Politeness is very important in life and society. In real life, many contradictions and disputes and impoliteness often lead to unnecessary troubles and even irreparable consequences. So I think everyone should learn to be polite now. As the saying goes, take a step back and broaden the horizon. Let's look at the impoliteness in traffic. According to the survey, there are more than 1000 traffic accidents in China every day. Why are there so many traffic accidents? Although there are many reasons for this situation, one of the main reasons is that you are not polite.
For example, overtaking by force is impolite. Can't we just wait to make way? Why make fun of your life? There is also traffic jam, which is also a special case of impoliteness. If everyone is polite and orderly, then traffic jams for many hours or even longer will not happen; There is also running a red light, which is also impolite. Why not let the green side pass smoothly? Why gamble your life because of greed? From the well-known traffic accidents, I believe everyone can appreciate the importance and necessity of comity. Let's take a look at our students. Many primary and middle school students often quarrel over trifles, some even fight, and some even cause heavy casualties.
Think about it, if both sides can be polite, then many things can be solved smoothly. Learn comity, big things can be reduced, small things can be reduced; If you don't learn to be polite, you may make a big fuss about small things and get out of control. I once learned this lesson: one day I accidentally stepped on a person's foot, and that person scolded me angrily. I thought to myself at that time, why are you so fierce? I am not easy to bully, so I scolded him, too. So the conflict intensified, and then there was a fight. I beat him black and blue, and he hit me against the wall. As a result, the two of us not only lost hundreds of dollars in medical expenses to each other, but also got criticized at the school meeting. Look, a little thing like accidentally stepping on each other's feet. Because it is impolite, this is the result. If only one party had been polite, there would have been no serious consequences afterwards.
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You make me, civilized and fashionable. After listening to this sentence, it will definitely make people feel warm and kind. In modern society, who can really "step back and broaden the horizon"? In terms of comity, modern people lag far behind ancient people.
The story of "Kong Rong makes pears" is a household name. Kong Rong's humility touched many people. However, most of the problems encountered by modern people do not give in to each other, leading to tragedies in the three places.
There is such a news in the newspaper. One night, Yang attended a party and got drunk. Although drunk, he drove bravely and was ready to go home. But on the road, his car was scratched with the car of the victim Cai Moumou. Both of them were drunk and flew into a rage when they saw their cars scratched. The two of them opened the car door, got out of the car and blamed each other. Because two people do their jobs. Soon, it changed from a small flame to a fire. Yang moumou sees noisy but Cai moumou. He became angry from embarrassment and even raised his hand and threatened to hit Cai Moumou. Cai Moumou is not afraid at all. I put my hand over my face and let him hit me. Yang flew into a rage, grabbed a brick and jumped on Cai. The two scuffled, and Yang's wife was in the car. However, instead of stopping her husband's uncivilized behavior, she is still fanning the flames. Finally, she called a lot of tough boys and beat Cai together. Later, a tragedy happened and Cai was beaten to death.
If they are willing to take a step back, will such a tragedy happen again? Why in this society, when problems arise, they are not solved in a civilized way, but in such a reckless way? Why can't everyone take a step back?
"Let" is a civilized way to solve problems; "Let" can make society better and more civilized.
In life, hours can usually be solved by "letting". For example, when there are many hitchhikers, we have to stand aside and let the old people get on first; When friends are in conflict, as long as they take a step back, they can roll with the punches. Sometimes, "laissez-faire" can also prevent some big accidents. As the saying goes, "Take a step back and broaden the horizon."
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Sitting on the bus every day at school, I often pay attention to such a slogan: "Give your seat to those in need, thank you for giving your seat to the human beings!" Playing beside the green space of Huaihe Cultural Square on holidays will also pay attention to the prompt on the Xiao Mu card in the grass: "You respect my life, I will dedicate you to the green." There are many similar slogans in daily life, such as "a small step forward, a big step forward for civilization" and so on. Whenever I see such a hint, my heart is always warm and there is an unspeakable comfort.
* * * It is not far from our classmates to build a harmonious society and learn to be polite. It is around us, at every moment of our lives. To be an emissary of civilization, we must start from ourselves. It can be a casual helping hand, a brief greeting, an approving look, a knowing smile, or a silent encouragement ... Then I remembered a short story: a reporter interviewed a Nobel Prize winner scientist, "Professor, where did you learn the most important thing in life?" The professor replied without thinking: "In kindergarten." Then he added: "There, I learned something that will benefit me for life. For example, I have a lot to share with my friends, so I should be modest and wash my hands before eating ... "The same is true for students to improve their civilized behavior. We don't have to make any big moves, but we should start with small things like eating and washing our hands around us, develop civilized habits and let civilization run through our every move.
Learning comity should be a sincere effort of our classmates, and it is not rewarding. Every day, I come to the classroom early and clean it up. When I saw my classmates sitting in the clean and bright classroom, I was sincerely happy. I think I have done my part for the class. I will help my sick classmates cook and sweep the floor at noon. Although it is very small, it makes me understand a truth: help others and be happy!