I was under great pressure during my PhD study. Among them, many doctoral students deal with the contradiction between teachers and students.

One of the biggest problems we face. Shui Mu Community Postgraduate Edition and Doctoral Edition will also often send relevant articles to contact themselves and themselves.

From the experience of many doctoral students, we can see that the relationship between middle-grade doctoral students and tutors is the most tense. doctoral student

There is a process to develop a relationship with a mentor. In the Journey to the West, Tang Priest and the Monkey King's apprentice went to the Western Heaven to learn Buddhist scriptures, just as.

The development of teacher-student relationship in the process of doctoral study is just like the development of teacher-student relationship in the process of doctoral study. This paper tries to learn from it.

The development of the mentoring relationship between Tang Priest and the Monkey King, and the discussion on the relationship between teachers and students in the process of reading PhD, hoping to give a relationship between teachers and students.

Students who are nervous can refer to it (of course, it is also suitable for tutors). However, it should be noted that this paper discusses partial tension.

Teacher-student relationship, not all teacher-student relationships. The relationship between teachers and students is also harmonious or totally unacceptable, and those extremes.

The relationship between irresponsible tutors and their students is obviously not discussed in this article.

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Second, the theoretical basis

1, read and learn from the scriptures

Reading a PhD is learning classics. When you are admitted as a doctoral student by your tutor, you begin to complete a course with your tutor.

Problems or projects and work together. It's like the Monkey King worshiped Tang Priest as a teacher at the foot of Wuxing Mountain and began to learn from the scriptures together.

Work together. Some doctoral students will naturally ask a question: the tutor didn't work with me, it was me.

People are working on projects, and the tutor doesn't even have guidance. Then let's take a look at Tang Priest. Why does he want to be a mentor?

What is this? It was a burden all the way. The Monkey King tried to prevent him from being eaten by monsters, and he successfully completed the Buddhist scriptures.

But this does not deny the great cause of Tang Priest. Without the Tang Priest, the Monkey King could not learn to learn the scriptures. Because Tang Yan is "

Mentor ",only he can get the big topic of" learning from the scriptures ".With this topic, we can finally achieve the great cause of learning from the scriptures. need

What needs to be emphasized is that doctoral students complete the great cause of learning from the scriptures with their tutors, rather than protecting or helping Tang Priest to learn from the scriptures.

This is often overlooked. Finally, I successfully learned from the scriptures and successfully completed the tutor's topic. The Monkey King finally finished his studies.

Become a "doctor" (that is, become a Buddha).

2, scale and tight hoop

Graduation is a tight hoop on the monkey king's head. Without graduation, students can completely ignore their tutors.

But it is with this tight hoop that students have to listen to their tutors. The Monkey King didn't put on the hoop until he wanted to leave the Tang Priest.

I left and wanted to go back to Tang Priest, but when I put on the hoop, the relationship between the Monkey King and Tang Priest changed.

Change, even the Tang priest was stupid enough to make the mistake of ignoring the shemale, and even almost died in the mouth of Mrs. Bones, except the Monkey King

There is no way to resist, because with this clamp, you can't resist at all. This is the same as doctoral students, thinking.

You graduated, so you should listen to your tutor whether he is right or wrong. This is the hoop on your head, just wear it.

With this hoop, you can complete the great cause of learning from the scriptures with your mentor. Is tightening really that terrible? In fact, this is in

Only in the early and middle stages of the process of learning from the scriptures did the Monkey King play a restrictive role. Why didn't the Tang Priest recite a spell in the later period of Buddhist scriptures?

And then what? In the early and middle period of Buddhist scriptures, the relationship between Tang Priest and the Monkey King was in a running-in period, and Tang Priest could not control the Monkey King, but only.

Can be controlled by spells. It's like the relationship between doctors and students. In the early and middle stages, tutors often graduate.

Control students, it may be easy to use (or beat about the bush) graduation to blackmail students, students are disgusted with this, but the same

The Monkey King could do nothing but lie on the ground silently, screaming and having a headache, pleading with Master to meditate. Forget about the Monkey King.

How wild, after reading the spell, you have to listen to Tang Priest honestly. The later Buddhist scriptures were never read by Tang Priest.

Even if I barely read the hoop spell once in the infinite country, it was to help my disciples exorcise demons. When doctoral students enter the stage of thesis writing

After the deadline (the last year or half a year), the tutor will no longer use graduation as it has lost its meaning.

The Monkey King became a Buddha when he was learning Buddhist scriptures. He asked Tang Priest if he wanted to read a spell to loosen the iron hoop and remove it.

He said, "Since you became a Buddha, you naturally left. Why is it still on your head! Try to feel it. " Wukong raised his hand to touch it,

Sure enough, there is nothing. When a doctoral student becomes a doctor, will the spell on his head be naturally lifted? In fact, tightening and taking

It is consistent to get the truth and become a doctor after graduation. Tightening is to get the scriptures. Aren't you going to graduate?

Just to be a doctor? So when the tutor talks about graduation, or you don't need a tutor to talk about it, you are talking about it yourself.

You don't have to worry, because it is necessary to learn from the scriptures.

3. Different guiding relationships

The Tang Priest accepted three students, the eldest disciple the Monkey King studied for a doctorate (eventually becoming a Buddha) and the second disciple Bajie studied for it.

Master (eventually becoming an emissary), and the third disciple, Sha Ai, is an undergraduate who works as a graduation project (eventually becoming an arhat). (this

Metaphor is not appropriate, but for the sake of writing, I hope master and undergraduate students don't mind.

) Tang Priest never criticizes Friar Sand, nor does he favor Bajie. He never criticizes Bajie directly, and even occasionally blames him lightly.

, but also points to the present. Compared with these two disciples, the Tang Priest's requirements for Wukong are severe, even harsh.

If you don't listen, you have to recite the spell. The Monkey King couldn't do his job well, and Tang Priest sometimes laughed at him. For example, Tang Priest laughed at him many times.

Didn't Wukong say that you have the ability to make a scene in heaven? In fact, how exciting it is for students. short-hilted broadsword

Teachers are human, and he will be human, so Tang Priest will have this little personality. The tutor's attitude towards the three students is as follows

What is the difference? Very simple, different requirements. The final degree is different. It's that simple.

4. Who guides whom?

What bothers many doctoral students most is that the tutor can't give them guidance. On the one hand, this is really the responsibility of the tutor, on the other hand,

On the other hand, students also have problems. After all, the doctorate is not for reading. This kind of thinking of students is not finished.

It takes a long time to get rid of the inertia thinking of undergraduate or graduate students. Tang Priest is the Monkey King.

Masters, what guidance did the Tang Priest give to the Monkey King besides the big task of learning the scriptures? Even sometimes

The Monkey King is even the master of Tang Priest! For example, Tang Priest's confusion happened many times, and it was the Monkey King's words that moved Tang Priest. because

On the surface, there is no such thing, but what is the reality? There is still some. Tang priest is a well-read Zen master, who used Buddhist words many times.

Things and law touch the Monkey King. In addition, the Monkey King got a lot of help and study because of the Tang Priest's network.

Lots of skills, lots of knowledge. Therefore, the Tang Priest is both the Monkey King's master and his apprentice. Who will guide who?

Guide each other, especially in the later period. Therefore, if the great cause of studying classics is pinned on Tang Priest's slaying and exorcism, the Monkey King is indispensable.

Can become a Buddha. Tang Priest is counting on the Monkey King! Similarly, students can rely entirely on their tutors to guide their graduation and projects.

Finish your doctorate? Of course, this is not an excuse for the tutor, but I hope that students will learn to adjust their mentality. Jean Tang

Monks give themselves a subject and space to realize their doctorate in the process of learning from the great cause.

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Third, the development of mentoring and teacher-student relationship.

The contradiction between the Monkey King and Tang Priest on the way to learn Buddhist scriptures is mainly reflected in the issue of killing animals, while killing animals, they get the true scriptures.

The purpose is out of date. This is the bottom line of Tang Priest. And the Monkey King likes to do things in his own way, which has nothing to do with Don.

Monks clashed. Is the bottom line of Tang Priest right? Obviously not. As we will explain later, the Tang Priest is also changing his ways.

Type. In the process of reading a PhD, students have conflicts with their tutors, which often impact the so-called "bottom line" of the tutors. We started from

Let's look at the mentoring relationship between Tang Priest and the Monkey King:

1, at present

The Monkey King was saved by the Tang Priest and became a teacher. That's respect for Tang Priest, because he was admitted. Tang priest vs. grandson

Wukong is also the favorite, because with the apprentice, the completion of the project has a basic guarantee. Just mentioned the Monkey King Master.

The contradiction between disciples comes from the "bottom line" of Tang Priest. Is the bottom line of Tang Priest really that you can't kill? Obviously not! Dang Sunwu

As soon as he was rescued, Tang Priest met a big tiger. The tiger wanted to eat the Tang Priest, and the Monkey King killed the old man with a stick.

Tiger. Instead of blaming him, Tang Priest thanked him and discussed with the Monkey King what happened to his weapon with great interest.

Come, and "secretly happy", because after learning the scriptures, there is a protector. This is before the Monkey King opened the topic, and they just got along.

Learning from the scriptures is only on the road, and there is no source of contradiction. Tang Priest is very tolerant of the Monkey King.

2. After the topic is opened

But the good times didn't last long, and the contradiction began. The Monkey King killed the robber and touched the bottom line of Tang Priest. Then the Monkey King III.

It hit Bai and hit the bottom line of Tang Priest. Tang Priest even deliberately faced the conclusive evidence of the monster at this time.

He stubbornly recited the mantra and even threatened to drop out of school. The contradiction is far from over, so that the true and false the Monkey King finally appeared.

Demons. The contradiction between master and apprentice has reached the deepest level. After the topic is opened, with the development of the topic, the difficulty will become more and more serious, and so will the relationship between teachers and students.

The contradiction will get deeper and deeper. With the contact time getting longer and longer, the personality between teachers and students also understands each other. Some characters

And the way of doing things may be contradictory and incompatible. At this time, the tutor will definitely not change, and the students are all young.

And it's hard to change, so demons are born. Students always feel that teachers are not perfect and can't be like themselves.

I imagined a good teacher; And the tutor will not like his students in his heart. Why are you so inactive and not diligent?

Excited or not serious. In short, the small disappointments of both sides will leave a huge shadow in each other's hearts and accumulate.

It's the devil.

3. On the eve of graduation

But the friendship between master and apprentice exists, and the great cause of learning from the scriptures exists. Contradictions are inevitable, but we can't miss the great cause because of contradictions.

. So it needs to change. After the deepest contradiction, both Tang Priest and the Monkey King changed. Look at Tang Priest first. Of course he is a mentor.

I won't say what I changed for my apprentice. After all, I have a tutor's face. But he did change in a subtle way.

For example, when he faced monsters many times, he said that he had a big disciple with a big temper and could not stop him. If he breaks another man to pieces,

Sauce, he can't control it. Has the Tang Priest changed? Would he have said such a thing before? He acquiesced in the Monkey King's way of life.

Type. Moreover, more and more attention is paid to the apprentice's opinions, and even he is allowed to fake marriage with monsters (for Tang Priest, this is the same as killing people).

The bottom line is the same! ), the Tang Priest agreed to help Wukong subdue the demon, which was impossible before.

. Look at the Monkey King again, Hong Haier is a monster, the Monkey King saw it at a glance, if according to his previous temper,

He went down with a stick, but now he knows the change, so he didn't argue with his mentor face to face, mentor

Children are children; The tutor said to save him. In short, do the experiment according to the tutor's idea. But since

I also want to reserve my opinion, so he let the Tang Priest go first, and fell behind privately, and found a place to smash Hong Haier to death. this

The sample processing method not only takes into account the tutor's bottom line, but also retains his own experimental method, and finally lets the tutor know which one it is.

This method is more reasonable. Mice hardcover into women, in order not to conflict with Tang Priest, the Monkey King didn't mention monsters.

Do whatever your tutor tells you to do. The instructor said to follow. The Monkey King just left a mind's eye, everywhere.

Just pay attention. The Monkey King didn't expose Master's ignorance of monsters. He took care of master's face and followed his own principles.

The source pays attention to monsters, so what is the cautious treatment of savage monkeys in the early stage? After many experiments,

The Tang Priest has changed even more. Later, the disciples said that it was a monster or a monster. Fully respect the opinions and suggestions of apprentices. in the end

Later, the Tang Priest's opinions on his disciples were simply obedient. Mentors and disciples were like father and son, and brothers were like friends. How could they not be sighed? Rich

Aren't scholars and their tutors the same? Therefore, doctoral students who are now facing tension should learn to use it like the Monkey King.

Adapt to the tutor's problem-solving methods. The key is not to have too many unpleasant thoughts about the tutor, otherwise it will only make the heart

The demons are piling up and getting bigger.

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Four. Conclusion and prospect

I understand the relationship between teachers and students as the development of mentoring relationship. As a student, you should know exactly what to do. Learn from the Monkey King.

Trying to adapt to master's bottom line, is it wrong to fight monsters and robbers? There is nothing wrong with ordinary people, but this is the bottom line of Tang Priest.

This is the same as the bottom line or personality or way of doing things of many tutors, which is not necessarily reasonable or even correct, but

As a student, you still have to adapt. In the process of the apprentice's efforts to adapt, the mentor will also change, and Tang Priest will also change.

have you finished? Doctoral students complete the great cause of learning Buddhist scriptures with their tutors, rather than protecting or helping Tang Priest to learn Buddhist scriptures.

Doctoral students need to study classics (not to graduate with a degree) as their career. The contradiction is positive.

Often, but it's all for this cause. Learn to be patient in the face of the teacher's curse (criticism, etc.). ). No.

Don't argue, try to explain the problem in a way that the tutor can adapt. When you have a problem with your tutor, pretend anyway.

Yang Zicheng, who has no opinion, can't hide his opinion of his mentor. So instead of this, it is better to adapt to him completely.

Take the initiative to solve this contradiction like the Monkey King. Mentors, like Tang Priest, are actually very fragile and need your help.

But he has his own bottom line and way of doing things. Be sure to do things under this bottom line and way of doing things, and be true.

Heart. Otherwise, spiritually, there will be true and false demons like the Monkey King. These are not compromises or deals, but achievements.

Long experience is the wealth of life. The Monkey King can become a Buddha, not only because of how many monsters he destroyed, but also because.

Because he learned the philosophy of getting along well with Tang Priest.