China has been a patriarchal society since ancient times. I wonder, if there are no women, who can help them reproduce? What I don't understand most is that those mothers-in-law are not women themselves? Why do women embarrass women?
I have a cousin who was very lucky in the first half of her life. She married a man who was very kind to her, and then the house was occupied. Everyone in the family paid hundreds of thousands of demolition expenses, and the family became an upstart overnight. She has two daughters, so her mother-in-law and her mother want her to have another one and a son. Her husband now runs a company, which is doing very well. Her mother-in-law doesn't want the family property to be given to her future granddaughter. After all, he is a foreigner and has been forcing this cousin to have a son. After she was pregnant with her third child, they tried their best to make her take medicine and worship Buddha, hoping to have a boy. At that time, she went for a B-ultrasound, and was also called a boy. The family was very happy to welcome the child. As a result, a girl was born. No one but her husband wants to. Even her own mother scolded her, saying that she was useless and could not have a son. This is the thinking of rural people. It's all the daughter-in-law's fault. I can't have a son. They don't know that the sex of the child is decided by the father, because the mother-in-law and mother-in-law have been crying, leaving her alone. Only her brother-in-law takes care of himself occasionally. I really felt sorry for her. Her mother and mother-in-law are so hateful. How can you treat your daughter like this? Even if the whole world abandons her, the last person who should leave her is her mother. This is the current situation in rural areas, and the older generation still prefers boys to girls.