Hello, teachers and classmates For a long time, we have been used to using IQ to predict people's success.
We often say, "Wow, this man with such a high IQ will make a difference." But there are also some phenomena that cause people to think.
Why are some people top students in school, but they are "indifferent" and do nothing after entering the society? Why are some people relaxed and happy when facing difficulties and troubles? Some people are depressed and listless? Why do some people adapt well in any environment, while others are at a loss because of the slight adjustment of the environment? Therefore, in 1995, Daniel Gorman, a professor of psychology at Harvard University, put forward a new concept of emotional intelligence, which is what we usually call emotional intelligence. Dr. Gorman believes that predicting a person's success mainly depends on EQ rather than IQ.
EQ includes emotion, perception, evaluation, expression, analysis, acquisition, transformation and adjustment. In the final analysis, it is a tentative grasp and description of the inner strength of life. We can sum it up in five aspects.
To know your own ability, you can often reflect on yourself, know yourself from different angles and express yourself, because only by knowing yourself can you build your self-confidence. Controlling one's ability, controlling one's emotions and resolving some bad emotions is a key point of EQ. If a person can keep a cool head, he can restrain his excitement, make him happy and always keep an optimistic attitude.
The ability to work hard for one's own goals, doing things without external promotion, learning and doing things are spontaneous and automatic. Those who can resist short-term temptations can achieve lofty goals and have strong social adaptability only by looking far and not indulging in short-term interests.
Ability to deal with interpersonal relationships. Maintain harmonious interpersonal relationships, understand other people's mentality, respect other people's ideas, and learn to build interpersonal networks.
If IQ is mainly determined by people's innate genes, then EQ is mainly cultivated in acquired interpersonal communication and social life practice. It mainly begins in preschool, gradually forms in childhood and adolescence, and ends in adulthood.
Emotional intelligence is not limited by innate genes like IQ, but grows with the enrichment of life experience and the growth of learning knowledge. Emotional intelligence is a kind of spiritual strength, a kind of accomplishment and a kind of character quality.
People with high emotional intelligence have a long-term vision, a positive life and good interpersonal relationships. In contrast, these people are more likely to succeed than those with high IQ and low EQ. After the argument between our classmates about the comprehensive and scientific explanation of EQ, I want to put forward that EQ is an important and necessary factor for a person's success, and EQ is more important than IQ. A survey by Harvard University shows that 85% of the reasons for success, achievement and promotion are due to our correct emotions, and only 15% is due to our expertise.
This means that we spend 90% of our education time and money to study our 15% chance of success; And only spend 10% time and money to learn 85% chances of success. Cherman believes that people's psychological control and adjustment ability is an important guarantee for their adaptation to social survival and success.
Someone once did an experiment: let some 4-and 5-year-old children get a marshmallow each, and tell them to wait for a head before eating, and then they can get another marshmallow. But the result of the experiment is that there are not many children who can wait for an hour, but children who are patient can adapt to the environment, become more confident and reliable when they grow up, and their achievements in all aspects are higher than those who can't restrain themselves. It can be seen that for modern people, it is more important to successfully adjust their own psychology and emotions than IQ.
Including President Clinton and his wife, have clearly expressed their support for the development of EQ research and EQ education. Emotional intelligence is more concerned than IQ.
Let's give another example. There is a young man who works in an oil company in America. He doesn't have a high degree and no special skills. His work can even be done by a child, that is, patrolling hundreds of times a day to confirm whether the fuel tank is automatically welded. After a few days, he was bored, but in order to make a breakthrough in his work, he paid more attention to the welding work.
When he found that every time he operated, the solder dropped 39 drops, he conducted many experiments and finally invented the "38 drops" welding machine. His invention brings the company 500 million dollars in new profits every year. This young man is john rockefeller, an oil tycoon who later mastered 95% of the real power of the American oil industry.
A person with high emotional intelligence does not need external motivation to do things. He studies and does things spontaneously, so that even if his IQ is not higher than others, his grades can be better than others. Kerman also believes that emotional intelligence is one of the most important survival abilities of individuals.
Among the students here, the IQ is definitely higher than that of the debater, but why is it the other debater sitting in the debater chair today, not other students? The answer is simple, because the other debater's EQ is higher than theirs. So we say that people's emotional intelligence is more important than IQ.
2 1 century is an era of knowledge economy in which human high technology and high emotion are combined. It not only requires everyone in society to have a high IQ level, but also requires human nature with a high EQ. To sum up, we think eq is more important than IQ.
First of all, I pointed out a mistake made by the other debater. It is wrong for you to talk about science and IQ and equate IQ with science. The other party wrongly argued that she used the word "due diligence" when describing the work of scientists.
"Conscientiousness" requires hard work and high emotional intelligence, because it conforms to one meaning of emotional intelligence: working hard for the goal. Secondly, the other party told the story of Su Qin. After repeated lobbying, he finally understood his shortcomings and continued to study hard. The most fundamental reason is that he can "know himself", which is also in line with the meaning of emotional intelligence.
Thank you for providing us with such good evidence. Now, let me explain our point of view.
Everything must be traced back to the source. With the development of history, EQ and IQ have developed to a complementary period.
But hundreds of thousands of years ago, that is, people just knew how to use tools, everything was backward, people's knowledge and.
EQ is more important than IQ in the debate. Excuse me, in the process of debate, what is the positive side (that is, supporting emotional intelligence more than IQ)
In the past, it was thought that whether a person can succeed in life or not, the intelligence level is the first important, that is, the higher the IQ, the greater the possibility of success. But now psychologists generally believe that the level of emotional intelligence also has a great influence on a person's success, and sometimes its role even exceeds the level of intelligence. The main function of IQ is to understand things better. People with high IQ have excellent thinking quality, strong learning ability and deep understanding ability. It is easy to make outstanding achievements in a certain professional field and become an expert in a certain field. The survey shows that many people with high IQ become experts, scholars, professors, judges, lawyers, journalists and so on. And have high attainments in their own fields. Emotional intelligence is mainly related to irrational factors, which affect the motivation of cognitive and practical activities. It strengthens or weakens the driving force of understanding things by influencing people's interest, will and perseverance. Emotional intelligence is low but high. Although the learning efficiency is not as good as that of high IQ, sometimes you can learn better and achieve greater success than high IQ. In addition, EQ is a kind of ability to grasp and adjust the emotions of self and others, so it has a great relationship with the handling of interpersonal relationships. Its function is closely related to social life, interpersonal relationship, health status and marital status. Emotional intelligence is a kind of ability and a kind of creation. Emotional intelligence is also a skill. Since there are rules to follow, we can master it, and practice makes perfect. As long as we have more courage, wit, temper and emotional input, we will, like "emotional intelligence experts", create a relaxed environment conducive to our own survival, establish our own social circle and create a space for giving full play to our talents.
EQ is more important than IQ.
Counterparty: EQ is more important.
The characteristics of modern society generally believe that modern society, that is, industrial society, has the following opposites: emotional intelligence is more important. The characteristics of modern society generally believe that modern society, that is, industrial society, has the following characteristics: ① Specialized social mass production with the use of large machines and the consumption of inanimate energy as the core occupies a dominant position in social economy.
② Science and technology are highly developed, and the production efficiency has been comprehensively improved. ③ The social differentiation is intense and the social division of labor is fine.
(4) Social mobility has been enhanced, and industrial relations have replaced blood relations and geographical relations as the main form of people's social relations, and personal development opportunities and autonomy have increased. ⑤ The rule of law has replaced the rule of man as the basic way of political system operation, and the degree of social democratization has improved.
⑥ The number and scale of cities have increased, and the proportion of agricultural population has decreased to less than half. ⑦ The means of transportation and communication are highly developed, and individuals, groups, organizations, regions and countries are increasingly open.
(8) People's concepts are completely updated, and their sense of competition and time is strengthened. Advocating science, convincing truth and pursuing change have become people's basic behavior or value orientation. Interpretation of EQ: Psychology refers to people's emotional quality and adaptability to society.
Interpretation of IQ: the abbreviation of "IQ", an indicator of the level of intellectual development.
The calculation formula is that the intellectual age is divided by the actual age and then multiplied by 100. If the IQ is equal to 100, it means that children with average intelligence are smarter.
Emotional intelligence is the embodiment of people's comprehensive ability in complex and changeable social relations. In the modern and future society with increasingly complex interpersonal relationships, behavior is not only guided by the intelligence in the mind, but also by emotional intelligence. The so-called emotional intelligence refers to a person's communicative ability and ability to deal with people.
On the premise of a certain IQ, EQ is more important than IQ. The energy expressed by EQ is EQ effect.
In the highly competitive modern society, it is difficult to conquer the world successfully by our own efforts. People with high emotional intelligence and good at making friends have a very high chance of success in their careers. Look for Yu Shiwei's management tutorial, which has a discussion about EQ in business management.
I can say a little about debating skills. The first key is to clarify the basic concepts.
The definitions of EQ and IQ must be fixed, and there can be no loopholes for the other party to steal concepts on them. There is also a clear idea in your debate, that is, which is more important, so you can't deny the importance of IQ, but emphasize the "more" importance of EQ, otherwise you will lose the main line in the debate and prevent the other party from pulling your thoughts to deny the importance of IQ, which will lead to mistakes in your debate theme. The key link of the debate is the free question period of both sides, which was prepared for the previous opening debates. Therefore, we should make full use of the time before attack and defense, especially the four debaters, because they don't have to speak for a long time and have enough time to record the loopholes in the other side's argument.
The reason why I want to write my own defense is to think more about why in the process of writing. Only the arguments and arguments I have written can be used smoothly. I know where the loopholes will appear and how to make up for them. Because your defense is relatively favorable, it is not difficult to win.
There are many examples in real life. Another point, which can be used as the theme of sophistry, is the identification of IQ.
Since the other party emphasizes the importance of IQ, how can the other party determine the IQ of this successful person? If high IQ is more important than high EQ, then why do many big companies prefer to hire the most suitable employees instead of the smartest ones? (In fact, no one can prove this sentence, and naturally it cannot be refuted. Because you really only need the most suitable one).
Also, the focus is on modern society. If the other party cites a historical genius, such as Einstein, it can be completely refuted.
Of course, as a way to consolidate our argument, we must decide what is the performance of high emotional intelligence. Because EQ is different from IQ, there is a fixed quotient (in fact, there are test methods, but it is not as widely known as IQ), so you should define what aspects of high EQ are manifested in yourself.
The more detailed, the better. So you can have plenty of room to fight back when the other person asks questions.
People with good emotional intelligence are mostly managers; People with good IQ, that is, technical talents with high emotional intelligence, can overcome psychological obstacles and adjust their mentality, while people with high IQ are sometimes prone to get into a dead end. Men with high EQ know how to read and feel, and what women need, and it is easy to win women's hearts, while people with high IQ and low EQ are often more Mu Na. Only by knowing women can they learn things well and get started easily. And the director is calm and calm, and will analyze it carefully. EQ factors greatly affect IQ factors. Cao Cao's defeat in Battle of Red Cliffs because of Xiao Qiao shows that people with high IQ will succumb to emotions, and people with high EQ will make their IQ look pale. People with high emotional intelligence generally deal with interpersonal relationships, control their emotions well, have a broad vision and live a positive life. This is a comprehensive quality. People with high IQ may be slow. They don't know how to use it flexibly and often beat around the bush. Since EQ is emotional IQ, it is one grade higher than IQ. It is the sum of the whole. 2 1 century is the era of knowledge economy combining human high technology with high emotion, which requires not only everyone in society to have a high IQ level, but also human nature with high EQ. To sum up, we think eq is more important than IQ.
Secondly, it is said that for individuals and society, to prove that EQ is more important than IQ, it is necessary to prove that EQ is more helpful to individuals' long-term and comprehensive success. The ancients often said, outsmart. Zhou Yu, a very representative figure in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, was gifted and brilliant, but died because of Zhuge Liang's three souls. Without high emotional intelligence, how can he make long-term and comprehensive progress on the long road of life? For society, it should be proved that EQ is more conducive to social development and progress. High EQ means high quality. What is the goal of education today? Is it to improve the knowledge level or quality level of the whole people? Obviously the latter, doesn't this mean that emotional intelligence is more important than IQ? Features: ① The use of large machines has no elimination of life energy.
The argument that EQ is more important than IQ should be concise.
First of all, IQ is the source and foundation of EQ. Since the birth of mankind, people's IQ has been constantly improving and developing. From Suiren, who drilled wood to make a fire, to Edison, who invented the electric light, from Aristotle's view of motion and Ptolemy's theory of celestial motion, to Galileo's theory of free fall, Copernicus's theory of celestial motion, Newton's law of universal gravitation, to Einstein's general relativity and special relativity, these are not all new scientific breakthroughs. From near to far, from low to high, they are all the results of the rapid development of human IQ. On the other hand, EQ increases with age and knowledge. You can't leave a table full of food, but ask a baby in a room to face them and not touch it!
Secondly, improving IQ is the ultimate goal of human beings, and EQ is only a means to improve IQ. We have pointed out that EQ is a kind of ability to control emotions, and it serves IQ. We can see that many scientists in history have won people's praise for their rich knowledge.
Third, modern society needs a high IQ. Times need competition. Competition is a knowledge of survival of the fittest. I want to ask other students, which inventor in history has made outstanding contributions and is not a person with high IQ? Are they all high emotional intelligence?
What is IQ? IQ is a measure of a person's ability to understand objective things and use knowledge to solve practical problems. It is the product of the interaction of innate quality, educational influence and personal efforts. Therefore, please don't narrowly understand IQ as innate immutability.
Ask another debater to look at the great scientists in history. Whether it's the prince of mathematics Gauss, Roentgen, the discoverer of X-rays, the omnipotent Aristotle or Einstein, the founder of the theory of relativity, which of them has a low IQ? It is precisely because of scientists' conscientious pursuit of science that they have no time to take care of communication in their lives, so emotional intelligence is not outstanding.
It can be seen that IQ plays a decisive role in a person's success. People with low emotional intelligence can still succeed. Emotional intelligence is both expensive and expensive. Without IQ, there is no EQ, because IQ is the basis of EQ. Without a foundation, how can there be a superstructure?
Su Qin, a famous politician, lobbied for great powers with his eloquence and flexible thinking. It can be said that the EQ is quite high, but the other debater knows that in the early years, Su Qin also lobbied around with relish, but he got a rebuff. From then on, he knew the importance of knowledge, so he hung his head and studied hard behind closed doors, and finally became an outstanding politician.
It can be seen that no matter how high the emotional intelligence is, if there is no rich knowledge and solid foundation, it can only be a draw with a sieve-nothing.
IQ is the basis of EQ, which only plays an auxiliary role in the development of IQ.
Society just needs these talented doers, but who will pay attention to those who have no talent and high emotional intelligence?
Mr. Nan Guo, he just made up a few mistakes. He may succeed for a while, but what did his final failure prove? No matter how high the EQ is, it can't cover up the deficiency of IQ. Countless uneducated people are submerged in the long river of history, and a few talents with high IQ will eventually be discovered and reused by society.
Because knowledge is the guiding light of everything, and IQ is the premise of doing everything. Without this premise, nothing can be done. For example, we have a debate today. Isn't it just to make full use of our knowledge, find reference materials and discuss problems with each other with IQ?
. The interpretation of IQ in Ci Hai is that people's ability to know and understand objective things and to solve problems with knowledge and experience are not natural intelligence factors mentioned by the other party. Therefore, we believe that IQ should refer to the richness of people's knowledge and the ability to use this knowledge to solve practical problems. Second, the status of IQ and EQ is putting the cart before the horse. When we say that IQ is more important than EQ, we don't mean that a person doesn't need EQ or perseverance, but relatively speaking, IQ is the foundation and the source and foundation of a person's foothold in society, so we think IQ is more important than EQ.
What is the origin of a person's high emotional intelligence, strong communication skills and strong adaptability? From his high IQ and high level of knowledge. Emotional intelligence depends on IQ! A person knows how to struggle, how to work hard, and how to overcome difficulties with perseverance. Where does this come from? It is also because of his high level of knowledge. There are so many illiterate and semi-illiterate people in society. Don't they work hard? No, they haven't realized the importance of learning and struggle by IQ! Descartes said: "The more you study, the more you find your ignorance." The harder you will work, so we think IQ is the source of emotional intelligence.
Quotient (EQ), also known as EQ, is a concept corresponding to intelligence and IQ put forward by psychologists in recent years. Mainly refers to people's qualities in emotion, emotion, will and frustration tolerance.
In the debate between IQ and EQ, I am in the affirmative, and EQ is more important. Give me some arguments, and I am the fourth.
Emotional intelligence is a kind of ability, a kind of creation and a kind of skill. Since it is a skill, there are rules to follow, so it can be mastered, and practice makes perfect. As long as we have more courage, more wit, more exercise and more emotional input, we will create a relaxed environment conducive to our own survival and establish a social circle of our own, just like "EQ experts". Create a space to give full play to one's talents. High emotional intelligence respects human rights and personal dignity of all people. Don't impose your values on others. Have a clear understanding of yourself, be able to work under pressure, be confident but not complacent, and have good interpersonal relationship. Get along well with friends or colleagues. Be good at dealing with all kinds of problems in life. Take everything seriously. High EQ is a responsible "good" citizen. Self-esteem and independent personality, but in some cases it is easy to be infected by other people's anxiety. More confident but not complacent. Good interpersonal relationship can deal with most problems without too much psychological pressure. People with low emotional intelligence are easily influenced by others. Their goal is not clear. They are better at forgiving, controlling their brains and coping with less anxiety than people with low emotional intelligence. They base their self-esteem on the approval of others. They lack a firm sense of self. Their interpersonal relationship is very poor. They have poor emotional intelligence and self-awareness. They don't have a clear goal and don't intend to put it into practice. They are heavily dependent on others. Their interpersonal skills are poor. Their ability to cope with anxiety is very poor. They lead a chaotic life. They are irresponsible and full of complaints. In short, they are EQ-oriented.
Prove that emotional intelligence is more important than IQ. It is more important to state EQ than IQ in the debate.
IQ: professional knowledge, logical thinking ability and learning ability. IQ generally refers to IQ, which is a general method to measure a person's thinking and reasoning ability. However, IQ in the workplace refers to the knowledge and skills related to the position. In addition, IQ also represents the ability of logical thinking and the ability to learn and solve problems. Especially in the era of knowledge economy, the current ability of individuals will be quite damaged in two or three years. Therefore, it is particularly important to maintain the ability to learn. In terms of skills, not only professional skills, but also communication and English skills are very important. Under the trend of globalization, if you can't communicate well, it's difficult to give full play to your talents. EQ: Work Enthusiasm EQ refers to a person's "emotional IQ", which depends on whether a person is passionate about work and life, whether he is a "compassionate" and "sensitive" person, and at the same time. Ha ha.
Which is more important, EQ or IQ?
First of all, I have to say that EQ is a very useful thing. It's very important to read people's minds and communicate with others. At the same time, IQ is also indispensable, because without IQ, at least it will be very troublesome. Let me give you an example. If a person's EQ is high and IQ is low, he will be in trouble in primitive accumulation, because the way out now is the mode of studying-college entrance examination-key university-good job now. Without the help of IQ, it is difficult to achieve early results. If it is after graduation, such as work, then emotional intelligence is obviously the most important thing for people who have already embarked on the society, because communication and communication allow them to deal with people all the time. Then having extraordinary emotional intelligence will definitely help. To sum up, we can see that IQ and EQ occupy different positions in different stages of life. So this decision is made according to different time periods. But overall, it will be more powerful.
It is argued that IQ is more important than EQ in today's society.
IQ is not only the basis of EQ, but also a means to improve IQ.
Gorky said: "Only knowledge is power. Only knowledge can make us love people honestly, respect their labor and sincerely appreciate the wonderful achievements of uninterrupted great labor. Only knowledge can make us strong, honest and rational people. " Ignorant people can only live like animals, while learned people will pursue virtue and make up for their spiritual defects by seeking knowledge.
Just like having an economic foundation, there is a corresponding superstructure! Moreover, a person's success does not mean his ability to understand himself and deal with emotions, but his contribution to society and even all mankind. If you have enough IQ, you can accumulate enough knowledge, discover your ignorance, continue to fight for it, increase more knowledge and finally succeed.
EQ is not the decisive factor of success. The great artist Van Gogh was sensitive and irritable all his life. He was frustrated again and again in his love life, and later his brother cut him off. But it was this distress and enthusiasm that prompted Van Gogh to immerse himself in the world of painting.
Newton, the great physicist, was taciturn in middle school, but now he is stubborn and withdrawn in the information about his life. As for the story that he once entertained a friend, because he thought of the problems in scientific research, he immediately ran back to the laboratory and left his friend alone in the living room.
These two masters seem to have low emotional intelligence, but we have to admit that their careers are extremely successful. It can be seen that people with low emotional intelligence can succeed, but IQ plays a decisive role in a person's success.
Let's look at the importance of IQ in today's society. Relevant research shows that the gap between developed and developing countries is essentially a knowledge gap. It is true that the natural resources of developing countries account for most of the world, but more than 90% of the world's scientific and technological investment, and scientific and technological personnel and activities are concentrated in developed countries, which makes many developing countries have to rely on developed countries to develop their own economies and be in a passive position in economic globalization.
Bill Gates said: "In today's era, the most important thing is the brain, not the muscles. Any good idea may make you unexpectedly rich in lightning. Therefore, the foothold or existence foundation of leaders in the era of knowledge economy is leading ideas, brains, thoughts and thinking. "
Imagine that if a person has no ink on his chest and low IQ, he will be in a passive position in the ever-changing competition of the times. You learn a lot, and there may be amazing quips in your speech; If you are just a poor scholar, you will often get cold feet and chase after him.
Without IQ, how can we grasp the laws and essence of things through complicated phenomena? Without IQ, how can you be sharp-eyed, see one point and analyze the problem to the point? Without IQ, how can you find out the situation, clear your mind and keep a clear head at all times? To sum up, IQ is the decisive factor for success. EQ is valuable and IQ is more expensive! Since 2000, people have been used to measuring talents by IQ, and modern research shows that the decisive factor of talent success is not only IQ, but also EQ. A considerable number of people who succeed in the field of management are people who are considered to have low IQ in school.
We often see such a person, who has received higher education, and his IQ enriches his knowledge, enabling him to work in a unit or engage in a research work smoothly. If he has high emotional intelligence, stable mood, strong ability to adapt to the environment, has low requirements for the outside world, superiors and colleagues, has a proper evaluation of himself, does not "swell with heat and contract with cold" because of external influence, can "rally" when frustrated, can constantly improve his psychological quality, and never complains about others or is pessimistic and disappointed.
Only in this way can his IQ and potential be brought into full play, and he can be comfortable and successful in his work. On the other hand, although a person has a high IQ, he is conceited and has a low EQ, and he is troubled by the unsatisfactory environment around him day and night. Then his ending is either cynicism or narcissism, and he can't get along with society, company and colleagues. If you are high, you will not be low, and you will be mediocre all your life; Or go astray and be destroyed by high IQ crimes.
Therefore, whether a person is successful or not is as important as IQ. People often attach importance to IQ and ignore EQ.
As can be seen from the above examples, people with high IQ can achieve something in their majors, while people with high EQ can achieve something in management and operation. No matter what career you succeed in, successful people often have high IQ and EQ.
Therefore, in modern management, managers should learn more about EQ. Although EQ has a natural component, it can be continuously improved through continuous learning and experience accumulation, so high EQ is not an unattainable thing.
If you want to be a successful person, you should not only learn new knowledge and skills in related fields, but also consciously improve your emotional intelligence, which can affect the exertion of other abilities. Intelligence quotient (IQ) is a tool to express intelligence level, and it is also a common method to measure intelligence level. The IQ level reflects the intelligence level.
Emotional quotient (EQ) is the ability to express one's emotions. The level of EQ reflects the difference of emotional quality.
Emotional intelligence plays a more important role in people's success than IQ. IQ and EQ are both important psychological qualities of people and an important foundation for career success.
So both of them are indispensable in our work and life. Of course, it is impossible to split the two factors 50-50. Which do you think is more important in the face of the two major factors of success? Answer the supplement. In Ci Hai, IQ is explained as follows: people's ability to know and understand objective things and solve problems by using knowledge and experience includes memory, observation, imagination, thinking and judgment.
Emotional intelligence mainly includes self-awareness of people's emotions, recognition of others' emotions, empathy and moderate response and adaptability. We think IQ is more important than EQ. First of all, IQ is the source and foundation of EQ.
Since the birth of mankind, people's IQ has been constantly improving and developing. Suiren, drill wood for fire.