Definition of love-love is a willingness to constantly expand self-boundaries and achieve self-improvement in order to promote the mental maturity of oneself and others. From this sentence, we can know that love is an action, an action produced by will. The ability to love is the biggest foundation of emotional happiness, so instead of looking for it from the outside, it is better to look back at your heart and cultivate your ability to love. In life, we will find an interesting phenomenon, that is, some ordinary-looking people never lack peach blossoms around them. The reason is that they have the ability to love, and they can show their independence, optimism, sincerity, enthusiasm and understanding in front of others. In fact, we all have this ability, but we just need some methods to cultivate it. For example, always find the beauty of life. Rodin once said that we don't lack beauty, what we lack is the eyes that discover beauty. There are many interesting things around us, and interesting things are waiting for us to discover. We should be good at discovering the beauty of life, such as the tenderness of the first ray of sunshine in the morning and the strange girl smiling at you by the roadside. These are all beautiful things around us, which are worth discovering and experiencing with our heart. Find a harmonious and loving group. Maybe it's your class, maybe it's a club, maybe it's your social circle. Either way, first of all, there should be a deep emotional connection between the members of this group, so that you can feel a sense of belonging and a big family.

Then, actively participate in all kinds of affairs in this group. A group will always have a goal to strive for, and everyone needs to work hard for this goal. In this process, you will feel the joy of cooperating with others.