The guest took out three golden statuettes and put them on the table, and made an experiment with a straw to show the host. When the straw passed through the left ear of the first little golden statuette, the straw came out of the right ear. The guest inserted the straw into the left ear of the second gold man, and the straw immediately spit out from the mouth of the gold man; When the guest inserted the straw into the third gold man's left ear again, he was swallowed by the third gold man and could never get out again.
In fact, this story tells us a truth about being a man: some people are very negative, they don't think about anything with their heart, and it's hard to do it with their heart. It's a muddle-along attitude towards life. That is, the first gold man, who never thought about anything, let alone put it into action, went in one ear and out the other as if nothing had happened. This is a negative confrontation to life and an indulgence to oneself. He didn't even bother to pay attention to good opinions and constructive suggestions. He was immersed in his fixed thinking for a long time and didn't want to develop or break through. Being a man is to live every day well.
Some people are smart, like to pay attention to immediate interests and are good at taking advantage of every opportunity. In order to show their knowledge, they like to ask around and then talk irresponsibly. Some people are simple-minded, don't think about everything, and like to be the protagonist of small talk. Maybe they don't mean much, but they don't analyze what they see and hear. What they said was just a simple repetition of others, saying things they shouldn't have said. Speaking of ulterior motives, you may not, but sometimes you are too keen on spreading some unrealistic remarks, making people around you feel embarrassed and even causing a lot of right and wrong, which is likely to be used by people with ulterior motives. Being a man sometimes requires kindness. What you hear and see is not necessarily true. One-sided words will hurt people invisibly, and irresponsible communication may bring unnecessary interference to others. This is the second message that Jin Man wants to warn people: Be careful what you say and do.
Silence is the best expression in a specific environment or period. Many times, many things can't be done by anyone, and there are many subjective and objective factors that affect the development of the situation. It's best not to comment on many unconfirmed remarks, put them in your stomach and let bad rumors stop in your silence. Being responsible for others is also a respect for yourself.
Modern society should be an era of showing personality, showing self-confidence and keeping silent about some dark things. Being a man depends on real skills, not stepping on others' shoulders. It is not safe enough to get what you want with a specious slander. Even if everything can be obtained temporarily, it will lose a person's due dignity.
"Silence is golden." It is in the chaotic moments of life that silence can keep you awake. When the huge waves of life hit, use your own steady actions to resist. At this time, the power of language is pale and powerless. Even if you try your best, you can't shout out the volume that can compete with the sound of the waves. Silence is not to yield, but to preserve the strength of the next rise and find a chance to get out of the real glory of life.