Wei Linggong, the Analects of Confucius: "Confucius said: Miao Yan was in chaos, and there were minor disturbances." Zhu Zhu notes The Analects of Confucius: "It is unbearable to be small, like a woman's benevolence and a man's courage." He also said: "a woman's benevolence cannot endure love;" If you are brave, you can't stand anger, but you can make great plans. " ("Zhuzi Language" Volume 45) Yang Shuda, a close friend, can't bear to have three meanings: "I can't bear to be angry"; "The grace is unbearable, and the righteousness cannot be cut"; "Reluctant to part with money" (The Analects of Confucius).

If you don't tolerate making concessions on small things, you will upset some big plans in the future!

Picking up sesame seeds and losing watermelon is a blessing.

take for example

During the Sui Dynasty, Yang Di was very cruel, and peasant uprisings surged everywhere. Many officials of the Sui Dynasty also turned to help peasant rebels. Therefore, Emperor Yang Di was very suspicious, and he was even more suspicious of North Korean ministers, especially foreign ministers.

Tang Guogong Li Yuan (that is, Tang Taizu) served as central and local officials for many times. Everywhere he went, he married local heroes carefully and established kindness in various ways, so his reputation was high and many people came to join him. In this way, everyone is worried about him, afraid of being suspected by Emperor Yang Di. At this moment, Emperor Yang Di sent someone to meet him in Tang gaozu's palace. Tang gaozu was unable to go because of illness. Emperor Yang Di was very unhappy, and he had some doubts. At that time, Li Yuan's niece, Wang, was the emperor's concubine. Yang Di asked her why Tang gaozu would appear in the court in the future. Wang said she was ill and asked, "Will she die?" ?

Wang told the news, and the latter became more cautious. He knew that Emperor Yang Di would not allow him sooner or later, but he got up early and had no strength, so he had to wait patiently. As a result, he deliberately ruined his reputation, indulged in debauchery and made a splash all day. When Yang Di heard this, he really let his guard down. In this way, Taiyuan rose and the Tang Empire was established.

For example, in life, your boss is a little picky about you. If you don't have the heart to fire your boss, it may affect your future development in this industry!

Zhao Kuo couldn't bear Tian Lei's provocation and rushed to send troops, resulting in 400,000 Zhao troops being buried alive.