the lake when I was a child. It's easy to swim sideways when you walk bravely on the vast lake. This requires looking up at distant targets every few times. Even if there are deviations, it is wise to turn back to the right direction as soon as possible. I suddenly understood that the true meaning of life is swimming.

? Let's go, change clothes and go swimming, fight the ocean of life, hit the water in the middle, and the waves stop the flying boat.