Life is often not smooth sailing. Sometimes, in order to make greater progress, we need to change ourselves
Changing yourself is a process of self-improvement. Monroe, a famous Dongwu star in the Three Kingdoms period, is a good example. At first, Monroe only knew how to wield knives and guns, but he could not be diligent in cultivating cultural knowledge. After Sun Quan pointed this out to Monroe, Monroe studied hard, and later even Lu Su said, "Don't say goodbye for three days, look at yourself with a new eye." Because of Sun Quan's words, he changed himself and truly achieved both civil and military skills, so as to achieve Wu.
Changing ourselves can temper our will. The caterpillar becomes a butterfly, and giving up will fall short. The process of changing yourself is like climbing a mountain. Facing the brand-new self at the top of the mountain, only unremitting efforts can reach the top of the mountain. Although you will encounter unexpected difficulties in the process of climbing, if you overcome them, you will eventually find that your willpower is stronger than before.
Changing ourselves can make us better adapt to life. Everyone's life cannot be smooth sailing. What will you do when you meet a brand-new living environment? The answer is to change yourself. Because you cannot ask society or others to change anything for you. I know two people, A and B, who are both introverted and even somewhat closed. After entering junior high school, A took the initiative to change herself in order to better adapt to the living environment. When he graduated from junior high school, he had many good friends, and his social skills became stronger and his communication became wider. On the other hand, he is more isolated than before. This shows that changing ourselves can make us better adapt to the living environment.
Changing yourself is basically a re-understanding and re-creation of yourself. When you find that you need to make a change, it means that you are clear-headed. You can realize that you need to make some changes to live better. This is an improvement of your self-awareness. This kind of improvement is just what we need. Driven by this new understanding, you re-created yourself, and the people who can change themselves are extraordinary people. This kind of re-creation will help you in your later life.
Therefore, we should all learn to change ourselves. In order to make greater progress, we should be good at changing ourselves and dare to change ourselves, so as to get a brand-new self!