There are many wonderful slang words about the campus life of contemporary college students.

For example, "As long as you are brave, you can rest for seven days a week", such as "class is just playing mobile phones in another place", or "college life is incomplete without skipping classes and failing classes".

Decadence and depravity, like an epidemic, spread quietly among these young people who just turned 18.

Without the pressure of further education and the supervision of teachers and parents in life, they really wasted their youth under the title of "going to college is fun"

Probably because the shackles that have been tied for more than ten years have suddenly been untied, they have not learned the skills of "self-management".

When they regard the university campus as a place to have fun with the idea of "going to college anyway", the consequences are quietly coming.

? 2. Those who died in the university

Those young people who are studying in universities always laugh at themselves and say that the peak of IQ has passed. They said that they could do nine courses in English, mathematics, physics, history and biochemistry in high school, but they really became "unlearned" after going to college.

"My IQ is beginning to decline", which is their common reason. They have never reflected on the scientific nature of this sentence.

? 3, high scores into the university, low energy is eliminated.

In addition to physical decline, there are more consequences waiting for universities to indulge themselves.

During the Spring Festival of 20 14, a young tramp stayed here for three consecutive nights on a bench in Jiulidi Campus of Southwest Jiaotong University in Chengdu. Eight years ago, this young "tramp" became the top science scholar in a county of Liangshan with a high score of nearly 650 points, and was admitted to China University of Science and Technology. His name is Liu Ning. After he was admitted to China University of Science and Technology, he failed to find an ideal job and began to abandon himself and wander the streets.

4. China students who were ruined by one sentence.

In 20 16, the Social Investigation Center of China Youth Newspaper conducted a survey on 2002 respondents who were studying or graduating from universities. The results show that 83. 1% of the respondents have the experience of skipping classes during college, and 50.8% of the respondents have the experience of finding someone else to replace them.

Respondents who have experienced truancy said that the main reason for truancy is the conflict between class time and other activities time (37.3%), followed by lax assessment, and it doesn't matter whether they go to class or not (3 1.8%). Other reasons are: laziness (3 1. 1%), dislike of teachers (28. 1%), thinking that the course itself is not important (27.5%), preferring self-study (20.9%) and the course is too difficult to learn (12.3).

It can be seen that some wayward excuses such as "lazy", "it doesn't matter whether you go or not", "unimportant", "don't want to study" and "don't like teachers" have become the main reasons for most college students to skip classes.

Compared with the fixed classrooms, fixed hours, fixed class teachers and teachers in high schools, the university's course arrangement really gives everyone more freedom. It is this freedom that has become an outlet for the pressure of college entrance examination to rebound.

According to the family practice in China, it seems that the ultimate goal of education is to let children get into a good university.

From the day the child enters kindergarten, he has entered the state of preparing for the college entrance examination. Whether you want to enter a key junior high school, a key senior high school, a key rocket class or even a "Qingbei class", all the arrows point to one place: the entrance to a good university.

Because of this, the two children who were suppressed by the college entrance examination for 18 years were strictly disciplined by their parents and even deprived of the opportunity to see the world. As a result, as soon as they enter the university, they will find themselves in a utopia they have never seen before.

The urgent pressure to enter a higher school, the constant supervision of parents and teachers, and the strict management of hours are all gone. Just like a spring that has been suppressed for a long time, the feeling of loosening and liberation can be seen.

But because of this, such a rebound is also fierce and even devastating.

5. Don't let the university become the beginning of depravity.

If you "untie yourself" just because of the words of your parents and teachers, and then blame others, it will only make matters worse.

How to regulate and manage this phenomenon requires the efforts of more than one party.

For college students, self-management is more important than study.

Nowadays, many general education courses in universities will teach college students how to plan their time, manage their lives and provide psychological health consultation.

However, these courses can only play an auxiliary role. The real effect on students depends on individual efforts.

Perhaps the most effective way is to set a goal. Whether you are pursuing further studies or looking for a job, once you have a clear understanding of the qualifications needed in reality, you will naturally not slack off easily.

However, to improve the root cause of "falling down as soon as you go to college", you can't just look for problems from college students.

It is even more irresponsible for colleges and universities to relax the management of their studies and turn a blind eye to cheating, skipping classes and failing classes.

Higher education should not be the short board of the barrel. Only strict and effective management can deliver useful talents to the society and prevent the situation of "the top scholar graduating to find a job" from happening again.

Persuasion after the event is a helpless move, and only by "treating" before a person falls into a hole can we get rid of this root cause.

Parents and teachers should not only build spiritual support for their children before the college entrance examination, but also help them make a "long-term life plan" after 18.

The pressure of college entrance examination really needs to be released, but how to reduce the pressure reasonably is the place that needs to be considered more. Throwing a stressed child out suddenly will only backfire.

The most important thing is to educate children. The college entrance examination is not the ultimate goal of life, but the word "fate".