You cannot control others, but you can control yourself. Go your own way, even if it is rugged and steep, but still go forward bravely. You are your own, no one can control your rights.
You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood. If you smile at life, life will smile back at you. Let our hearts not be depressed, let her be free! Let the mind fly freely to meet the colorful sunshine.
Life can't be smooth sailing. We should treat others, ourselves and the world with tolerance. There is no "perfection" in this world, but there is "perfection". It doesn't mean that we can't do it. We must do everything with a serious attitude. Everything can't be smooth sailing, but you can do everything wholeheartedly. Only in this way can we realize our own value.
The long road of life, twists and turns and bumps are inevitable. Falls and failures should not affect our hopes and determination for future success. We can't change the past experience except sigh and regret. As for the future, who can be sure that it will be worse than the past and a continuation of the failed experience?
The past is not equal to the future. Past success does not mean future success; Past failures do not mean future failures. The success or failure of the past only represents the past, and the future is determined by the actions of the present. Those who fail should not be discouraged, and those who succeed should not be proud. Neither failure nor success is the final result. This is a great event in life. Therefore, there will be no people who will succeed forever, and there will be no people who will fail forever. No matter how unfortunate the past is, it doesn't matter. The important thing is that you are full of hope for the future. As long as you are full of hope for the future, you will be full of strength. Whatever happened in the past has passed. As long as you adjust your mentality, define your goals and take optimistic and positive actions, then success is yours.
Whether it is a glorious past or an unbearable yesterday, it is already the past, and the glory cannot be reproduced, and the failure will not last long. We should pursue tomorrow.
What attitude we take towards life is completely within our control. And the attitude of life has a great influence on life. I have chosen a loyal and dedicated attitude, and I am tired of my work. Choose an optimistic and positive attitude, and life will be full of sunshine; Choose an attitude that never gives up, and you will be more frustrated and brave until you succeed; Choose a serious and rigorous attitude, life will be beautiful because of meticulous ... This is precisely: attitude determines height, and what kind of attitude determines what kind of life.
We can't extend the length of life, but we can expand the width of life; We cannot change the past, but we can change the present; We can't control others, but we can control ourselves; We can't control the weather, but we can change our mood.
. You can't do everything smoothly, but you can do everything with your heart. Our destiny is in our own hands. We should implement our life plan sincerely and wisely, face life with a correct attitude and feel endless happiness and happiness.
1. "Tortoise mentality"
Everyone must have heard the story of the race between the tortoise and the hare. The speed of the tortoise is quite different from that of the rabbit, but the tortoise won. Why? Is it that turtles have more shells than rabbits? No, the fundamental reason is mentality.
Many people only know how to satirize rabbits blindly, so that rabbits' eyes are still red now. In fact, we should pay more attention to turtles. We can try to analyze the tortoise's mentality: First, his "probability" of winning the competition with the rabbit is very low, even zero, but he dares to compare with the rabbit, which is a fearless challenger mentality. Second, it was thrown far away during the game and climbed very hard. This is a mentality that does not give up easily. Third, the rabbit fell asleep. He didn't stop, but kept crawling. This is a mentality of giving up on yourself and not letting go of any opportunity. We can call it "tortoise mentality". Since we are not as good as others, in order to succeed, we need not only hard work and strength, but also mentality. With this mentality, the tortoise actually created a miracle.
Some people say that this is just a story. Such miracles are common in real life. The famous legendary "stock god" Bafik was only a trivial minority shareholder at first, but it was all-powerful in the fierce competition because of the "tortoise mentality". He worked hard, never gave up, seized the opportunity, and his career flourished. He became the second richest man in the world.
Competition is cruel, and life is full of competition unless you are at the top of the pyramid. If we don't work hard, have no desire and are afraid of challenges, we will be eaten by others, so the "turtle mentality" is not an additional product of people's success but an essential element.
Go back to the rabbit If the rabbit doesn't sleep and he keeps running, isn't it impossible for the tortoise to win? That's also true. However, as mentioned above, the "tortoise and rabbit race" is just a fantasy. The image of the rabbit actually represents the people in society who we can call "rabbit mentality". How to sublimate "rabbit mentality" into "tortoise mentality" is by no means a matter of adding or not adding shells. I think such people will understand this truth when they are surpassed by countless "turtles" and dare not expect it any more.
In short, the mentality of success is a fearless mentality, a mentality of not giving up easily, and a mentality of seizing the opportunity to catch up. For turtles, this is no less than a wheel and an engine, which makes them run in the forefront in all aspects of life, workplace and social life.
2. Progress and the Doctrine of the Mean
I remember that some people said that Confucius was "aggressive" and Laozi was "moderate". Confucius taught us to "actively join the WTO" and Laozi taught us to "let nature take its course". How contradictory! As ancient sages, who should we emulate?
In life, some people "grow old together" for the college entrance examination and fail again and again. Some college students are not satisfied with finding a job, so they just keep looking and don't lower their standards. ...
They are "accumulated". They are not afraid of failure, unwilling to give up and stick to it, but as a result, some people have been admitted, some have found ideal jobs, and some have wasted energy, time and nothing. Is there a problem with Confucius?
Then "moderate" will do.
In life, some people say that they can't do it without trying, and they are afraid of failure, so they will never "shoot" without "100% certainty"; Some people have no goals, no motivation, and are unhappy. They often use "indifferent" as a shield to hide themselves.
They are a qualitative "golden mean". They seldom "fail" because they seldom try; Their "golden mean" will doom them to "mediocrity" all their lives. Although this is a qualitative golden mean, it exposes the possible negative effects of Laozi's golden mean.
Complete "accumulation" is better than complete "moderation", at least with goals and motivation. What we must consider is how to really benefit ourselves and bring ourselves closer to success.
China's dialectics has always been great. If we can look at the problem from a dialectical point of view, we will see another world. In fact, whether you are looking for a job, going to college, or doing other things, big or small, it is better to do it in the principle of "accumulating" from the beginning, not giving up, having goals, and wholeheartedly investing; After encountering failures or setbacks, you can find problems and find new methods quickly. Of course, the most important thing is to really do the best in the follow-up remedy.
People have different abilities, and some things can't be done by hard work alone. At this time, we need a little "golden mean" spirit. For example, if the standard is too high, then lower it appropriately; For example, you can give up some facts if you can't do them. If so, success may not be so difficult. Even though you may fail, you can say to yourself "I have tried my best" without any regrets.
Mentality determines fate. If all sentient beings can live with the mentality of "accumulation" first and then "fitness", they will certainly get the perfect life that suits them best.
3. The heart is like a rock, and the realm is like the wind.
Even if there is a storm ahead, even if everything around me will drift with the tide, even if I already know my destiny, I will take root in the ground like a rock and face the turbulent future with calm eyes.
When I grow up and know how to see the society with my own eyes, I often find the people around me unpredictable; When I saw through their impatience, their madness and even their tricks, I finally understood the truth of "dealing with the world": if the heart stops, treat it calmly and never give in.
Maybe I am a person who likes to observe and think carefully. Maybe others think unconsciously, and I can always feel the scenery that others can show me. Before every exam comes, similar but dissimilar hearts can be revealed from everyone's heart on the surface. People around you are preparing for the exam every minute. The classroom is a little messy and lively, but they often ignore the truth that quiet and indifferent people always win. My father once taught me to be calm about everything I face, even if everything around me is changing, only my inner peace remains unchanged. So when the exam comes, even if I still have some knowledge that I don't understand thoroughly, I will sit there with peace of mind and read the book calmly.
Peace of mind does not mean "obedience", which are two completely different concepts. A calm person must have a self-confidence to be competitive, so that even if the enemy is in great trouble at present, he can grasp the key points and achieve the expected victory. Just like when Enemy at the Gates was overwhelmed by hordes, Mr. Wolong calmly caressed the piano on the rostrum. Although his life may be in danger at that time, if he can't be as calm as water, the consequences will be unimaginable. Therefore, people who are often calm can give others a kind of fear by their own "calmness". On the other hand, "obedient" people are the opposite. Because of lack of self-confidence and impatience, they have long lost their pride and courage, or they are afraid of the enemy, betrayed themselves, or bowed to their fate, or even ruined their lives. Therefore, in the face of the ups and downs of life, when you go there with a calm heart, there will be a voice in your heart to remind you that you will succeed, so that you will not commit suicide.
The heart is like a rock, the realm is like the wind, the world is changing, and idealism is eternal. Don't need too much interpretation, because the thoughts hidden in my heart are like a cup of thick tea, and only more precipitation can make it more mellow. At every juncture of life, you can take firm steps with confident eyes and calm mind, so after the storm, your eyes must be on the broader shore.
Step 4 have a good attitude
As high school students, we sometimes feel a little tired, and sometimes we feel utterly confused. I think this is the beginning of our maturity, because we know how to think, or how to be responsible for what we do. I think the most important thing is to have a good attitude, how to face all kinds of problems on the road of life, and how to make us move forward smoothly.
Only when you have a good attitude can you dare to face the reality and make up for yourself. No one in the world has a smooth life. The Bible says that God created us to suffer in the world. How to face it is a decisive factor in whether we can achieve something. I think, at this time, don't always blame yourself or feel sad secretly, because it's futile; We should analyze it with an optimistic attitude and find out the problem; Face up to your mistakes bravely for future success. This kind of mentality can make you calmly sum up your experience and encourage yourself, which is likely to get twice the result with half the effort. This mentality is the cornerstone of your success.
Having a good attitude will make you confident and brave to meet the challenge. When you do something confidently, its mapping is multi-directional and will give you the effect of killing several birds with one stone. When problems come, if you look calm and fearless, you may create a world miracle. Meet every challenge with an indomitable attitude. There may not be a 100% chance of success, but this attitude will always inspire and support you, let you do your best, let you seize the best opportunity and move towards success.
Having a good attitude will make you live a happy and full life. There are all kinds of people in life, and their only "intersection" is that they all appreciate a positive, optimistic and cheerful attitude. When I see them, I often get infected, become happy and laugh. They infect all beings with a positive and optimistic heart, making more people feel that their lives are so beautiful and full. This kind of emotion spreads geometrically, which is closely related to you and me in a virtuous circle and harmonious society.
Having a good attitude will make us no longer naive, timid and disappointed, and will make us face the reality, be full of confidence and walk through every spring, summer, autumn and winter positively and optimistically.
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