"If you want to stop, you will lose your desire; If you are not satisfied, you will lose it. "
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Flowers bloom and fall, and how many merciless storms have been tasted, but they have a lifetime significance:
Wild geese come and go, and when they are a few years old, their vegetation withers and glows, but they are engraved with the joys and sorrows of their lives.
In a hurry, feelings begin to disappear, only in a snap of your fingers. In the meantime, it is the time to pursue dreams in life.
Careerists' courses are mediocre and tend to go far away. On the occasion of this vast sea and sky, the turbulent sea and waves float the thoughts of the helmsman again and again, full of inner desire. The fearless shoal reef, though covered in mud, can't put out the burning desire.
After several twists and turns, after several angry waves, the sail fell, the ship sank and the dream dispersed. Stop and look back. The careerist's journey only presents a winding track, which only represents a dull existence. Although I have struggled with the waves, after all, I lost too much beauty on the road of chasing my dreams, just to satisfy my endless desires.
Because of the Tao, "disaster is greater than dissatisfaction, and blame is greater than desire" is also reasonable.
Life begins with the whirlpool of tears, and it is normal to have a rainy season in autumn. And life will eventually disappear, which is not sad. Walking on the road of life, many people are blindly extending the length of life: many people are struggling to pursue the height of life, but they don't know that life is a return, just to find a home for the soul.
Life is full of plants and trees. Then, on the way home, the tired heart chased one journey after another. And only "the contented are always happy!"
A contented man is a wise man in life. Survival of the fittest and survival of the fittest are eternal principles between heaven and earth. Respect for life, only those who are satisfied can have a normal mind, abandon fetters, accomplish the set goals well, and then work hard step by step, be content, reserve energy for the next journey, and struggle endlessly.
A contented man is a wise man in spirit. An acre of thin land, a pot of green tea, a plate of sandalwood and a guqin are quiet and idle. With a shallow glass full of knowledge, the smiling face of the sea blooms in the spring. Tao Yuanming quietly isolated himself from the world and lived in Nanshan; Meng Haoran stayed in the farmhouse and retired from the countryside. Although Ruan Ji hung out in the shops of the wine market and mingled with the vendors, he was dismissive of high officials' wealth and flashy fame and fortune. What they pursue is a kind of spiritual satisfaction that ordinary people can't understand, and there are also pleasures that outsiders can't see.
Content is a kind of wisdom; Happiness is a state of mind. There are two tragedies in life. First, despair; The other is complacency. Only when you are satisfied can you find a proper balance between endless desires and limited potential, and do your best, so that you can have no regrets in life.
Because of Tao, contentment is always happy, and life is full of wisdom.
The road of life is long, and the wind and rain are several degrees cold. Contentment, honor and disgrace, gain and loss, all in a joke!
If you are trained all your life, you will be satisfied with simple food.
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There is half a glass of water on the table, and pessimists will complain about its deficiency; Optimists will be glad that there is still half a glass of water, so the latter will be satisfied.
The same half glass of water, two completely different feelings. This tells us to treat everything with a normal heart and learn to thank life and fate with gratitude. When we know how to be content, life will be less complaining and brighter.
"You can't have your cake and eat it", which is thought-provoking. If a person is wishful thinking, his greedy heart will never be satisfied and may even pay a heavy price.
Chang 'e abandoned her husband and stole the elixir of life in an attempt to become immortal, in exchange for the infinite coldness and loneliness of Guanghan Palace; Little Shenyang's high position and power are still not satisfied, and his malpractice for personal gain has left him with eternal shame. Zhuangzi, Tao Qian and other hermits, indifferent to fame and fortune, live in the world, but they have made a beautiful talk that will last forever.
This is the dialectics of the world. God let the bad guys enjoy all the happiness, but in the end it was at the expense of severe punishment. God gives good people peace and happiness, but makes good people go through hardships. This is fair, so don't complain. Life is like this. Nothing is absolutely satisfactory to you. The key is whether you are satisfied and optimistic about life.
However, contentment is not just being content with the status quo and not seeking progress, but an adequate attitude towards life. If you mistake contentment for complacency and hold back, you will only become a frog in the well.
Contentment means that your parents buy you toy modules, and you can assemble them yourself. Contentment means that a friend sends you a card, and you are not picky. Contentment means cherishing all hard-won things, including life. Satisfied with chewing the roots of vegetables, and satisfied with the eternal warm sunshine in my heart.
Contentment means avoiding psychological imbalance. When people give, they often expect and take. When they give, they must ask for something in return, but the result is often unsatisfactory. That's because they take gains and losses too seriously, are dissatisfied, and of course are often disappointed.
Please remember: if you learn to be content, you will have a bright heart and less troubles; Learn to be content, in order to better understand the bitterness and joy of life; Only when everyone knows how to be content can our social family be harmonious, calm, comfortable and sincere. Because contentment is always happy!
In this era of survival of the fittest, human beings only care about money, reputation and status, but they just ignore the moral concepts often preached on TV or radio, and simply forget the noble character taught by their ancestors. In this case, there is no need to talk more about contentment, because the basic elements are not taken seriously, let alone the character of indifference. As a student, I also turn a blind eye to this topic, but after reading this report recently, I have to talk about this topic, so that more people who pursue prosperity can stop and listen to contentment. What are the elements and harmonious forces to meet the needs, so that it can become a way of human success today?
That report was written like this,
The girl is the only single girls in the family. Her father runs a large garage, and her mother is an unemployed person, temporarily staying at home as a housewife. Since she was an only child in the family, her parents loved her very much, and even suffered from the wind and rain. Unconsciously, she also developed a pampered and supercilious character. One day, she and her parents had a holiday to save a trip to China and Sichuan. During the trip, they all had a good time, talking and laughing. Unfortunately, the night before returning to China, when the girl was watching the beautiful scenery on the balcony of the hotel, an electric shock made her slip. The girl began to be afraid. She cried and cried for her mother's help, and her parents lifted her up regardless of the willy-nilly. This is because the earthquake is getting stronger and stronger. The girl's parents accidentally knocked down the flowerpot and fell from the tall building in an unstable situation. The girl panicked. She rushed downstairs, pushed me into the new building and rushed to the body of her parents. She cried her eyes out, asked passers-by for help, and took them to the hospital with the help of a kind person. But the good times didn't last long, and the doctor finally declared them dead.
This fact is simply cruel. At this moment, the girl realized how important it was to be content, and the so-called economic needs were completely discarded ... What really mattered was that her parents never left her. Judging from this report, we don't often do this. Do we know what is the most important thing in the world after losing it? In fact, contentment is a very valuable virtue. As long as people are willing to relax their self-care and are stronger than luxury, becoming a truly contented person is no longer an unattainable thing. In addition, people should learn four behaviors, that is, treat themselves as others, representing setbacks and failures, and treat themselves as others, so as to stay out of it and face difficulties calmly; When you succeed, become famous, and treat yourself as someone else, you will not be complacent; Treat others as yourself, treat people, handle things from the standpoint of others, naturally sympathize with others and help them more; Treat others as others, do not interfere with others' freedom, and learn to respect others; Think of yourself as yourself, learn to be independent, don't form the habit of relying on others, and know how to take responsibility.
In a word, as a human being who can survive on the earth, he should be content and happy, and then his life will be happy.
Since ancient times, the highest state of life is contentment.
Because of the occasional sunshine bath, the grass is happy for a long time. It didn't expect more opportunities. Flowers show the most beautiful side to people, who regard it as happiness, although that kind of beauty will be replaced by withering. Birds are happy to have a home. Even if this home is a little humble and will experience ups and downs, it is warm.
Life is hard to be satisfied, and it is even harder to be satisfied.
Reality is often cruel. Evil money, because of it, many people step by step into the bottomless abyss. It is also said that money is not everything, but it is absolutely impossible without money. Maybe its power is too tempting for some people. People on earth are good at living. Perhaps, they once had a kind heart, but quietly, inadvertently, gently covered with a kind gauze.
Contentment is a kind of relaxed happiness. It doesn't have to be bound by any shackles, any cold power struggle.
Of course, people will inevitably have greed, but whether it can be calmed down is different. People are usually satisfied and want more things they don't have. This is human nature. Sometimes even by hook or by crook, but what's the point?
Happiness lies in contentment, life geometry.